Give a dog a bad name and hang him. Many people are often overwhelmed by gossip. So, how do you deal with gossip?

There was a friend who was once embattled, and he knew exactly where and how so-and-so was scolding him, when, where and who was attacking him, and he could find the opponent to confront him, but he didn't do it.

He calmly and objectively analyzed the root causes of others' attacks on him, pretended not to know and talked to the people concerned one by one, he succeeded in quelling the gossip, and the people who attacked him respected him and later became friends with him.

He said that the way to conquer others is sometimes to be foolish and not crazy. The road of life is long and difficult to walk, why should we be obsessed with some unpleasant words, to fight for a fish to die and delay the time to do the right thing?

There is a staff member, many people rumored that he spent more than a year managing money and embezzled 300,000 yuan. He pretended not to know about it, and one day in a meeting he made his accounts public, the total annual income of this unit is only 800,000 yuan, 300,000 yuan is handed over, and more than 350,000 yuan is used to pay wages to employees, where can I embezzle 300,000 yuan?

Moreover, the financial accounts are cleared on a daily basis and settled on a monthly basis. As soon as the facts are clear, the rumors are self-defeating. In life, being able to be frank and tolerant not only makes problems easy to solve, but also improves one's personality and is respected.

The bad words are raised, indicating that there seems to be something wrong with me, at least there is a lack of an exchange of ideas with the speaker, and a lack of emotional connection.

Force cannot conquer people's hearts and slander, and it will also bury greater resistance and hidden dangers. Therefore, we should strive to practice it in our relationships

"Open", communicate with more people, contact more often, listen more to others' opinions on yourself, let others listen to your opinions, analyze more substantive issues, eliminate misunderstandings, and block bad words.

You respect people, people respect you, although it is a vulgar country slang, but it is very insightful. In real life and work, some people always like to juggle their tongues, regardless of the bitterness and happiness of others; Or with ill intentions, with ulterior motives

"Gossip", hurting people. As a result, a lot of them were

Those who "flow" are exhausted and miserable, and even worse, their wives are separated and their families are ruined because of gossip and bad words.

Many of the world's economic strongmen have great wisdom and foolishness, and they are willing to give others in the fierce competition in the market

"Stupid",

"Clumsy" did not dare to take a step beyond the impression of the thunder pool. It is only after several fights that competitors and the world can see their true colors of good plans and plans.

At that time, they not only defeated their opponents and made hundreds of millions of profits, but also laid a solid foundation for the business of manipulating the market to expand.