Parents always expect too much from their children.

However, Li He is like this, the child has become a Chan, and he is more concerned about his health and happiness.

Li He knelt in front of the princess and cried as a tired man.

Although he has had countless pleasures, all kinds of non-stop flattery, and has lived a good life over the years, he has always lost the object of his original desire to prove his ability.

People's understanding of filial piety often varies in different periods.

The starting point is surprisingly consistent.

It is to become stronger by yourself, so that your parents can work less and live more comfortably. Even if it is the emperor's family, the crown prince is also diligent and disrespectful when his parents are seriously ill.

However, leisure is not the end of humanity.

Sociality determines that people must be useful to others in society in order to get greater value embodiment.

This kind of goal can be roughly explained as the realization of the liberation of the people around you by achieving various goals through high requirements for yourself.

It looks great, but this kind of filial piety is actually too selfish.

First, everyone will expect emotional returns, no one is born to live for others, and denying one's own worth will inevitably lead to more emotional problems.

The higher the expectations, the more terrifying the emotional outbursts will be when they are questioned. Deny the past and label yourself a fool.

Second, self-enhancement belongs to the expectation of parents for their children, so that they can have more freedom and choice in the future. will not be forced to do all kinds of unpleasant things due to the situation, and it is more not to feed themselves.

Therefore, filial piety has little to do with strengthening oneself when the children can live well.

Money can buy a lot of things, but it doesn't solve anyone's emotional needs.

Especially people like Shen Sanwen who don't pursue too much.

Li He has thought very clearly over the years, and it may also be related to the fact that he has children.

Of course, he wants his children to be strong in all aspects and to be proud of them.

It is not a desire to benefit from the strength of children, but simply to be an elder.

A father who does something for his children when necessary.

This also made him more aware of the meaning of filial piety, caring about whether they were happy or not, whether there were any difficulties, and it was best to accompany one or two to relieve their difficulties.

He heard that Shen Sanwen was collecting cats and dogs, and immediately found someone to send them. Over the years, the specialties from all over the world, no matter what good things the princess needs, have never been interrupted, and they are always supplied first.

But over the years, he has lost the courage.

It's definitely not that I don't have time, but I haven't faced it for a long time, I don't know how to get along, what can I say.

Until Shen Sanwen's letter came, he had no worries and came happily.

Look, his parents miss him.

The two of them were just talking to some parents, and the princess didn't mean to ask about political affairs, although Li He wanted to say it.

There will be differences between the two, and the elders often choose to avoid talking about it, and what really has an impact on their son is useless to mention it now.

As long as the person is good.

Later, after the two finished speaking, when Li He saw Shen San asking, he didn't know what to say.

"How has my father been doing all these years?" Although Shen Sanwen was not stern, Li He was a little nervous when he saw him, and he didn't know how he evaluated him now.

At first, I was still concerned about the beginning of the greeting.

Shen San asked and replied, "It's very idle here, and it was a little boring at first, but then your Uncle Wang Shi came, so it was not so boring." He has a dog, and the baby is tight, and there are many times when he teases him for his father. ”

Shen Sanwen planned to introduce some maintenance knowledge to him, but Li He didn't seem to be very interested.

After all, he is a young man, and now he is physically tough, and he can't feel the weakness of the elderly.

Li He finally asked a question that he was very concerned about, "Am I a good son of my father?" ”

"Of course it is." Shen Sanwen answered very easily.

Li He actually didn't understand why his brother had to bear a lot of what he wanted to do.

This is the later emotional backlash, after working hard for a goal for a long time, I simply want to do it in one step, I don't want to wait that long, and I don't want to see the moment when I can't do anything.

Shen Sanwen also recalled the completely different education methods at the beginning.

One is loose, the other is strict.

He had never felt that anyone was more important or more successful than the other, and both of them made him quite proud.

"At the beginning, I wanted to give your brother a happy childhood, so that he could do whatever he wanted, and his virtue would not be lost.

At least a happy day.

Later, because of your brother, I was criticized.

You are burdened with the mission of your family, and you have been calculated again and again. That's why I'm a little more strict with you, and I hope you learn more.

Until Yao Chong proposed that Emperor Wu intervene, since everyone is willing to train you to be the successor of the country, I am also relieved.

Later, you didn't live up to everyone's expectations, didn't you?

What, regret it now? ”

Li He shook his head, he naturally did not regret it, no one would casually deny the decision he had made. He sits on the country, controls the life and death of others, and is an unspeakable person in the world, although there are many government affairs to deal with, and the things to deal with are also very complicated, but these fatigues have long become a part of his life.

Shen Sanwen sighed secretly in his heart, at first he was not very good at teaching his son, so Xiao Wen's character had a lot more persistence, and even liked to force.

It probably has something to do with the reason why he is unwilling to admit defeat in his personality and would rather change the world than change himself.

But things are not so easy, and the Turkic problem is not easy to deal with at all.

Coupled with the strategy that Xiao Wen learned from the princess and the art of war that he learned from Zhang Yang, he has the capital to change many things.

But Xiaowen also inherited his innocence and kindness.

It would be nice if he could inherit his luck and always be treated with kindness.

experienced the death of master and mother one after another, and was betrayed by others, and finally became that ending.

Until the birth of the child.

Li Hecai perfectly inherited the inner character needed to rule the empire, perseverance and decisiveness, Di Renjie taught him more to consider the overall situation, and Emperor Wu told him about the loneliness of the throne, as the emperor's manipulation of people's hearts.

Shen Sanwen admitted that he had less influence on Xiaohe.

Li He can calmly distinguish between goodwill and interests, and make the best choice for himself and the overall situation.

There is a little more ruthlessness, but there is also the capital to stick to the heart.

Later, he personally experienced the rebellion of his classmates, which poured his ambition and allowed him to finally break the boat.

Li He listened to Shen Sanwen's sigh, and his heart was also up and down.

The way he did it was uncomfortable, but it didn't seem too bad now.

Time can erase all the pain.

(End of chapter)