Chapter 289: Mother's Advice

Yun Zhen entered the house, but he didn't see Jinxiu, and he couldn't help but wonder in his heart. But he didn't dare to ask, so he had to hold back. However, Yun Xue understood her brother's thoughts, and hurriedly asked Xu, "Auntie, why didn't you see Jinxiu?" ”

"In Westinghouse, I heard that you were coming, and I was too shy to come." Xu was talking nonsense with his eyes open. "Eldest daughter-in-law, go and call Jinxiu out, they are all so familiar, and you don't need to pay attention to those etiquette."

The eldest daughter-in-law of the Qian family hurriedly went to the West House and called Jinxiu out. Jinxiu had been in a hurry in the West House for a long time, but she had always been afraid of the Xu family, and the Xu family disagreed, so she really didn't dare to come out. This Jinxiu is the only girl in the family, Qian Mingyuan spoils her very much, but the Xu family is stricter. So their family is the opposite, strict mother and father. It's strange that a few children are still afraid that the Xu family is afraid of it.

Jinxiu entered the house and hurriedly looked towards Yun Zhen. I saw that his face was slightly darkened, but his spirit was very full, and he was relieved. What Jinxiu is most afraid of is that Yun Zhen's body does not recover well, and if he stays ill, it will be broken.

"Old Dong, Aunt Han, eldest uncle, Sister Yunxue, you are all here." Jinxiu said hello one by one.

As soon as Han Yue'e saw Jinxiu, she quickly pulled her to her side, "Let me see, are you thin these days?" Well, it's okay, nice complexion. My daughter's family, as long as she is strong, she is stronger than anything else. ”

Jinxiu sat down next to Han Yue'e, "Thank you aunt for thinking about it, everything is fine with Jinxiu." ”

At this time, Yun Xue talked about tomorrow, "Uncle, aunt, we just went to invite a matchmaker, and the matchmaker will come to the door with us tomorrow morning." ”

"Why bother? Let's all say yes. In fact, if you want me to say, you just decide to do it directly, and there is no need to go through those processes. When Qian Mingyuan heard this, he hurriedly said.

Xu glared at her husband, and then turned back to Yun Xue and smiled, "That aunt is so grateful to you, auntie understands that the Han family is doing this, which is to elevate our splendor." Yun Xue, this friendship of yours, my aunt remembers, and in the future, Jinxiu will live with Yun Zhen sincerely. If there's something wrong with her, just tell me and I'll clean her up for you. ”

Yun Xue said in her heart, the two are so far away, that is, there is really something wrong with Jinxiu in the future, and I can still run to Anton for a little big thing? However, as a mother, Xu is qualified. If a woman gets married, it is tantamount to reincarnation again, and the relationship is a lifelong event. Xu can check her daughter well, this is the normal performance of a mother who cares about and loves her daughter.

If the Xu family also agreed to settle the family matter hastily, Yun Xue would have to wonder if there was anything greasy in this? Otherwise, why would a good big girl marry so easily?

In fact, marrying a daughter-in-law is quite similar to buying something.

If you spend less money, you may not cherish the things you buy, and maybe one day you don't like them and throw them away. It's cheap anyway, so it's not a big deal. But if you spend a lot of money, even if others say it is not good, you will also feel that others have no vision, and what you buy must be the best in the world, otherwise you can spend so much money? Of course, the one who was wronged doesn't count.

Marrying a daughter-in-law is almost inseparable, the more the daughter-in-law has more rules, the more difficult it is for the mother-in-law's mother-in-law, and she spends a lot of money to buy a house and buy things, the more the man cherishes it. On the contrary, if it is easy and marries a daughter-in-law who goes home without spending much money, the in-laws will look down on it. You see, how eager is this to marry into our family? I'm just not good to you, what's wrong, can you still run?

Although Yun Xue has never been married, she has seen a lot of such things in her past and present lives. So in Yun Zhen's family affairs, she is also very solemn. First, it is to prove to the Qian family that the Han family has the ability to make Jinxiu live a good life. Second, I also hope that Yun Zhen can cherish it, it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law, and it is necessary to cherish a daughter-in-law when she marries back. No matter what happens in the future, both of them have to live well.

"Auntie, rest assured, Jinxiu is a sensible and capable girl, and with her aunt's teachings, she will definitely be able to live a good life with Yun Zhen in the future. I will also discipline Yun Zhen well, and I will never let him bully Jinxiu. Besides, my aunt looks at my Yunzhen's silly appearance, it's too late for him to hurt Jinxiu, and he won't have to listen to Jinxiu in the future? As long as they live in harmony with each other, we big guys can rest assured. Yun Xue still had a good impression of the Xu family, so she pointed at Yun Zhen and smiled.

Yun Zhen is staring at Jinxiu. was originally a hairy boy who had a taste of first acquaintance, but he hadn't seen him for more than a month. As soon as they met, he looked stupid just by looking at the splendor, where else did he care? So when Yun Xue said this, the big guys all laughed.

Yun Zhen came back to his senses at this time, and he was a little embarrassed to see that everyone was laughing at him. "Ahem, don't even look at me?"

The crowd burst into laughter again.

Yun Xue and the others sat at Qian's house for a while, and then said goodbye to leave. Xu wanted to keep them at home for dinner, but Yun Xue refused. "Auntie, tomorrow, tomorrow we will come to the door to ask for our relatives, and you must keep us for dinner. Forget it today, we are too tired on the way, so we want to go back to sleep and relax. ”

Xu also understood that it was impossible to keep them to eat today, so he was no longer reluctant. "Okay, my aunt will prepare a table of banquets tomorrow, and let's have a lively time together tomorrow."

The Qian family was sent to the gate, and after watching the Han family walk away, they turned around and went back to the house.

"Daughter-in-law, what did you just stare at me? I just thought, we don't need to be so particular. Why bother to hire a matchmaker again, and it is a toss to propose marriage and a marriage? Just settle the family affair. After Qian Mingyuan entered the house, he asked very puzzled.

Jinxiu also looked at her mother with wide eyes, and then pouted, "Isn't it?" Mother, what are you doing here? Didn't you also say on weekdays that the Han family is a good family, and I will definitely enjoy happiness when I marry? Why do you have to put up this shelf today? If Sister Yunxue is annoyed, what will she do in the future? ”

Xu Shi looked at the father and daughter in front of him, and really didn't know what to say. "You both have straw in your heads, right? Why don't you have a long brain? Bow your head to marry a woman, raise your head to marry a woman, our daughters are married in a dignified manner, why do I have to lower my posture? Didn't my daughter do anything unseemly, why did I have to marry her to them easily? Isn't that looking for people to look down on splendor? ”

"Their Han family is a daughter-in-law, if they don't even bow their heads, then what good life can they have when they marry Jinxiu? I just want to put my posture enough, so that they can also know that the daughter of the Qian family is not a kid from the Han family, and no one wants it. We also have a mother's family in Jinxiu, if they dare to be bad for Jinxiu, then they have to think about it. ”

Xu pulled his daughter's hand and said very seriously, "Mother knows, Yun Zhen saved you, and you are grateful to him in your heart." Besides, the two of you are also happy with each other, which is very good. If you don't like Yun Zhen, the Han family just put a mountain of gold, and my mother won't agree. However, you have to know in your own heart, this husband, you have to love him and rely on him, but you can't get used to him. Men are like children, and if you get used to it, you will get used to it in the future, you know? ”

Jinxiu seems to understand whether she understands or not, "Mother, I can understand a little bit of what you said, but I don't seem to understand anything else." Jinxiu was very distressed and lay on Xu's lap and said sullenly.

"My mother doesn't expect you to understand now, this is all what your grandmother told your mother when she got married. My mother has also been with your father for so many years, and she slowly realized it. You're still young, so it's okay if you don't understand it for a while. You will remember that you are married to a man, what a man is, is the sky above your head. He has to be able to hold up a piece of heaven for you, and for your children. Xu reached out and gently stroked his daughter's black hair, and his heart was also a little heavy. The girl who was carefully raised is about to get married, and if you want to be a mother, you will feel uncomfortable, right?

"The Han family is indeed a good family, you marry in the past, and you have to discuss everything with Yun Xue. That kid has a lot of ability and knowledge, and he doesn't suffer a lot when he listens to it. Waiting for you to learn slowly, Yunxue should get married, and you will have to worry about all these small ones in the future. You have to remember that you are the eldest sister-in-law, and the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, you have to help Yun Zhen and raise all your younger brothers and sisters to become adults. ”

"The children of the Han family, my mother will not be ordinary characters in the future. You are good to them, and when they grow up, they will definitely not forget you. But don't do that kind of abuse of other people's children, you know? You must know that those are Yun Zhen's relatives, and if you do that, sooner or later it will hurt your relationship with Yun Zhen. Xu told his daughter very seriously, for fear that Jinxiu would not have a good time in the future.

Jinxiu listened to her mother's words very carefully, and remembered every word in her heart. She also knows that this is her mother's experience for so many years, and she can't underestimate it. "Mother, I understand, I will definitely remember my mother's words firmly in the future, and I will never forget it."

Qian Mingyuan on the side, as well as the husband and wife of the Qian family, couldn't help but nod after listening to Xu's words. "It's still my daughter-in-law who wants to understand, Jinxiu, your mother's words, you must remember them firmly. Your mother has been married to your father for so many years, and our husband and wife have never blushed, let alone quarreled. This is a great credit to your mother. Qian Mingyuan couldn't help but admire. You little ones have to remember that this is all the experience that your mother has learned over the years. ”

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Yun Zhen entered the house, but he didn't see Jinxiu, and he couldn't help but wonder in his heart. But he didn't dare to ask, so he had to hold back. However, Yun Xue understood her brother's thoughts, and hurriedly asked Xu, "Auntie, why didn't you see Jinxiu?" ”

"In Westinghouse, I heard that you were coming, and I was too shy to come." Xu was talking nonsense with his eyes open. "Eldest daughter-in-law, go and call Jinxiu out, they are all so familiar, and you don't need to pay attention to those etiquette."

The eldest daughter-in-law of the Qian family hurriedly went to the West House and called Jinxiu out. Jinxiu had been in a hurry in the West House for a long time, but she had always been afraid of the Xu family, and the Xu family disagreed, so she really didn't dare to come out. This Jinxiu is the only girl in the family, Qian Mingyuan spoils her very much, but the Xu family is stricter. So their family is the opposite, strict mother and father. It's strange that a few children are still afraid that the Xu family is afraid of it.

Jinxiu entered the house and hurriedly looked towards Yun Zhen. I saw that his face was slightly darkened, but his spirit was very full, and he was relieved. What Jinxiu is most afraid of is that Yun Zhen's body does not recover well, and if he stays ill, it will be broken.

"Old Dong, Aunt Han, eldest uncle, Sister Yunxue, you are all here." Jinxiu said hello one by one.

As soon as Han Yue'e saw Jinxiu, she quickly pulled her to her side, "Let me see, are you thin these days?" Well, it's okay, nice complexion. My daughter's family, as long as she is strong, she is stronger than anything else. ”

Jinxiu sat down next to Han Yue'e, "Thank you aunt for thinking about it, everything is fine with Jinxiu." ”

At this time, Yun Xue talked about tomorrow, "Uncle, aunt, we just went to invite a matchmaker, and the matchmaker will come to the door with us tomorrow morning." ”

"Why bother? Let's all say yes. In fact, if you want me to say, you just decide to do it directly, and there is no need to go through those processes. When Qian Mingyuan heard this, he hurriedly said.

Xu glared at her husband, and then turned back to Yun Xue and smiled, "That aunt is so grateful to you, auntie understands that the Han family is doing this, which is to elevate our splendor." Yun Xue, this friendship of yours, my aunt remembers, and in the future, Jinxiu will live with Yun Zhen sincerely. If there's something wrong with her, just tell me and I'll clean her up for you. ”

Yun Xue said in her heart, the two are so far away, that is, there is really something wrong with Jinxiu in the future, and I can still run to Anton for a little big thing? However, as a mother, Xu is qualified. If a woman gets married, it is tantamount to reincarnation again, and the relationship is a lifelong event. Xu can check her daughter well, this is the normal performance of a mother who cares about and loves her daughter.

If the Xu family also agreed to settle the family matter hastily, Yun Xue would have to wonder if there was anything greasy in this? Otherwise, why would a good big girl marry so easily?

In fact, marrying a daughter-in-law is quite similar to buying something.

If you spend less money, you may not cherish the things you buy, and maybe one day you don't like them and throw them away. It's cheap anyway, so it's not a big deal. But if you spend a lot of money, even if others say it is not good, you will also feel that others have no vision, and what you buy must be the best in the world, otherwise you can spend so much money? Of course, the one who was wronged doesn't count.

Marrying a daughter-in-law is almost inseparable, the more the daughter-in-law has more rules, the more difficult it is for the mother-in-law's mother-in-law, and she spends a lot of money to buy a house and buy things, the more the man cherishes it. On the contrary, if it is easy and marries a daughter-in-law who goes home without spending much money, the in-laws will look down on it. You see, how eager is this to marry into our family? I'm just not good to you, what's wrong, can you still run?

Although Yun Xue has never been married, she has seen a lot of such things in her past and present lives. So in Yun Zhen's family affairs, she is also very solemn. First, it is to prove to the Qian family that the Han family has the ability to make Jinxiu live a good life. Second, I also hope that Yun Zhen can cherish it, it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law, and it is necessary to cherish a daughter-in-law when she marries back. No matter what happens in the future, both of them have to live well.

"Auntie, rest assured, Jinxiu is a sensible and capable girl, and with her aunt's teachings, she will definitely be able to live a good life with Yun Zhen in the future. I will also discipline Yun Zhen well, and I will never let him bully Jinxiu. Besides, my aunt looks at my Yunzhen's silly appearance, it's too late for him to hurt Jinxiu, and he won't have to listen to Jinxiu in the future? As long as they live in harmony with each other, we big guys can rest assured. Yun Xue still had a good impression of the Xu family, so she pointed at Yun Zhen and smiled.

Yun Zhen is staring at Jinxiu. was originally a hairy boy who had a taste of first acquaintance, but he hadn't seen him for more than a month. As soon as they met, he looked stupid just by looking at the splendor, where else did he care? So when Yun Xue said this, the big guys all laughed.

Yun Zhen came back to his senses at this time, and he was a little embarrassed to see that everyone was laughing at him. "Ahem, don't even look at me?"

The crowd burst into laughter again.

Yun Xue and the others sat at Qian's house for a while, and then said goodbye to leave. Xu wanted to keep them at home for dinner, but Yun Xue refused. "Auntie, tomorrow, tomorrow we will come to the door to ask for our relatives, and you must keep us for dinner. Forget it today, we are too tired on the way, so we want to go back to sleep and relax. ”

Xu also understood that it was impossible to keep them to eat today, so he was no longer reluctant. "Okay, my aunt will prepare a table of banquets tomorrow, and let's have a lively time together tomorrow."

The Qian family was sent to the gate, and after watching the Han family walk away, they turned around and went back to the house.

"Daughter-in-law, what did you just stare at me? I just thought, we don't need to be so particular. Why bother to hire a matchmaker again, and it is a toss to propose marriage and a marriage? Just settle the family affair. After Qian Mingyuan entered the house, he asked very puzzled.

Jinxiu also looked at her mother with wide eyes, and then pouted, "Isn't it?" Mother, what are you doing here? Didn't you also say on weekdays that the Han family is a good family, and I will definitely enjoy happiness when I marry? Why do you have to put up this shelf today? If Sister Yunxue is annoyed, what will she do in the future? ”

Xu Shi looked at the father and daughter in front of him, and really didn't know what to say. "You both have straw in your heads, right? Why don't you have a long brain? Bow your head to marry a woman, raise your head to marry a woman, our daughters are married in a dignified manner, why do I have to lower my posture? Didn't my daughter do anything unseemly, why did I have to marry her to them easily? Isn't that looking for people to look down on splendor? ”

"Their Han family is a daughter-in-law, if they don't even bow their heads, then what good life can they have when they marry Jinxiu? I just want to put my posture enough, so that they can also know that the daughter of the Qian family is not a kid from the Han family, and no one wants it. We also have a mother's family in Jinxiu, if they dare to be bad for Jinxiu, then they have to think about it. ”

Xu pulled his daughter's hand and said very seriously, "Mother knows, Yun Zhen saved you, and you are grateful to him in your heart." Besides, the two of you are also happy with each other, which is very good. If you don't like Yun Zhen, the Han family just put a mountain of gold, and my mother won't agree. However, you have to know in your own heart, this husband, you have to love him and rely on him, but you can't get used to him. Men are like children, and if you get used to it, you will get used to it in the future, you know? ”

Jinxiu seems to understand whether she understands or not, "Mother, I can understand a little bit of what you said, but I don't seem to understand anything else." Jinxiu was very distressed and lay on Xu's lap and said sullenly.

"My mother doesn't expect you to understand now, this is all what your grandmother told your mother when she got married. My mother has also been with your father for so many years, and she slowly realized it. You're still young, so it's okay if you don't understand it for a while. You will remember that you are married to a man, what a man is, is the sky above your head. He has to be able to hold up a piece of heaven for you, and for your children. Xu reached out and gently stroked his daughter's black hair, and his heart was also a little heavy. The girl who was carefully raised is about to get married, and if you want to be a mother, you will feel uncomfortable, right?

"The Han family is indeed a good family, you marry in the past, and you have to discuss everything with Yun Xue. That kid has a lot of ability and knowledge, and he doesn't suffer a lot when he listens to it. Waiting for you to learn slowly, Yunxue should get married, and you will have to worry about all these small ones in the future. You have to remember that you are the eldest sister-in-law, and the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, you have to help Yun Zhen and raise all your younger brothers and sisters to become adults. ”

"The children of the Han family, my mother will not be ordinary characters in the future. You are good to them, and when they grow up, they will definitely not forget you. But don't do that kind of abuse of other people's children, you know? You must know that those are Yun Zhen's relatives, and if you do that, sooner or later it will hurt your relationship with Yun Zhen. Xu told his daughter very seriously, for fear that Jinxiu would not have a good time in the future.

Jinxiu listened to her mother's words very carefully, and remembered every word in her heart. She also knows that this is her mother's experience for so many years, and she can't underestimate it. "Mother, I understand, I will definitely remember my mother's words firmly in the future, and I will never forget it."

Qian Mingyuan on the side, as well as the husband and wife of the Qian family, couldn't help but nod after listening to Xu's words. "It's still my daughter-in-law who wants to understand, Jinxiu, your mother's words, you must remember them firmly. Your mother has been married to your father for so many years, and our husband and wife have never blushed, let alone quarreled. This is a great credit to your mother. Qian Mingyuan couldn't help but admire. You little ones have to remember that this is all the experience that your mother has learned over the years. ”

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