77. Communication
Fortunately, although Jia's mother loves Jia Baoyu to the point of spoiling, she has not lost her mind in the end, in the past, Jia Zheng taught children, she always stopped, mainly because Jia Zheng only taught with sticks, and if he didn't like him, he would either beat or scold, and never had good words in his mouth, either "evil obstacles" or "rebels", and he could see that the child was like a quail, and it was strange that Jia's mother could see it.
Mr. Yao is different, Jia's mother has asked Jia Baoyu carefully, and knows that this gentleman is strict in his schoolwork, but as long as he listens carefully in class and completes his homework well, the students will patiently answer their questions and praise them if they make progress, even if their brains are not smart enough and they are slow to learn, as long as they have a positive and sincere attitude, he will not be too harsh.
Jia Baoyu is willing to listen to him, and she can listen to him, which is a good teacher in Jia's mother's opinion, so even if she feels sorry for Baoyu and thinks that he goes to school too hard, she just talks a few words, and puts more effort into eating and living, and will not let him go.
Jia's mother is not an old fool after all, she loves Jia Baoyu, she really hopes that he is good, since there is a good teacher who Jia Baoyu does not dislike, and can teach and lead Baoyu to progress, she can only be happy, and will not stop and drag him back.
Many people say that Jia Baoyu's ideas are grotesque, but in fact, he is not quite consistent with the mainstream thoughts, he does not love fame and fortune, he does not love power, he looks down on people who camp for profit, and he hates every vulgar person who is full of philistines equally.
The "Lu beetle" that Jia Baoyu spites are those who study for fame and fortune, not that the person who reads is "Lu beetle" in his eyes, but he was young when he said this, and his expression was incomplete; He doesn't like to read, in addition to children playing, more importantly, in his simple concept, reading and literacy is to understand things and enrich himself, but people around him told him that reading and making progress is to gain fame and be an official in the future.
Mr. Yao is different, he is a great Confucian, needless to say, even if he has known him for a short time, it is enough to convince Jia Baoyu as a young man, the key is that Mr. Yao is open-minded and can tolerate all kinds of views, Jia Baoyu tried to express his dislike for the career economy, Mr. Yao not only criticized him, but appreciated, which made him have a good impression of Mr. Yao, and a sense of confidant.
However, Mr. Yao can be invited by Lin Ruhai to be Lin Moyu's teacher, the depth of thought and the way he behaves are impeccable, he himself is an idle cloud and a crane-like character, born in a scholarly family, and has also been admitted to the Jinshi, but did not stay in the officialdom, but opened a school to teach and educate people, the real noble heart does not admire fame and fortune, he agrees with Jia Baoyu's thoughts, and knows that his ideas have many biases, he will teach him more strictly, in his opinion, this child is a piece of jade, carefully carved will be able to shine, He is willing to be this carver.
They don't know what the family is like, but they know that the level of Mr. Jia Dairu in the school is average, and he is not a good teacher, but the Jia family's love for face is engraved in the bones, no matter how bad Jia Dairu is, it is also the elder of the family, no one is embarrassed to dismiss him, the reason why these children in the family have been attending classes in school is not that they can't hire a better gentleman, but that the whole family has to get by and get used to it, without strong external interference, no one is willing to change or reform, it's just fooling around.
It just so happened that Mr. Yao appeared, from Jia's mother to Li Kun, everyone up and down was very confident in Lin Ruhai's vision, and felt that the gentleman invited by Lin Ruhai must be a famous teacher, and he was willing to let his children go to Lin's house to study, and Mr. Yao really lived up to their expectations, and in just a few days, he achieved initial results, so he was extremely satisfied with Mr. Yao.
What the Jia family thinks, Mr. Yao doesn't care, he is mainly responsible for the Lin family, therefore, in response to the situation of these students, he commented on Jia Min: "Moyu has a solid foundation, people are also smart and diligent, and they study hard enough, as long as they continue to maintain, the title of the gold list will not be a problem in the future; The children of your family have their own advantages and disadvantages, the most diligent is Jia Lan, his talent is also good, although he is a little cold, but it has little impact; Jia Cong's qualifications are average, he is better than being honest, never lazy and slippery, teaching patiently, and can also become a tool; Jia Huan is more clever, but he thinks too much, and his jealousy is heavier, so he doesn't have to worry about his studies, the difficult thing is to teach him to be sensible and reasonable, and use his mind on the right path, so as not to make mistakes in his daily actions. β
"Although these children have more or less problems, the old man is still sure to teach them well, but the most troublesome is Jia Baoyu." Mr. Yao finally said that Jia Baoyu had both praise and regret, "This child can be called the most affectionate and sexual, his intelligence and intelligence are far beyond ordinary people, he has his own thoughts, he refuses to succumb to customs, but he is born rich and noble, and his family loves and spoils, and he is naΓ―ve and ignorant of the world, lacking responsibility and responsibility." It's no wonder that the child is not guilty, mainly because no one has ever given him the right guidance and teaching, and in the long run, no matter how talented and beautiful the jade is, there is only one result of the beautiful jade being dusty. β
Jia Min sighed: "As Mr. said, children are good children, but they have been delayed, so I have to bother Mr. to bother more, and I don't ask them to achieve much in the future, as long as they can have some ability to settle down and be an upright person, we are thankful!" These children will be entrusted to Mr., you can teach as much as you want, we will listen to your arrangement! β
Mr. Yao habitually stroked his beard and said, "Madame, don't worry, since I have been invited by Dong Weng, I will take responsibility and do my best to teach them, and I dare not slack off a little." β
The teachers and parents fully exchanged opinions and reached a consensus on the students' arrangements, Mr. Yao got the promise he wanted, and he was free from constraints, and Jia Min had a clearer understanding of the students' situation and knew how to communicate with his mother's family.
When Jia Min turned around, he went to his mother's house, called Jia's mother and Jia Zheng together, relayed Mr. Yao's comments, and added some kind words, trying to describe the children as manufacturable materials, so that they could delegate power and transfer the children's education to Mr. Yao.
Jia Yu and Jia Zheng have no opinions, no matter what their attitude towards their son and grandson is, they hope that the children will become the same, they actually have self-knowledge, knowing that they are not the kind of father who can teach their children, since the younger sister is willing to take over, and has seen the results, of course they will not object, and they agreed very happily.