Huo Yan watched from the sidelines, and at first saw the two people arguing in the group, he couldn't help frowning, a little puzzled, but he still chose not to disturb Ning Shuyi's work, and didn't ask anything.

It wasn't until I saw the quarrel with the two people from you and me to belittle each other, and then Ning Shuyi took out the matter that had obviously asked for advice and said it again in the group, and the two of them actually changed their words together.

Huo Yan's eyes were full of surprise.

"Didn't they just have all kinds of unavoidable reasons on the phone and didn't want to cooperate with our work? Why did you agree so quickly at this time?" He asked Ning Shuyi with some confusion.

Ning Shuyi smiled, "Have you heard of the South Wind Effect?"

Huo Yan shook his head, feeling very unfamiliar with this term.

"The South Wind Effect is a little fable written by the French writer La Fontaine." Ning Shuyi explained to him, "The south wind and the north wind compete to see who is more powerful, and who can blow off the coat on passers-by.

The north wind puffed up and blew hard, and for a moment the wind was fierce, and the cold wind rose in all directions, covering the sky and the sun.

Passers-by shivered from the cold, and wrapped their coats tightly.

I was blown by the wind for a long time, and I was so tired that I still couldn't blow the coat off.

When it was the turn of the south wind, the south wind blew softly, especially warm and warm, and the temperature became warmer and warmer.

The passer-by, who had wrapped his coat tightly, was sweating and took it off himself."

"What you mean is that for Tong Chujun's parents, trying to persuade them may backfire, making them even more impatient and unwilling to agree to come over to confirm the identity of the deceased.

So you ......" Huo Yan still felt that it seemed to be a little pertinent when he said it before, but when he talked about the back, he felt that something was wrong, after all, Fang Caining Shuyi almost didn't say much, so he said a few words, and one of them was to persuade the two people not to quarrel, and the rest was just a routine asking tone, and he didn't feel how warm it was.

"Ahem, don't be so stubborn, this story just tells us that it's important to use the right method." Ning Shuyi was amused by his reaction, "When I called them, the attitude of these two people passing the buck made me realize that Tong Chujun should be the kind of child who is more neglected by his parents after his parents divorced.

Her parents had apparently not given her any attention to her.

But people are often like this, he can do things not beautifully, but he resolutely cannot admit it.

So behind the scenes, both of them know that they are not doing very well, and if you show them how incompetent and irresponsible they are, then they are not willing to do it in person.

From the 'tacit understanding' of the two of them blaming each other on the phone, it can also be roughly felt that these two people should not have broken up peacefully in the first place, so although they have been divorced for many years, even if it is related to their children, they still can't help but be angry and compare with each other, they don't want to pay more than each other, and they don't want to be the only one who is interfered with their new life by these things.

So I just took advantage of this mentality of theirs and reversed it.

Either they are unwilling to admit that they are irresponsible to their children in front of others, or they don't take the children's affairs to heart, then in front of their ex-wives and ex-husbands, they will inevitably not want to be caught by the other party.

In the same way, they don't want to appear in front of each other that they are the ones who are too negligent and not pay enough attention to their children – they both want to occupy a moral high ground in this matter, so that they can seize each other's grip and condemn each other."

Huo Yan suddenly realized: "So you just caught the psychology that they wanted to pretend in front of each other, and deliberately pulled a group, so that the two of them had to see each other's reactions face to face.

In this way, the two of them have become a relationship of mutual supervision, and neither of them wants to be caught by the other, so they can only show a positive and cooperative attitude one by one."

"yes, that's the way it looks." Ning Shuyi smiled and nodded, and the solution to this problem also made her breathe a sigh of relief, "To put it bluntly, the kind of disagreement between the two of them for many years is to solve this problem."

South Wind."

After finishing speaking, she sighed slightly: "It's just that it is not easy to meet such a parent, this Tong Chujun.

We have to be mentally prepared that when these two people come to our side, they may not be able to provide anything but DNA samples, so don't have any unrealistic illusions."

Huo Yan nodded: "Understood."

After a while, he muttered to himself, "In comparison, this Tong Chujun is even more miserable.

Those who have not really gained it will not suffer because of the loss.

People like her who once had it are not good to lose it."

Ning Shuyi knew what he said, but she didn't want to comfort him deliberately, and at the same time, she also knew very well that Huo Yan didn't really need to be comforted by others.

He just felt it for a while, maybe it was more sympathy for Tong Chujun.

However, there was another question she had to say: "If it is proved that the deceased is indeed Tong Chujun, there is a more difficult problem here.

I don't know how old her parents were when they divorced, and what kind of life they were like before the divorce.

However, parents who value their children and care about their children will not suddenly lose their care about their children just because of divorce.

Now I'm afraid that growing up in such a family environment will make Tong Chujun form a self-enclosed character, didn't the girl who provided the clues just say that Tong Chujun was not a cheerful and outgoing person when they were colleagues before.

Then I don't know how to find someone to know by her side."

"The identity of the deceased has not yet been determined, and the troubles that have not arrived in front of us are not troubles." Huo Yan's response was very simple, "It's a good thing to have a long-term vision, but if you start worrying about the difficult road ahead before you take the first step, then you basically don't have to go down the road ahead."

"Well, you're right, I don't want to think so much, let's wait for her parents to come and confirm the identity of the deceased!" Ning Shuyi nodded.

When it was time to leave work in the evening, the two of them packed their things and prepared to go back.

When he arrived at the parking lot, when he was about to get into the car, Ning Shuyi suddenly stopped Huo Yan.

"Look at that old man over there." She motioned to Huo Yan and told him not to get into the car yet, "He's going around over there, and he's been looking at us all the time.

No...... Your ex-adoptive father came here on his own, right?"