Chapter 679: It's not easy to raise a child
When Han Yue'e and the others left, Yunni and Yunlin also returned to their residence to rest. Shen Hongjun glared at the little Shen Fang in Yun Xue's arms, stretched out his hand and pointed at his little nose and said, "Tell you, obediently, don't cry." Otherwise, I'll have someone send you back to the capital tomorrow. If you can't see your mother then, it's useless for you to cry anymore. ”
Where can little Shen Fang understand his father's words? It's just that my father's face is not very good, and he doesn't smile at all, which is a little scary. So he looked at Shen Hongjun with wide eyes, and the tears in his eyes didn't dare to fall no matter what.
Yun Xue didn't dare to help her son intercede, don't think that the child doesn't understand anything when he is young, in fact, he is very good at reading people's faces. If you open your mouth to help your son speak at this time, then your son will be even more difficult to manage in the future. So, Yun Xue had no choice but to hug her son expressionlessly and say nothing.
Shen Fang looked at his father in fear, and then turned his head to look at his mother. found that there was no smile on his mother's face, and the little guy pursed his mouth, but he didn't dare to cry, but only lay on his mother's shoulder and secretly looked at his father with his eyes. Then he found that his father's face was still cold, and he was so frightened that he hurriedly turned his head away.
After his son turned his head and didn't dare to look at himself, Shen Hongjun smiled. This child is very shrewd, and after only a few months, he knows how to distinguish people and know how to read people's faces. Shen Hongjun really didn't dare to let his son go too much, he was afraid that he would raise a man who was not afraid of heaven and earth in the future.
Fortunately, this little guy was still very afraid of Shen Hongjun, and Shen Hongjun had no choice, so he had to play the role of Yan's father. Children, there must be someone who is afraid, otherwise no one will be able to control it in the future.
At this time, it was not early, and some girls and women were in the kitchen to eat and sent them over. These were bought and brought back yesterday in the state city, and they had just returned to the village, and all kinds of things were not very handy. "Master Hou, madam, the things here are not complete, I'm afraid the taste of the products is a little worse." The mother-in-law in charge of cooking in the kitchen also followed and explained.
Yun Xue and Shen Hongjun were also hungry. In the past few days, I have been on the road, and sometimes I can rush to the city to stay, and the food and accommodation can be stronger. Sometimes there is no village in front of you, and there is no shop behind, so you can only camp in the wilderness. In that case, the food and shelter will be much worse.
Looking at the hot meals in front of her, Yun Xue waved her hand and smiled, "This is already very good, Aunt Liu." You all go down to eat, you don't have to wait in front of you, the big guys have worked hard all the way. ”
And they all went down, and ate and rested to each other. Yun Xue put her son on the kang and let him lie down and play by himself, and then hurriedly ate some food with Shen Hongjun. Yun Xue looked back at her son while eating, for fear that he would turn over again.
The child is still young, and today is the first time to turn over, and he can't come back. In case he is bored, it is easy to cover his nose and mouth, which is easy to hold back.
"Xue'er, you really should try to let Fang'er follow the nurse or the girls, it's too hard for you to watch him all the time." Seeing Yun Xue like this, Shen Hongjun couldn't help but sigh.
Yun Xue is a child who likes children very much, and when she hurts the child, she can't wait to hold it all day. This is also why Fang'er is more and more attached to Yun Xue, as long as Fang'er cries, Yun Xue will coax him, of course he doesn't want to be with others.
Yun Xue turned her head to glance at her son, and then said with a smile, "I don't have anything to do now, I'm just looking at the child, how can I be tired?" Haven't you seen the daughters-in-law in the farmhouse, aren't they all coaxing their children by themselves? Some not only have to coax the children, but also have to wash clothes and cook. What about the lack of leisure at home and outside the home, don't people still pull their children up? ”
"Fang'er is our first child, and it is inevitable that I will love him more. Don't worry, I won't let myself get tired. Besides, with the help of red silk, where can they be busy? As a mother, it's normal to pay more attention to your children. ”
"However, you care so much about your son, you can't even pay attention to me." Shen Hongjun said with some grievances.
Four months after her son was born, Yun Xue put almost all her attention on her son. In addition, this kid can make a fuss, so it takes even more energy. Yun Xue is busy with her son's affairs every day, and during the day, she can rest for a while while the child is sleeping, so after sleeping with her son at night, Yun Xue is tired and sleeps.
Shen Hongjun always wanted to make love with his wife, but found that his little wife slept very sweetly. He felt sorry for his wife, so he was naturally reluctant to disturb Yun Xue sleeping. Between the two of them, there was really a long time when they couldn't talk well together, and they couldn't make out in a serious way.
Sometimes, both of them are a little emotional, and then the son over there cries, so that they don't have any mood. It seems that the two of them have only been married for more than a year, and they have been away for nearly half a year in the middle.
Shen Hongjun sometimes thinks that his son came too early, and it would be okay to be a little late.
Yun Xue raised her head and saw Shen Hongjun's somewhat complaining look, and she was also a little sorry in her heart. "Zhiyuan, I'm sorry, the child is too young, I really don't worry about him. In this way, when we go to the northwest and everything settles down, I will hand over my son to the nurse to coax, okay? ”
Yun Xue stretched out her hand and held Shen Hongjun's big hand, "Okay, Xianggong, I know that I have snubbed you recently, won't it be possible if you don't do this in the future?" She whispered softly to a man.
Shen Hongjun sighed and stretched out his hand to hold Yun Xue in his arms, "I'm fine, it's just that I can't help but feel a little distressed when I see you worrying about it every day." In my eyes, it is only natural that the child should be fed by the nurse. On the contrary, it is really rare to see children like you, who raise children in person, in large families. ”
Shen Hongjun's words are true, in those big families, the children are born to be fed by the nurse. The woman in the mansion has to be in charge of the feed, and all kinds of affairs in the house are extremely cumbersome every day, and they need to be decided by the housewife. No woman would be stupid enough to raise a child herself and hand over the rights of housekeeper.
Moreover, the housewives of those big families also have to fight with the concubines and aunts in the house. If they raise their children themselves, where else can they get close to their husbands? Therefore, for various reasons, women from large families will eat what they have to milk after giving birth, and do not breastfeed their children themselves.
There are also a lot of affairs in the Hou Mansion, and of course Yunxue will deal with it. Of course, Yunxue has two more powerful helpers. For general affairs, Aunt Fu and Aunt Fang will take care of it. Especially Aunt Fang, who is well-informed, can handle many things very properly. Only when they can't make a decision will they let Yunxue call the shots.
is also because of this, although Yunxue personally raised her son, the affairs in the Hou Mansion have never been chaotic. In addition, Shen Hongjun is only Yun Xue by his side, and she doesn't need to compete with other women, so Yun Xue can raise her son with such peace of mind.
Yun Xue leaned on her husband's chest, "Zhiyuan, I still have to thank you, if it weren't for your support, I wouldn't have been able to raise my son myself." I just don't want to, in the future, my son will be closer to the nurse than me, so I can't stand it. To be honest, my son is relying on me like this, and I'm actually very happy. ”
Shen Hongjun hugged Yun Xue's shoulder, "I know your thoughts." However, you also have to pay more attention to your body, you can't wear yourself out, you know? ”
Yun Xue nodded, "Okay." ”
The husband and wife snuggled together and whispered their affection in their hearts, which was originally a warm picture of deep affection. It's a pity that the little guy on the kang suddenly cried, which immediately broke this warm and quiet.
Yun Xue hurriedly came to her son's side, "Son, what's wrong with you?" She looked down and saw that Shen Fang's cushion was wet, "Little guy, you can really pee, it's only been a while, you've peed three times." Yun Xue hurriedly pulled out the blanket and threw it into the basin next to it, then found a dry and warm quilt from the kang head and put it on the little baby again.
The little fart was dry, and the little thing that was crying just now immediately stopped crying. He looked at his mother, who was crying and laughing in front of him, and chuckled.
Yun Xue picked up her son and slapped him on his little ass, "Bad guy, you know how to make trouble all the time." When the mother doesn't like you one day, she will throw you to the nurse. "The little guy is wearing cotton pants, and he has a padded shirt, and he slaps him, and he can't feel it at all.
The little doll looked at Yun Xue with a smile, he didn't feel anything on his ass at all, he lowered his head and arched twice in front of Yun Xue's chest, meaning that he was hungry.
"I'm hungry when I'm done, and when you're full, you pee again, alas, I'm out of luck with you." Yun Xue shook her head helplessly, and then hugged her son to breastfeed.
Hongya and the others came in and removed all the food on the table. "Madam, hot water has been prepared in the ear room, if Madame wants to bathe the little master, call the slave maid, and the slave maid will come to help." Red Aya said before going out.
Yunxue doesn't allow people to call Shen Fang the son of the world, the child is still young, and he can't afford to be famous. Wait for Shen Fang to pass the age of twelve, now he is only allowed to call the young master.
"Okay, I'll call you later." Yun Xue replied and concentrated on breastfeeding her son.
The amount of food for the little guy is really not small, and after eating on both sides, he is satisfied and relieved. Yun Xue hugged her son and patted him, and teased him for a while. Estimating that the time was almost up, he poured urine again, and then called out to Hongya and bathed Shen Fang together.
In order to maintain a stern image, Shen Hongjun usually doesn't dare to help his son take a bath, so this task is usually red silk and red silk.