Chapter Eighty-Four: Teaching Children
Mrs. Xu "heard" the original body and said: "If the children can choose who to be their parents before they are born, they should not be willing to be the son of a mother like me." ”
Mrs. Xu wanted to shake her head at the original body in her dream.
Not everyone's parents are the richest people.
Rich people account for a few thousandths or even tenths of a ten-thousandth.
Parents who don't want to be guardians for their children, no matter what the conditions are, they are doing their best.
Then you have to be a good parent if you have good conditions? It's enough to give it your all.
She wanted to persuade the original body not to belittle herself.
Mrs. Xu inherited the memory of the original body, and understood that she wanted to remarry the old man in the later stage of the original body, but in fact, she also wanted to find a reassuring family for Tian Xin to marry, and then she left, not wanting to burden her three sons again.
If you are lucky, you can really find a blind and rich old man, and she originally thought that she could secretly move something from her wife to supplement her children, and wanted the old man to help her.
To understand an ancient old lady, all she can see in her vision is to change the conditions by marrying.
Even in modern times, with generations of women entering the workplace to make money on their own, they will realize that it is unreliable to change their fate by marrying people again and again.
Not to mention the restrictions on women in ancient times, there is no job here for women to make money.
If you want to be self-reliant, you don't have a chance.
Where to go in this world, there is a road to get stuck, and if you want to see the world, you can't see it, and "you have" is not until this year when you have the opportunity to go to the county, so that you can stay for a long time.
If you want to go out to do a small business, on the one hand, you must have a way to go out, and on the other hand, you must consider the cost. And the more people who don't have much capital, the less they dare to make up their minds to do business easily.
Because that's called a bad deal, it will move fundamentally, unlike those rich people who are not afraid of losing money and not being able to turn over. She has also had such a mentality and experience, and the more she doesn't, the more she doesn't dare to toss.
So how could the original body not want to help his children, and he could only think that he was the "capital", so he shouted to remarry, but was scolded by the old woman in front of the whole village.
That taste, the original grievances are not at all unstoppable. But he was pouted by his uncle and sister-in-law and looked down on his character, and was laughed at by the mothers-in-law who had husbands in the village.
At this time, Mrs. Xu dreamed of her original body and said to her:
"Old sister, I still use the old way of making noodles for you, I want my sons to remember me, and I know that you are a good-hearted person.
But in the future, you don't have to worry about it, you just live a good life with your sons, and I won't come again.
I came here for nothing more than to ask for nothing more than to hope that you will treat them without awkwardness in the future, treat them as if they were born to yourself, and let them remember the taste of your cooking in the future.
Because you cook better than I do.
Which mother, isn't looking forward to leaving a good taste in the memory of her children? I hope they say that my mother's cooking is the best......"
The more the original body thanked Mrs. Xu for being a capable mother, she would definitely be good to the children, she could completely relax and leave this time, the more Mrs. Xu told you not to go in her dream.
Mrs. Xu sat up anxiously, touched her heart and swallowed the words that came to her mouth.
Thought:
In the end, I didn't stop, I was afraid that she wouldn't take the plate, and even leaving quickly in the end was for the children, for fear that it would be bad for the children to make her unhappy.
In fact, there was only one sentence that Mrs. Xu almost shouted, and that was:
There are too many grass seed porridge and elm bark noodles in my belly, and I have lived too wronged in this life, hoping that the original body will be entrusted to an era where I can eat enough.
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After Mrs. Xu woke up from the dream, she slowed down for a while before moving to the window, lifting the curtain made of bamboo curtains and looking outside.
Since "You You" arrived home, it hasn't rained outside.
Do you think that's a good sign?
Mrs. Xu moved her body under the kang, I don't know if it was an illusion, why do I feel that my body is a lot lighter today.
And this thing is called "the original body is reincarnated", she will no longer be affected by the emotions of the original body, and she will feel very light.
In other words, this body is only in her forties and less than fifty, which is really not as good as her modern physical condition.
In modern times, she pays special attention to health, which must maintain longevity to accompany her granddaughter for a few more years.
If you are not superstitious, you are called taking the initiative to dissolve the psychological barrier.
Mrs. Xu looks at this dream like this:
The reason why she had this dream can only show that she thinks about it day and night.
Picking up someone else's body to pick up his son halfway, it seems that he is still a little unhappy in his heart, and his confidence is a little insufficient.
After this dream, I can completely open up my psychological burden, and then my whole body will naturally relax. It's just a psychological problem with me.
It can be seen that Mrs. Xu is only superstitious about her granddaughter.
Those who are officials, have university questions, and big bosses, why do they believe something or even be deceived? You see that the bigger the career, the more willing to go into the temple to worship God, can you say that those people have a problem with their IQ? It can only show that there is a demon obstacle in the heart.
And for her, the only obstacle that can't be dissolved in her heart is her granddaughter.
As for "Yu You" and other people, she can dissolve it when she has a dream, and she will rationally analyze that it is her own psychological problem.
The original body has never been here at all, has it? If we don't talk about it, we won't be afraid.
After Mrs. Xu folded the quilt, she went outside to find her "magic barrier".
"Tian Xin, Tian Xin'er, Da Bao'er?"
There was no one in the hut, no one in the back garden.
Not only is her granddaughter gone, but even her family and daughter-in-law are gone.
Mrs. Xu wondered, obviously she specially ordered before going to bed last night, and today their whole family will not participate in fishing and do not earn work, so as to let "You You" have a good rest.
Otherwise, if their mothers go out to work, can they lie down at home? I simply stayed to do the housework, and it happened that there was no rain today, which hurt the people.
And Mrs. Xu is still worried about asking Guan Erbald to take the pulse of "Yu You", and let Guan Erbald be a "confidant uncle" as a man and say, don't tell your mother, take off your clothes and show it to the uncle.
Then I went back and whispered to her the inside information, what injuries were on my body.
She could feel that her sons didn't want to admit to digging the sewer outside, whether it was a matter of self-esteem or fear that she would feel uncomfortable listening to her, she was going to cooperate and pretend not to know, but she had to know how the children were doing.
But early in the morning, why are they all gone?
Mrs. Xu asked the child next door, did you see your uncles and Sister Tian Xin?
The child pointed to the road in the center of the village.
Mrs. Xu followed the child's point and looked for it, and before she arrived at Liu Laozhu's house, she saw Yu Qinniang and Xu Tianxin hiding behind the room and peeking.
She also looked over with her, and then heard her three sons say to Liu Laozhu: "Uncle Lizheng, we know that my mother owes you and the village seventy-four taels of silver. ”
Liu Laozhu: Are there so many "......"? He hadn't done the math yet, and was taken aback by the number.
"What do you mean?" Early in the morning, I don't believe that you have come to pay the bills.
Liu Laozhu thought to himself: If his family can have today's life, it will make him toss and make money for ten years, and save money on the other hand. He was not even willing to smoke dry tobacco, and was only willing to drink a few sips of wine when he was bored. In addition, he has a few taels of money for another year, and he has calculated a lot of silver in more than ten years, and his family still has 30 acres of land. And the Xu family only has a total of eight acres of middle and lower fields, even if this brother goes out for a big trip, he can't afford to pay back seventy-four taels.
It's really not on for the time being.
The three brothers of the Xu family came to see Liu Laozhu before going up the mountain, but they felt that they owed money to tell them what they knew, and they couldn't pretend to be stupid to make people feel uncomfortable, and they would not hide in the future.
"I don't mean anything else, I'll think about it and let you rest assured."
Liu Laozhu then figured it out.
Hearing this, he sighed and said, "I'm relieved." ”
Looking at the "Qi You", I want Liu Laozhu to tell the truth about the scenery, if you don't worry, you will be a dead horse as a live horse doctor, you have been tied to a boat with your mother, and you can't get off and borrow it.
But he also has to admit that he suddenly felt that the Xu family was better at teaching children than his Liu family.