"So you're afraid that your favorite products will be out of production and useless, so you stock up so much in advance?" Ning Shuyi laughed.

Sun Yan felt that this thing was commonplace: "Yes! ”

"But don't you have a lot of money? It takes a lot of money to stock up on these things, right? Ning Shuyi stood up and patted the ash on his hands, Sun Yan's shampoo seemed to have been stockpiled for a while, and a layer of ash fell on it, "Since I live here and feel scared, and I don't have a lot of money for the time being, why didn't I find a way to ask my family for help?" Let the family support a little temporarily? ”

"You don't know what kind of people my parents are!" Sun Yan waved her hand hurriedly, looking very scared, "They are the kind of parents who are very typical and can't let go of their children at any time!"

Growing up, they didn't feel comfortable leaving me to do it themselves, so they wanted to turn me into a keychain and hang it on their belts, and take me wherever they went!

It took a lot of effort to convince them to agree to live outside the city by myself, or I didn't want to, and I wanted to live with them all the time.

Usually I really report good news but not bad news, and I dare not tell them the slightest annoyance, for fear that I will be anxious when I hear it, and I will shout to come and take it home for me!

You say, I'm such an old person, I'm in my twenties, can I always be by my parents' side and never be independent?

I'm really trying to prove myself and make a name for myself so that they don't always act like I'm a kid, but the problem is that I haven't done it yet.

So until then, I don't want to ask for help at home.

Don't worry, after you came to the door today, I was already thinking about it, it is not a good way to go on like this, but you can't be greedy for a small gain and suffer a big loss.

So I will definitely think about this matter, I guess this time the money I paid is about to expire, before the expiration I will slowly look for a house, and if I find a suitable one, I will move out! ”

After chatting with Sun Yan, until the sky outside was dark, Bi Runlin was still nowhere to be seen, Ning Shuyi and Huo Yan couldn't wait any longer, so they had to leave Sun Yan with the contact information of the two of them, and said goodbye and left.

On the way back, Huo Yan and Ning Shuyi didn't talk much, and after returning to the bureau for a while, Huo Yan asked Ning Shuyi: "That Sun Yan, do you think her words are credible?" ”

"You don't believe her?" can make Huo Yan ask such a thing, the meaning behind it is actually relatively clear, Ning Shuyi asked directly.

Huo Yan naturally wouldn't hide his opinion from her, and nodded: "She gave me a very strange feeling, a strong sense of contradiction, but I couldn't say why I felt this way."

In short, it made me hesitate, and I felt that what she said was credible, but I didn't dare to believe it all. ”

That's because when she speaks, you can hear that there is a strong logic between the words, and it feels very clear.

But while she is clear and logical, her presentation has an exaggerated drama. Ning Shuyi summarized Sun Yan's characteristics.

As soon as Huo Yan heard this, he also had a feeling of sudden enlightenment, he felt wrong through his intuition before, but he couldn't tell the specific reason, and now Ning Shuyi hit the root of his intuition in a few words, and he only nodded again and again.

In her case, there is a word called victimism, which can be called victimism, or victim consciousness.

It's that the vigilance is very high, and some are too high, and I especially like to look for clues around me after seeing some cases or social news. Ning Shuyi said, "Obviously, Sun Yan belongs to this category. ”

"Delusion of victimization?" Huo Yan remembered the relevant introduction in a book he borrowed from Ning Shuyi a while ago.

Ning Shuyi shook his head: "These two are not the same thing. People with delusional victimization disorder do not need any facts, they imagine everything out of thin air, and use their brains to make up everything.

This kind of person with a strong sense of victim consciousness is not a complete fiction, all delusional, but normal things have two sides, or even multiple sides, but they will subconsciously make associations in the direction of breaking the law and committing crimes.

For example, you see a man picking a kitchen knife in a place that sells kitchen utensils and cooking utensils, picks a satisfactory one, tries the sharpness, is satisfied, and leaves.

What would you think? ”

Huo Yan was stunned for a moment: "What's there to think about!" Unless he has a criminal record, or already has some motive that I have mastered, this is a normal person to buy a kitchen knife and go home to cook. ”

"That's right, you're the way a normal person thinks, but when the victim sees it, he may think, why did this man test whether it was sharp or not when he bought a kitchen knife? Does he want to cook or kill?

Could he have killed his wife at home, and then prepared to buy a kitchen knife and go back to dismember? ”

Now you know the difference between the two, right? Ning Shuyi gave him an example.

"Understood," Huo Yan understood, "the delusion of victimization is purely subjective processing, and the victimization is based on objective facts.

Although the paths are the same, the roots are different. ”

"Yes, because the delusions of victimization are all subjective, there are often illogical situations, which make people feel unreliable when they hear it, and it is easy for people to detect that it is abnormal.

But victimism is different, because they are based on the analysis of a certain objective real situation, so many times they can find a theoretical basis, which sounds very reasonable and very pertinent.

It's just that when this kind of speech appears more intensively, it will be very dramatic, as if all the bad guys have run to party around her alone.

At this time, people with strong judgment will inevitably realize that the truth of these statements needs to be verified.

If you change to someone who is particularly easy to be persuaded by other people's opinions, and who is easy to be led by the nose, you may only find it scary after listening to it. ”

"So do you think the actions of the landlord Bi Runlin she said exist?" Huo Yan asked.

"I think it exists, but whether the actual situation is exactly the same as what she said is another matter." Ning Shuyi rubbed his hands, "Anyway, even if it's a half-truth, we can be regarded as hearing a lot of information that we didn't know before, which is much better than the original black eyes!"

Let's touch the bottom of this Bi Runlin first! ”

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