Chapter 44: Normal is not normal
Xia Shilong's description made Huo Yan and Ning Shuyi frown when they heard it.
As the saying goes, I have never eaten pork and have seen pigs run, regardless of whether I am a person with rich emotional experience, I am afraid that this is very abnormal when I hear this mode of getting along.
"Do you think it's normal for you to be in love?" Huo Yan opened his mouth and asked Xia Shilong.
Xia Shilong frowned and glared at him, obviously this question made him feel uncomfortable: "Why is this not normal? How can there be any such thing as normal and abnormal!
Talking about such a thing, how to get along and how to talk about it, isn't that all personal preference, and what standards are there?
It's like some people like thin arms and legs like bean sprouts, and some people like to train their muscles, isn't that the same reason!
It's just that the taste is different, how to get along depends on which bite you like! To fall in love is to take what you need!"
"Then what do you think you and Wu Meifang are going to do with each other?" Ning Shuyi asked.
Xia Shilong was stunned for a moment and thought for a while: "I fell in love with Wu Meifang at first sight, her appearance, personality, and all of them happened to grow on my point!
It's that she has such a lot of energy, and that's what I like!
From the first time I saw her, I felt like my head was buzzing, and I was full of one thought - I must catch her! She is the only one in this life, and she must be my daughter-in-law!"
"And what does she want from you?"
"She's ......" Xia Shilong hesitated when Ning Shuyi asked him like this, as if he himself was not particularly sure of the answer to this question, "I don't know, you stopped me from asking."
I used to think that she wanted me to be manly, have a good figure, be dedicated to her, like her wholeheartedly, and try my best to be good to her.
But...... She later said that I was too clingy, and that I wasn't ambitious enough, and I didn't know if I had anything else to figure out for her!"
"How far has your relationship progressed?" Ning Shuyi asked again.
Xia Shilong scratched the back of his head: "What did you say...... It's all that should be developed!
What age is this, everyone is a modern person, and it is not a feudal time, so do you have to wait until you get a license to get married? There's no need to pretend like that, right?
Am I answering your question? It's not easy to inquire about the specifics, and it would be rude to inquire again!"
Ning Shuyi was made to laugh and cry by his words, sighed, and shook his head: "I didn't mean to inquire about your personal privacy, it has nothing to do with the content of our work.
I wanted to ask if the relationship between the two of you has developed to the point where you meet each other's parents.
I know that as you said earlier, Wu Meifang's unit has rules on whether they fall in love or not, so your relationship can't see the light.
There's no such secrecy in that house, right? Even if you are here to avoid causing trouble to Wu Meifang, you are secretly in love, if you want to meet each other's parents, it should still be possible, right?"
"Oh, that's what you mean! Misunderstand! Misunderstanding!" Xia Shilong was a little embarrassed, and scratched the back of his head again, his face was slightly embarrassed, "Parents, we haven't seen each other.
Wu Meifang said that her family is more traditional in this regard, and stipulates that she can't fall in love casually, and if she falls in love, she has to go for the purpose of getting married.
It's nothing, but her family also stipulates that unless she decides to get married, she can take it home to show her parents, and if she hasn't reached that point, don't bring it home, and if you bring it back to meet her parents, you have to rush to prepare for the wedding!"
"So what that means now is that neither of you have ever met each other's parents?"
"Yes, I wanted to take her home to meet my parents first, but she didn't agree!
One is that my family is not here, go back to my hometown and go to the mountains and roads, she is too hard to toss, and the unit can't take so many days off, she said that the unit is busy, and sometimes she has to work overtime or something.
Another reason is that she thinks that the relationship between the two of us has not yet reached such a mature point, once I meet my parents, even if my parents are not her parents, I have to prepare for marriage when I bring them home, she also thinks that that is equivalent to pulling the old man in, then our relationship is not pure!"
After Xia Shilong finished speaking, as if showing loyalty, he hurriedly added: "I originally meant to say that I must be eager to marry her quickly!" Didn't I tell you, from the very beginning when I saw her, I thought she should be my daughter-in-law! qδ.net
But Wu Meifang told me before that she felt that my studio was just getting started, and the timing was not yet ripe for all aspects.
There is also my character, she said that my personality is not mature and stable enough, and my self-motivation is not strong enough, so I still need to continue to work hard, and I can't blindly have a showdown with my family, so as not to make them not feel at ease and satisfied enough.
She also said that the two of us are going to the inspection period for the purpose of getting married, as long as I do well enough, when I have a certain amount of financial strength, she will take me to meet my parents sooner or later, so that I don't think nonsense."
After speaking, he looked at Ning Shuyi and Huo Yan blankly, and seeing that the two of them didn't react, he couldn't help but ask, "What does this mean?"
At the beginning, I said that during the observation period, let me behave well, don't think about her cranky, and now I am looking for you to scare me, and she is the one who tricked me into breaking up!
What am I not doing well? Can't I change it? Is it so denied a chance?
I've gone along with her for everything! It turned out that I told her that since the two of them are together, it is better to simply move together, and the cost of two people together is smaller than the cost of separation!
At least one copy of water, electricity and gas is enough!
But she said she didn't agree, didn't I force her, I didn't mention it, I didn't say it, I wasn't upset, and I didn't contradict her!
She said that she lived in her own relative's house, so it was inconvenient for me to go to her place to find her, and I didn't listen to her everything, and I never ran to trouble her recklessly!
I've been so cooperative with her, she thinks I'm clingy, and I'm trying to refrain from contacting her less, just wait for when she misses me and contact me before dating her!
Why is it all like this, she is still doing this! What else do I have to do to make her happy with me, don't do this to me?!"
A tall and strong man, after saying this, his eyes were a little red, and he looked aggrieved, revealing such a pitiful energy.