167. The courage to be hated
About half an hour later.
The white fawn returned home.
saw Chu Chao on the octagonal platform of the gym on the negative floor, boxing with Chen Qiang.
Both wore protective gear and gloves.
So the fist style is fierce and vicious.
It's like those official tournaments that fight desperately for honor and big prize money.
Count on your fingers......
Chu Chao has been learning boxing for about four months now.
The day never sets.
Chen Qiang took him to get started, taught him various playing styles, and exercised his actual combat experience.
He has long been regarded as a qualified amateur fighter.
Of course, this is because they have never participated in any official competitions.
Looking at the pleasing muscles and the wild and fierce movements, Bai Xiaolu's attention couldn't help but be attracted, standing next to him, watching very intently, feeling a kind of stimulation.
On the field at this time.
Although the two are not a heavyweight at all.
CHU CHAO WEIGHED ONLY 74KG.
And Chen Qiang's weight is steadily breaking 100.
However, in the lightweight division against the heavyweight, Chu Chao is almost not lagging behind, and now occupies an absolute advantage on the court.
Finally found a defensive mistake by Chen Qiang, Chu Chao punched straight down, and the fist hit the protective gear, making a dull sound.
Even with the protection of protective gear, Chen Qiang still took two steps back, sat down, gasped for breath, and waved his hand with a wry smile.
"Add money!"
"You have to add money!"
"I can't beat you anymore."
"This punch, at least ten years of skill, I can't stand it."
He took off his protective gear, then took off his vest, and looked at the skin on his shoulder blades, which was flushed with bruises.
Belch.
Chu Chao stretched out his hand to pull him up, and smiled embarrassedly: "It's up, all the power has burst out at once, no, don't let me......"
Chen Qiang: ......
"I let you and I am my grandson!"
"Is this allowed?"
"I'm about to get!"
He said without hesitation, and he was really anxious.
The physical fitness of professional athletes is simply a monster, and Chu Chao is a monster among monsters.
The punch power is extremely amazing.
"Your current strength, to be honest, ordinary people, if you are beaten in the center, it is possible to die suddenly in an instant."
He said solemnly.
Although Chu Chao had almost no chance to fight, he was a little worried, armed with a sharp blade, and his murderous intent rose to his own.
Chu Chao glared at him.
"Of course I know!"
"When I fight with my girlfriend, I'm cautious, for fear of spoiling people."
Chen Qiang: ......
White Fawn: ......
"What are you talking nonsense!"
She couldn't help but speak, handing over a towel.
Chu Chao took it with a smile and glanced at her, but suddenly said, "Oh, what's wrong, why are your eyes red?" Crying? ”
She's going to pick up her mom today.
Chu Chao knew.
Now that one person has returned, it is obvious that the conversation has collapsed.
This, too, is normal.
"You talk, I'll withdraw first."
Chen Qiang said very interestingly at this time, and left quickly.
Ace bodyguard, force speed double A, emotional intelligence is also top-notch.
Seeing that his back had already walked away, Bai Xiaolu took Chu Chao's hand, sat down, sighed, and sighed again.
"My mentality collapsed......"
"Sanguan exploded."
Chu Chao still had a smile on his face, and took a sip of water: "Say it quickly, sit and wait, the peanut drink Jianlibao in the front row ......"
Bai Xiaolu glared at him.
"My mother still has a large amount of property abroad, which was transferred before, and now she wants to go out and enjoy the happiness, and she wants to take me with her."
She said very frankly.
"I'm grass!"
This news made Chu Chao also shocked, he really didn't expect that things would turn in such a "weird" direction.
Bai Xiaolu looked directly into Chu Chao's eyes at this time.
"If it were you, what would you do?"
Chu Chao smiled: "If my parents have such an opportunity, I still have to practice sports?" ”
"Oops!"
"Don't interrupt and answer my questions head-on."
Bai Xiaolu pouted and asked very seriously.
Chu Chao thought for a while, and said, "Don't go." Except for being unprincipled in the face of women, I am very principled at other times. ”
"Phew!"
"yes, that's what I said, and then I had a hard fight with her, and then I wanted to report her."
Bai Xiaolu said a little sullenly.
Her own three views told her that this was the right thing to do.
But in my heart, why do I still feel that there is some swaying, and even some ...... Scared?
Chu Chao: ......
There was silence for a while.
"Ruthless."
"Awesome."
"I want to knock you to one, you are really righteous and kill your relatives."
"Report! Must report! Let her sing the Tears of the Iron Window! ”
Chu Chao said in a slightly exaggerated tone.
For a while, Bai Xiaolu was a little unsure, whether he was ridiculing or serious.
"Seriously?"
She reconfirmed.
Chu Chao let out a long sigh.
"Really."
"Whatever you choose, though, I'm for it. If you want to report, then I will support it. If you don't care, I support it. If you want to cover up or even join, that's fine. I'm all right. ”
"Do you remember, about two months ago, we read a book in the evening, which mentioned a concept called topic separation?"
"It's my business to take care of your emotions."
"It's your business to take care of your family affairs."
"Your mom did something wrong, that's her business."
"It's also your business to forgive her or join her."
"And what I think of you after you make your choice, that's my business."
"After this, how you think of me, that's your business."
Chu Chao said so much in one breath, then picked up a bottle of water on the table and drank two large sips.
The white fawn was dumbfounded.
"Did you think of it yourself?"
About two months ago, one night, I did read a book with Chu Chao called "The Courage to Be Hated".
It mentions an important psychological concept called "object separation", or "subject separation." ”
Whose affairs, whose emotions, are responsible for themselves.
This is at the heart of Adler's psychology.
But, for herself, she just watched it, and she was fascinated and touched at the time, but after a while, she forgot about it.
Unexpectedly, Chu Chao had such a deep memory, and it seemed that he had already "internalized".
Belch.
Bai Xiaolu inexplicably felt a slight sense of shame.
I just read the book.
And Chu Chao applies what he has learned.
This......
"Then I...... To report? ”
She asked tentatively, gritting her teeth, and suddenly felt that in the mist, she found a beam of light.
"You decide."
"And ...... In this matter, reporting is not the final outcome, you have to give her a way to go, you tell her that the money that should not be taken is handed over, this is her business. ”
"As an elder, it is our business for us to honor her and ensure her life in the future."
"It's as simple as that, it's clear at a glance."
Chu Chao said very firmly.
Some things are not so complicated in the first place.
What to do, what to do.
Hearing this, a relieved smile finally appeared on Bai Xiaolu's face.
"Love you ......"
"You're so handsome."
She said glutinously.
Chu Chao stood up and smiled: "Come, if you love me, accompany me to fight, I love you too, don't worry, I only use one percent." ”
White Fawn: ......
Huan Tuo laughed: "I think you want me to die!" ”
"I'm going to call my mom right now and explain it to her thoroughly."
"Oh, yes, there's one more thing."
Bai Xiaolu pursed his lips, reached into his pants pocket, and took out a few hairs.
"My mother said that I was brought by her, not my own. She must have said it in a fit of rage, but I wasn't sure, so I went to the bathroom and found two hairs to get them tested. ”
This...... It's also a nuisance.
It's very tangled.
On the one hand, I feel that it is unbelievable and unimaginable.
On the other hand, I feel that if it is true, then ......
"Isn't it?"
"Such blood?"
Chu Chao couldn't help but complain, and he couldn't cry or laugh for a while.
There was a pause.
He said, "Look." ”
However, again, the subject is separated, for your life, you are not a sequel to your parents, nor a prequel to your children, nor an outer part of your friends, nor an inner part of me. You are who you are. You might as well be bold, because you're going to die in the end. ”
Chu Chao shrugged and spread his hands.
Put on the gloves again.
He touched his hands together and walked towards the sandbag.
If you don't have an opponent, you can only play sandbags.
Bai Xiaolu watched his movements, pursed his lips, and after a moment of silence, he couldn't help laughing softly.
That's great.
Perhaps, sports can really make people pure.
Not noble.
Nor is it detached from low-level tastes.
It's pure.
But that's enough.
Alert and decisive, brave and clear.
Bang!
Chu Chao punched the sandbag, the iron chain at the connection on it made a tooth sore sound, the sandbag shook violently, and before it returned to its original position, it slammed again, and was smashed open by him with a punch, and then swung out again.
At this time, something suddenly remembered in Bai Xiaolu's mind.
She couldn't help but walk up to her and asked with a smile, "What about you...... Have you ever done something wrong? ”
Chu Chao's fist froze slightly.
However, he quickly hit it with more force.
Bang!
"Possibly! But forgot! As long as I forgive myself, no one will be able to condemn me! ”
"This is my subject!"
"As for what others think, forgive or not, that's her subject!"
He suddenly understood what Bai Xiaolu was asking.
That incident may be the only time I made a mistake in the first 18 years of my life.
But, it's all gone.
There's nothing to reflect on.
yourself, only looking forward.
Belch.
Bai Xiaolu was speechless about this.
She can understand what Chu Chao means, and she can also figure out the logic of this, but she really can't do it for a while.
This is also a kind of life practice, right?
……
Step aside.
Bai Xiaolu dialed the phone again.
This time, it was directly to 110.
"Hello, I report ......"
……
……
Let's explain a few sentences and talk about the significance of this plot.
The courage to be hated.
Now that I am "eighteen years old", my idea is that there will be some mental growth.
The impact of sports on people is not only barbaric physique, but also spiritual will.
Alert and decisive.
Brave and clear.
Personally, I grew up in a "high-pressure" family environment, so I have a certain level of people-pleasing personality.
Later, I realized this, and by chance, I started playing football......
Went every day, rain or shine.
Even if there is no one on the football field, I will practice shooting there.
It lasted for four years of college.
At that time, my jersey was Barcelona, the number was six, and I was called Xavi of the law department.
Others skip class in the afternoon to go to pick up girls, to go to Internet cafes, to go out shopping......
I'm here to play.
Suddenly, I remembered another interesting fact:
My girlfriend at the time, waiting for me to have dinner, didn't wait, went to the stadium to find me.
Utterly angry, angry.
Asked if I wanted to play football or if I wanted her.
I said I wanted to play, hahahaha......
Then, I like to give a slap in the face.
People left in anger.
……
It's all about the past.
As for......
The courage to be hated and the "separation of topics" are two methodologies that I have been practicing all along, and they may not be completely correct, but they can really solve a lot of troubles.
……
(End of chapter)