Chapter 95: A woman can hold up half the sky
Regarding Meng Fen's optimism about Xu Xiao, Chen Tonghai said angrily: "A woman is a woman, but she has long hair and short knowledge, so many people are mixed, and how many people can come out, it is an iron rice bowl, and it is enough to feed a large family?" ”
Chen Tonghai is still macho.
was refuted by Chen Tonghai, Meng Fen smiled a little embarrassed.
"You can't say that, there is no length or shortness of knowledge, many times women can hold up half the sky, women have great potential, but whatever men can do, they can also do it, whether it is work or family."
Regarding Chen Tonghai's arrogance, Xu Xiao calmly retorted.
As soon as these words came out, the three women present were stunned, Wang Ling and Chen's mother Meng Fen cast a grateful look at Xu Xiao.
Even Chen Li, who had prejudices against Xu Xiao, couldn't help but be stunned on the spot, looking at Xu Xiao with complicated eyes, did he really see it like this?
This woman holds up half the sky, which is very remarkable, but it is also an old-time concept, and how many men have cared about it now.
In today's highly competitive society, women are really inferior to men in terms of economic productivity.
This can take care of the housework, and it is not a little weaker than making a living.
"You really see it that way?"
Chen Li's doubts came out of Wang Xingfeng's mouth, and he was also curious whether Xu Xiao's words were for compliments or distractions.
"It should be so, the efforts of women in modern society are not lower than those of men, and even more than that." Xu Xiao said directly.
"Nonsense, these women are in charge at home, where can they be tired, are we tired of socializing, in order to support the family, we pay more, this woman has long hair and short knowledge, this is not staring at the reprimand, it should really turn the sky!"
The competitive Chen Tonghai, the more he said this, the more excited he became, and he was about to point at Xu Xiao's nose and scold, this kid didn't understand what he was saying!
A big man, help these women speak, Xu Xiao has this vision.
Hypocrisy!
This man is so hypocritical!
"Turning the sky upside down, whose sky is that."
Xu Xiao smiled lightly and continued: "Women recognize that it is not easy for men to have careers, so men should also admit the hardships of women in running the family, and when it comes to women's careers, they experience greater difficulties than men. ”
"On the contrary, I am more in favor of equal pay for men and women, and on the basis of equal treatment, fair treatment rather than equal treatment."
Xu Xiao gave an extremely objective answer.
He will not take advantage of the dominant side just because he is a man, belittle women arrogantly, and raise the value that men bring.
"What is fairness is different from equality."
Wang Dashan also came to be interested, and waited for Xu Xiao to say it.
"Brother Shan, you won't do the same to this kid, will you?" Chen Tonghai's forehead was beating wildly, and he suddenly grabbed a little.
These people are deliberately unable to get along with him?
"This is a family dinner and chat, no matter how high or low." Wang Dashan has the energy, which also makes Chen Tonghai relaxed.
"Is it his own family, is he Xu Xiao also considered our Wang family's own family, and Wang Ling did not marry him." Chen Tonghai snorted, he didn't think so.
In front of everyone, Xu Xiao refuted his face, and he was naturally unhappy.
"Then it's half of your own family, don't be afraid, boy, keep talking." Wang Dashan said with a smile.
Compared with Chen Tonghai, who has a small belly, this smiling Wang Dashan gives Xu Xiao a bottomless feeling in his heart.
Such a person has a city government, not like a businessman like Chen Tonghai.
Not long ago, Wang Ling said that Chen Tonghai is in the business of acquiring second-hand cars, although it is not as good as listed companies, but the scale in Nanzhen is not small.
Over the years, he has made a lot of money, and Chen Tonghai's whole person is fluttering, and most of the people around him are complimentary, so he is not angry.
If it weren't for the seniority, Wang Ling would have scolded Chen Tonghai for a few words, don't make a little money, and you won't be on the sidelines.
But over the years, in addition to occasionally reprimanding Meng Fen, Chen Tonghai has also treated Meng Fen well.
No, the jade necklace that Meng Fen wore around his neck, the gold bracelet on his hand, and the cheongsam clothes on his body were all purchased by Chen Tonghai.
But Chen Tonghai has been getting worse and worse for Meng Fen over the years, beating and scolding him at every turn, and even Wang Ling was so angry that he felt a pain in his liver when he found out.
For Wang Dashan's "appreciation", Xu Xiao didn't dare to be proud, but nodded and said, "Then I'll tell a story." ”
With that, the three women on the couch pricked up their ears.
"Three children are standing outside the fence watching a football game, the first child is tall and sturdy and can see the game outside the fence, the second child is medium and has to stand on a box to see the game, and the last child is short and stands on a box and raises his hands to reach the edge of the wall."
"And in front of them, there are three boxes."
Xu Xiao said with a smile: "That is one person gets a box, then among the three people, two people can see the game, and the child with short stature can only look at the wall and listen to the game, which is equal treatment." ”
"And the tall child, looking up at the game, the child of medium stature, standing on the box to watch the game, and the last child standing on two boxes to watch the game, this is fair treatment, just like the relationship between men and women now."
"Under the weaker side of women's nature than men, it is more important to be treated fairly, rather than exalting one side and belittling one."
After Xu Xiao's story was finished, everyone present had different eyes.
"This story is quite meaningful." Wang Dashan's smile grew.
I have to admit that this son has a vision.
The three women on the sofa looked at Xu Xiao with a hint of gratitude, he was speaking for women and talking about fairness.
In Xu Xiao's view, Wang Ling and Chen Li are excellent new generation women.
"Xu Xiao's words are very reasonable, men and women are treated fairly, not equally!" Wang Ling glanced at Xu Xiao appreciatively, her eyes full of pride and pride.
Only Xu Xiao understands in his heart that after another twenty years, fairness and equal treatment have been truly achieved.
Even in many tough construction industries, and even in the hard-working agriculture and animal husbandry industries, there are many strong women.
Those women not only have a high degree of education, but also have a long-term vision, and play a great role in the construction of the country.
And many of their salaries exceed those of men in the same industry, and they are also much better than men in terms of family economic management.
Of course, this will not soon be under the banner of equality between men and women, emphasizing the importance of women's rights, and there are not a few women who have benefited from it, which has advantages and disadvantages, and in Xu Xiao's eyes, it will become a double-edged sword in the future.
Sometimes too much emphasis on women's rights and making things difficult for the other party is not necessarily a mutually fair thing.