"I don't like to fight, and I won't fight with you." Chen Yanxi shook his head and said, "Because this kind of competition is meaningless." ”

"So, you mean, among the things you care about, Wang Ge is not included, right?"

Gu Panyan glanced at her playfully, and then at the little civet cat named Xiaoge, who was serious about cooking, and the meaning was self-evident.

Even Ling's cat is taken from his name, and if you say you don't care, no one will believe it.

"First of all, Wang Ge is a living, thinking person, not something or an object to fight for."

Chen Yanxi said to her seriously: "His actions are completely governed by his free will, not by the competition between you and me. ”

Gu Panyan frowned slightly.

Chen Yanxi looked at her and continued: "Secondly, I have grown so big and like someone for the first time, so of course I care about him. ”

"But I care about him as a person, not about my relationship with him."

"Affection is not a necessity for me, it is something that can be discarded at any time, and if he wants to live well with you and thus cut off contact with me, it is also a completely acceptable thing for me."

"I didn't want to have intimate relationships with other people, and being alone for the rest of my life was also a very ideal state of life."

Gu Panyan still frowned: "Don't you want to be with him?" ”

"Of course I do, after all, I like him."

Chen Yanxi looked at her and whispered, "But, more than this, I would like him to be free to choose to live the life he wants." ”

"Huh?" Gu Panyan was a little incomprehensible.

"It may seem like I'm being hypocritical, but I want to tell you anyway."

"Everyone cares differently about others." She said seriously, "For my personal reasons, my concern for Wang Ge is not that I must possess him, but that I will respect and support every choice he makes at the mercy of free will—even if that choice is far from me." ”

Just like he respected and supported the choice I made before. Chen Yanxi added in his heart.

Gu Panyan stared at her, frowning slightly.

Because of her previous special experience, she has the ability to easily see through the inner thoughts of others.

Therefore, she can deeply feel that every word of the girl in front of her is from the heart, and none of them are lies.

She finally understood why Wang Ge was so obsessed with this girl.

Such a strong personal charm overwhelms people like a tide, and if she were a man, she would also be fascinated.

However, understanding is understood, fascinated is fascinated, Gu Panyan does not agree with her approach.

There is a lot of suffering in the world, but happiness and beauty are too rare.

Suffering requires courage to overcome, and that rare happiness and beauty require courage to strive for and boldly hold it tightly in your hands.

Once you miss it, you may never have it again.

Why does happiness and beauty also require courage? It is because in Gu Panyan's understanding, the unhappiness experienced by most people is often due to lack of courage and the courage to be able to achieve happiness.

A simplest example, you like a good-looking and excellent opposite sex, but you don't dare to pursue and confess, you feel that you are not good-looking, have a poor figure, have no money, or have a bad family, so you have some psychological inferiority, and feel that the other party may not look down on you, so you dare not confess.

But in the final analysis, what you are afraid of is not that the other party looks down on you, what you are afraid of is that you will be rejected, afraid that you will be ridiculed by others, afraid of being treated as a licking dog with nothing, afraid that your efforts will be exchanged for a blank, and afraid that you will become a clown in the mouth of others.

This fear is a sign of lack of courage.

If you don't have the courage to even try, how can you know if you can succeed in the end?

Therefore, in Gu Panyan's view, Chen Yanxi's idea is a manifestation of lack of courage and dare not try.

Lack of courage to be happy even against free will.

Of course, Gu Panyan will not argue with Chen Yanxi about this, arguing is not her character, and it has no effect.

She felt that Chen Yanxi did not have the courage, Chen Yanxi might feel that she did not respect her personal free will, both of them had a set of mature views and concepts, Gu Panyan's views were biased towards reality, and Chen Yanxi's ideas were more towards ideals, and neither of them could convince anyone.

And Chen Yanxi will most likely not argue with her.

So Gu Panyan just applauded Chen Yanxi lightly: "It's really wonderful, shouldn't I praise your noble sentiments and praise your great character?" ”

"Everyone has a different opinion on this kind of thing, and there is no distinction between high and low, noble and vulgar."

Chen Yanxi bowed his head to eat, "I'm just explaining my thoughts to you, which is also part of the 'ceremony'." ”

Gu Panyan raised his eyebrows: "So, what about the 'soldier' part?" ”

"That's in the future, I can't say." Chen Yanxi shook his head, "Maybe there will be, or maybe not." ”

She has to reinvent herself, and once she reinvents herself, the inherent concepts are broken, and she thinks about the problem from a different angle, and the choices she will make may be completely different.

Gu Panyan stared at her, and suddenly laughed: "I suddenly remembered a very interesting thing. ”

"Let's talk while we eat." Chen Yanxi said, "The food is going to be cold. ”

"Okay."

Gu Panyan picked up the chopsticks and said while eating: "You said that you respect and support his choice, and want him to let him live the life he wants, right?" ”

"Hmm."

"Then what if, what if that scumbag wants to live on two boats?"

Gu Panyan looked at her with a playful look in his eyes, "What if he wants the two of us to be his girlfriends together?" Will you still support him? ”

"Yes."

Chen Yanxi replied without the slightest hesitation, "I respect his choice and support him to work hard for the goal he wants to achieve." ”

"But this doesn't mean that I have to promise him, feelings are a matter of two people, and while I support his choice, I must also respect my own will."

She said calmly: "What kind of choice is made, what kind of responsibility will be borne, if his goal conflicts with my will, then it is his responsibility to solve this conflict, and it is his effort to make it." ”

"Tsk, a genius is a genius, and the words that come out are different."

The corners of Gu Panyan's mouth hooked up a mocking arc, "Then, Miss Genius, tell me, if that scumbag really wants to step on two boats, can you accept it?" ”

This time, Chen Yanxi hesitated for a few seconds before shaking his head: "I don't know." ”

"Don't know?" Gu Panyan was a little surprised.

Is there something that such a sane and sober girl can't decide?

"For me now, I really can't accept it." Chen Yanxi said softly, "But for me in the future, it is completely uncertain." ”

"To think about future choices with the current mentality is disrespectful to the future and irresponsible to the present."

Suddenly I found that the chapter number seemed to be wrong, and a ninety-sixth chapter was missing

It's just that the chapter number is wrong.,There's no missing content.,It shouldn't be a big problem.,It's quite troublesome to change the chapters on the shelves.,I'm too lazy to change it.,Just watch it normally.

(End of chapter)