Regarding Huo Yan's reaction, Ning Shuyi only shrugged his shoulders, and did not discuss with him the rights and wrongs of this view.

It is said that the same rice raises a hundred kinds of people, and each person's innate personality or the personality changes gradually formed under the trials and tribulations of various life experiences are completely different trajectories.

Huo Yan is a very assertive person, and his willpower is also extremely firm, such a person can only accept the opinions of others from the bottom of his heart when he encounters anything, and he must not carry his ears to it.

It may be that Ning Shuyi's reaction was a little too calm, but Huo Yan was inexplicably a little weak-hearted, put the dumbbell in his hand on the shelf, and sat down on the mat.

"I don't think it's meaningful, it's really objectively speaking, it's meaningless, it's not a subjective emotion." He explained to Ning Shuyi, "I haven't heard the truth that those psychiatrists can say in the past, and I understand it.

I used to feel worthless because I was a kid that no one wanted.

When I was asked about my past experiences, the psychiatrist began to persuade me to let go, to look forward, and not to punish myself for other people's mistakes.

The problem is, I have experienced the pain of abandonment twice, and of course I know that those wrong actions were done by others, and it has nothing to do with me, but the result is still what I am bearing?

The people who abandoned me, they are not in pain, and even if I let go, will the hurt feelings that have accompanied me for so many years disappear?

When they talk about it, it's as if they say that those who abandoned me are wrong, but they are all wrong, and they can't do anything with them, so they can only forget it.

On the contrary, if I still feel pain because of those things, then it is my fault!

Since the knot is caused by the wrong behavior of those people, why does no one ask the person who did the wrong thing to apologize, but unilaterally and blindly demand that I, the most innocent person from beginning to end, not even have a little emotion, and must let go, otherwise there is a psychological problem?"

Ning Shuyi didn't expect Huo Yan to explain this to himself, and after listening to his words, he also felt speechless.

I have to admit that he is right, it seems that many times, most people will choose to let go of the party whose interests have been infringed, be relieved, and reconcile with the past, but they are helpless against those who have infringed on the interests of others and hurt the feelings of others.

Although from a rational point of view, it is indeed the right choice to let go of the past pain and reconcile with yourself, but human emotions are not computer programs after all.

At this time, if you can't really understand the pain of the other party, and just blindly persuade the other party to let go, otherwise you will be psychologically unhealthy, that is, you can't get along with yourself, and there is indeed an effect of turning the injured party into the wrong party.

Even if he doesn't have personal experience, just by imagining, Ning Shuyi can guess the helplessness and depression that is not understood.

It's no wonder that Huo Yan's attitude towards Xu Li is so cold and detached, it is estimated that the psychiatrists he met before were all psychiatrists who blindly asked him to let go, which made him instinctively reject practitioners in this industry.

Thinking of this, Ning Shuyi suddenly thought that Xu Li would do Uncle Pan's ideological work and help him enlighten.

I don't know what Xu Li's work style is, in case it is also the kind that Huo Yan just said, I am afraid that not only will it not be able to let the stubborn and stubborn Uncle Pan see it, but it will make the old man more stubborn.

Thinking like this, she couldn't help but feel a little worried, and subconsciously sighed softly.

Huo Yan sighed when he saw Ning Shuyi, and was stunned for a moment: "I don't feel that I have no value in existence now! It's true!

I felt that I had already seen it today, and there was no need to listen to those clichés, so I didn't go.

The things you usually say to me are more useful than any psychiatrist."

Ning Shuyi was stunned for a moment, and then realized that Huo Yan had misunderstood his reaction, and waved his hand hurriedly: "No, I don't think you need to listen to the psychiatrist's report, your changes can actually be seen by everyone, it wasn't Lian Xu Li yesterday."

Do you think you're more relaxed than before?

I just listened to what you said, and I thought of Uncle Pan at once."

When Huo Yan heard that this was the case, his brows also relaxed: "Uncle Pan has a stubborn personality and is getting older, so he is not so easy to persuade, this matter can only be let be."

After saying that, he stood up again, and Chong Ning Shuyi hooked his hand: "It's all here, let's leave after practicing!"

Ning Shuyi was originally thinking about Uncle Pan, and he was still a little melancholy, but when he heard Huo Yan's words at this moment, he immediately pulled back all his thoughts.

She smirked and stood up, "Ah...... I almost forgot, Ren Yaya seemed to have something to do with me when I came over just now......

What's that, you practice first, I won't bother you, I'll go back to the office......

The reason was found, but unfortunately Huo Yan didn't buy it, and directly stretched out his hand to pull back Ning Shuyi, who was about to leave, and directly pulled it aside, and stuffed a medicine ball into her arms.

"Come on! Three groups!" He patted Ning Shuyi's shoulder and pointed to the dumbbell next to him, "I'll help you count while practicing."

Don't forget who gritted my teeth and asked me to take her to physical training."

was reminded by him like this, Ning Shuyi's fighting spirit that had been dissipating recently because his days were too peaceful was rehooked.

"Practice! Count it for me!" She nodded, a little more heroic in her voice.

This heroism lasted about twenty minutes......

It's not that she's hot for three minutes, it's mainly that her strength really doesn't allow it......

In the end, Ning Shuyi, who had no love to move his legs on the treadmill, deeply felt that there was more than a hero in this world who was short of breath......

And when she was sweating profusely and her limbs were weak, she ended her physical training, and then looked at Huo Yan, who was much more intense than her own training, but seemed to be fine, and the cruel unevenness between people gave her another blow.

"Let's go." Huo Yan looked at the time, "Go back now, I still have time to help my uncle."

"Oh." Ning Shuyi was so tired that his head was half a beat slower than usual, and after his mouth answered, he realized that something was wrong, "Oh, did I forget to tell you about going to my house to eat seafood tonight?"

I haven't even said it, how do you know?"

Huo Yan raised the mobile phone in his hand: "Uncle sent me WeChat."

Ning Shuyi couldn't cry or laugh a little, the time was indeed just right at this time, when he thought of such a hot day, he was sweating all the way home, so he simply didn't take a shower in the unit, he went back to the office with Huo Yan and took the bag, and went home from work.