005 explores the concept of mate selection
The loser system sensed the host's emotional agitation, and took the opportunity to encourage: [Come on, host, do you need my hint for the vicious female supporting actress's scaring lines? 】
Lin Ruoyan said confidently: "No need, I already have words." ”
So Lin Ruoyan seemed to cater to Fang Yue's positioning of her straw bag, pretended to be innocent, and replied with a little shyness: "Actually, I am more interested in Mr. Wu and Miss Fang's view of mate selection. After all, it sounds like you are very successful in your career, what do elite successful people like you expect from marriage? ”
Fang Yue pouted secretly when she heard this, sure enough, this Miss Lin was here on a blind date, and she didn't know what adult topics she was talking about with Wu Chenghao just now, could it be a bar experience in the south?
Fang Yue said coldly and arrogantly: "Domestic women hold half the sky, if they have ideals and abilities, adhere to their career development plans, and make a little achievement, the resistance is actually smaller than that of foreign countries." My ideal partner must be someone who has a career and vision, and can support my career, help each other, and reach a higher level. ”
This sentence is very pertinent, although Lin Ruoyan has always been a low-level worker in her previous life, she can also feel the respect for women in China, and strong women in my country are more likely to succeed than women in developed countries abroad that advocate equality. Fang Yue said confidently that he wanted to make a career, and he had a foundation in China, and there were also certain men who supported and agreed.
In addition, around the turn of the millennium, the state abolished the welfare of housing, commercial housing sprung up like mushrooms after a rain, the concept of the south is advanced, the development speed of the real estate industry is indeed faster than that of the north, and there are many successful experiences. According to the setting in the book, Beijing has just opened the formal land auction process, and Fang Yue immediately smelled business opportunities to expand in Beijing, and his vision and mind are indeed good.
stripped of the tea flavor, Lin Ruoyan recognized Fang Yue's confidence and vision, as well as the fighting spirit of a natural strong woman.
However, Lin Ruoyan also saw the thoughts of the young talent Wu Chenghao from the book. He and Fang Yue are basically two extremes, Lin Ruoyan has a lot of time to see how a strong woman can deal with Wu Chenghao's ideology.
Sure enough, Wu Chenghao smiled and listened to Fang Yue's speech, and he couldn't help but praise him politely, but he turned to his completely different expectations for the other half.
Wu Chenghao is willing to resist the pressure to work hard outside the home, and his ideal wife can be virtuous and gentle, focusing on him, and teaching her husband and children at home full-time. What is a year, two years, three more children and more blessings, the country does not allow more children, then go to country M to be born, born with the nationality of a developed country is more convenient, the best wife can also be reasonable, virtuous and generous, tolerate him for social entertainment, and other women in those scenes.
Lin Ruoyan secretly stared at Fang Yue's expression, and when she saw that the other party had endured it a few times and didn't refute it, she was inexplicably happy.
Wu Chenghao responded to the country's call to have three children more than 20 years in advance, which can be regarded as a bit far-sighted. Therefore, for thousands of years, no matter how whitewashed, in a male-dominated society, their ideal type of woman may never have changed essentially.
Lin Ruoyan understood this in her last life, she didn't plan to rely on men to live anyway, so she wouldn't confide in her heart on such an occasion, and she had to debate.
After Wu Chenghao's generous speech, Fang Yue, who was as smart as Fang Yue, suddenly understood that she was definitely not Wu Chenghao's ideal type, and time was precious and could not be wasted, so she immediately found an excuse to leave first.
Wu Chenghao saw that Lin Ruoyan kept smiling and silent, and felt that he might have a play, and he became more and more attentive. How did he know that Lin Ruoyan just had a sore foot and didn't want to stand up and change positions, and it was impossible for her to use her ignorance to really talk about the key issues of the technical upgrade of the mobile phone, she was thinking about how to end the topic and make room for a big meal.
Lin Ruoyan's only worry is that she failed on a blind date today, and how she will make a promise to her brother Lin when she goes home.
To tell the truth, those single young men invited by my brother are tall, short, fat and thin, and there are a few handsome ones, but this is not a vegetable market to buy cabbage and radishes, and take them home to wash them and put them in the pot.
She knew very well that marrying is different from falling in love, and the purpose of a blind date is to get married. If the two sides do not agree on the three views and cannot accept each other's family situation, the future will be a mess and increase troubles. If you only fall in love and don't get married, you are playing hooligan. She counted on her fingers, she only had eight months to live, so why bother to harm others? Wouldn't it be more fragrant to save some time to do what you love and enjoy life?
Once again, Lin Ruoyan decided to continue to nest in the corner, eating and drinking, watching those talented and beautiful people in the venue talking and laughing, and insisting on keeping a low profile.
Just now, she used a little trick to make that Fang Yue walk away in a funny way, and euphemistically expressed her intention not to call Wu Chenghao, but only to be an ordinary friend, and sent a good person card to this overly enthusiastic Wu Chenghao.
After watching the other party leave gloomily, she didn't bother to catch her breath, when suddenly another young and handsome man took the initiative to walk in front of her.
This person's appearance is much higher than Wu Chenghao's, he belongs to a walking clothes rack, and he is a beautiful man with nine heads. She remembered that the beautiful man was surrounded by a group of ladies and looked like a star.
Lin Ruoyan thought about it carefully, could this be another blind date that her brother prepared for her, the depressed but very gentle and virtuous eighteenth-tier male star, Wei Xu?
The plot of the original book, the heroine Li Yiqi's official partner is Wei Xu, although now Wei Xu has only acted in some unknown TV series broadcast by local stations, and not many people know him, but in the future, his career will continue to rise, and after several big IPs, it will be very popular in the circle.
At that time, the heroine's career was at a low point, but Wei Xu made her relationship public, withstood various public opinion pressures to support the heroine's career, and switched filming to variety shows, and all the money she earned was invested in her company, and she also endorsed her products in various ways. In the end, the heroine's company was successfully listed, and Wei Xu also won the title of actor, achieving a good story of love compared to Jin Jian and wings.
Lin Ruoyan said in her heart, such an excellent actor, don't pretend to have a relationship with her for money at this time.
As soon as Wei Xu came up, he introduced himself: "Hello Miss Lin, I'm actor Wei Xu. ”
"Hello." Lin Ruoyan deliberately answered only two words coldly and did not continue to speak.
Wei Xu thought that the other party would stare at him, after all, many women were reluctant to take their eyes off him, but he didn't expect this rumored real daughter with a confused private life and frequent visits to bars to be so silent, she didn't even order wine, she was too quiet and gentle, and she only had the dishes on the table in her eyes, and she was also very cold to him.
So Wei Xu had to talk awkwardly: "My agency arranged for me to attend this charity cocktail party, and one of the jobs is to chat with you for more than half an hour. ”
The future actor is very honest now, bluntly saying that he is an actor who was hired for money, pretending to be a true suitor, Bo Meizi smiled, his brother may really do this kind of thing.