This is a rather personal question.

Tong Chujun's parents were silent for a moment, the two of them, you look at me, I look at you, but they all chose to be honest, and nodded to admit the speculation about the fact that the relationship between the husband and wife had not been concealed in front of the child.

"The two of us ......" Tong Chujun's father was a little embarrassed, "It was a flash marriage back then, it took less than half a year from realizing that I was in love to getting married, and I didn't feel any problems when I was in love, but after getting married, the problems gradually came out, and the personalities were incompatible, and it was quarrelsome to get together."

At first, I thought that the child was young and didn't understand, so I didn't care too much, but then I ...... Later, the feelings became more and more noisy, and the smell of gunpowder became more and more noisy...... I don't care about what to be in front of my children. ”

"Originally, the two of us agreed that we would divorce after the child graduated from junior high school." Tong Chujun's mother seemed to be afraid that her ex-husband would take the opportunity to give herself eye medicine when he said what happened back then, so she hurriedly spoke, "But the child was just on the first day of junior high school, and once we had a quarrel, she came out and told us that we should quickly divorce the marriage."

She said that she had already bought both of us and that she was fed up with our family and didn't want to stay any longer.

She asked the two of us to divorce when we should divorce, she wants to apply to live on campus, and if she doesn't come home, we can just sign her application for living on campus when the time comes.

At that time, we felt that if it went on like this, it might not be good for the three of us, and no matter how good a person was, he couldn't stand being so noisy every day.

So the two of us got married and divorced at that time, the children were raised together, Junjun went to live in school, and I took turns with her father to pay the living expenses and tuition, one person for a month.

However, because the child was still young at that time, although the two of us divorced, neither of us moved their respective hukou, and they did not move their respective hukou until the child became an adult. ”

"So it's equivalent to that since junior high school, Tong Chujun has lived in the school alone, and he doesn't have much contact with you?"

"Well, yes," replied Tong Chujun's mother, "this child doesn't know who he looks like, as if he has no human taste, and he is not close to anyone."

After we divorced, when it was my turn to pay for living expenses, I thought that I couldn't just give money and ignore the children and other things. ”

She said as she glanced meaningfully at her ex-husband.

Tong Chujun's father wanted to have a seizure, but because Ning Shuyi was present, he swallowed his words back.

Tong Chujun's mother saw that he didn't reply, and looked at him again with some pride: "Every time I give living expenses, I deliberately prepare money, and then buy some daily necessities and snacks that girls need.

As a result, this kid collects the money every time, throws things to the side, and doesn't pay much attention to it.

I asked her about the situation, and she didn't like to talk to me, and she was quite impatient to blast me away. ”

Tong Chujun's father couldn't help but snort beside him, and this time it was Tong Chujun's mother's turn to give him a roll of the eye.

"So over the years, the two of you have gotten along and understood very little about your daughter in other aspects other than giving her living expenses, right?" Ning Shuyi asked.

A former couple, you look at me, I look at you, although they are a little unwilling to make such a straightforward summary, they can only nod their heads and admit it.

"Is Tong Chujun's personality only indifferent to you, or is he the same as everyone else?" Ning Shuyi wanted to know whether this girl who was highly suspicious of Tong Chujun was because her parents hurt her feelings, so she didn't have a good relationship with them, or if she was really introverted and withdrawn.

"Gambling aside, this kid is indeed not a cheerful and outgoing character since he was a child, but compared to his age, he looks much better." Tong Chujun's father sighed, "It may be that the two of us are not doing well in this regard."

did not provide a warm family atmosphere for the child, quarreled every day, made trouble, and the child's personality was also affected, the older he get, the less he likes to deal with others, why do he do it all day long.

Later, when she was in high school, her studies were not very good, and she didn't get into any school after graduating from high school, and my business improved a little at that time, and I had plenty of money, but I really proposed it to her, and I said that if Dad provides for you, let's spend some money and go to a private school or something.

But she disagreed, and spoke as if she had taken gunpowder, saying that she could study if she could be admitted with her own ability, and she deserved it if she failed the exam, and she didn't need me to take money to help her find a school.

I actually feel a little chilled, although as a father, I'm not too competent, but I really want to ease the relationship with her, and I want to make some remedies to make the relationship between our father and daughter better, but her reaction, I have no choice but to let her go! ”

"You two are young, you must not have any children, right?" Tong Chujun's mother looked at Ning Shuyi and Huo Yan, "Especially women, whether they are mothers or not, you can see from their eyes."

That's why I say that, and you two don't know if you can understand it.

I think what kind of character a child is, it's all innate! Even if there are no interludes in between, what it should be will still become!

When Junjun was a child, yes, I always quarreled with her father, but I didn't say that I didn't care about her, I served her with good food and drink, and I never lacked clothes and shoes when I changed seasons.

But this child has not been close to others since he was a child, always not far away, not close, neither lukewarm.

I used to think that all children were like this, after all, I was such a child, and there was no room for comparison.

Later, after remarriage, I gave birth to another girl, also a girl, since she was a child, she has been very sticky to me, very close to me, I came home from work one day, and suddenly pounced on my neck and said Mom, I miss you!

That kid is very coquettish and clingy, and I've never experienced that kind of mother-daughter relationship before.

Since then, I have realized that personality is innate, following the bad roots of others, no matter what you do to her the day after tomorrow, she will not change much! ”

Tong Chujun's father snorted coldly: "I keep saying that I am a mother, which good family's mother is my own daughter, one here is uncertain about life and death, she still has the heart to praise another child in front of others for how coquettish and clingy she is!" ”

"That's better than you, too!" Tong Chujun's mother sneered, "I gave birth to a daughter to raise, unlike some people, who are shameless!" Find a girlfriend who is not a few years older than your daughter! ”

The day after tomorrow will be the Chinese New Year's Eve~ Are you starting to take a vacation? Or are you still at work?