Chapter 231 Don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering
"Director, as long as you are willing to teach me, I am not afraid of hardship." Lu Ming immediately said.
"Okay, you need to remember what you said."
"Master is above, please accept the apprentice's worship." Lu Ming was not ambiguous at all, and directly knelt on the ground and kowtowed to Tang Zheng three times.
Tang Zheng nodded, this kid is quite good at things, but he also instructed, "Lu Ming, don't you just rely on me as an apprentice, just in the eyes of no one in the department, bullying other interns, if you let me know, don't blame me for turning his face." ”
"Master, don't worry, I will be cautious and never do anything out of the ordinary." Lu Ming immediately made a statement.
"Since you kowtow to me and worship me as a teacher, I will definitely teach you well, as for how much you can learn, it depends on your ability."
Tang Zheng said and took out a jade pendant, this was the last time he helped Gu Sisi buy a rough stone, Gu Sisi gave him a few pieces in order to thank him, he thought this piece was good, and brought it with him.
Today, Lu Ming officially worships him as a teacher, and when he is a master, he has to give some greeting gifts to his apprentices. He took out the jade pendant.
"This is a welcome gift from Master, you can take it."
"Master, I haven't bought you a gift yet, but you still gave me something, this is ......"
"Okay, don't pretend to be your kid, keep it, while it's okay today, I'll teach you a set of methods of spitting first."
I have to say that Lu Ming's martial arts talent is very high, and in the morning, Lu Ming has learned almost everything, and the rest is practiced by himself.
"As the saying goes, Master leads the way and the cultivation is personal. When you have nothing to do, you can practice more to learn more from it. Tang Zheng patted Lu Ming's shoulder and asked.
"Master, I understand."
Chinese New Year is a lively day for ordinary people to visit relatives, but for others, it is an opportunity to make further friends.
Since the second year of junior high school, the Tang family has been visited every day intermittently. Tang Zheng actually doesn't like these, but there is no way, people live in society and live in groups, so interpersonal communication is still very necessary.
After the seventh day of the new year, the flavor of the year gradually dissipated, life was on the right track, and the Tang family also returned to its former peace. There are also more patients in the hospital, especially in the TCM department, which has a lot of people every day.
On the morning of the tenth day of the Lunar New Year, Tang Zheng had just sent off a patient when the door of the consultation room was pushed open.
A man in his fifties knelt down at the door, "Son, I was wrong, I knelt down for you, I have nothing now, you have mercy on me......"
Tang Zheng couldn't help but be stunned, he didn't know this man at all, could it be that someone was trying to mess with him.
Just when he was puzzled, Lu Ming, who was standing on the side, immediately stepped forward, "Why are you here, this is the hospital, you hurry up......"
"Son, Dad knows it's wrong, can you forgive me?" The man grabbed Lu Ming's white coat and said with tears in his eyes.
"Forgive, are you worthy of my forgiveness, you haven't shown up once in more than ten years, how did my mother and I get over all these years, have you thought about it. You hurry up, I don't want to see you. Lu Ming shook off the man's hand vigorously.
"Young man, I am the mediator invited by Mr. Lu, my name is Liu Liqin. As a bystander, I say two words, no matter how you say that this is your father, without him, you would not be in this world. ”
Seeing that there was a bustle here, patients and their families gathered around.
"He raised me young, I raised him old, he didn't raise me young, why should I care about him old, when I was three or four years old, he took all the money from the family, ran away with other women, and left me and my mother."
"For so many years, it was my mother who worked hard to raise me, and she was a woman who brushed dishes and cleaned toilets for me in order to support me. In the most difficult times, she helped people unload flour. A bag of 100 catties of flour, she unloaded it for a month, and when she got home, she couldn't straighten her waist...... in the past ten years, if he sent money to our mother and son once, I wouldn't ignore him......"
As Lu Ming spoke, a big man whimpered and cried, only he knew best how difficult his mother had been over the years.
It is precisely because he knows that his mother's situation is not easy, he wants his mother to live a good life, he studies hard and works hard.
Now that life is finally going forward, his father, who has not appeared for many years, has shown up and asked him to support him.
When the onlookers heard this, they immediately discussed.
"Such a person deserves it, and the poor person must have something to hate."
"This is not entirely true, after all, Dr. Lu is his son, and his son should be filial."
"If you had such a father, would you be filial to him?"
"Aren't you raising the bar......"
The crowd of onlookers had different opinions for a while.
"Son, I'm sorry for your mother and son, I know I was wrong, you can forgive me, I have no place to live now, I can only live in the bridge cave, and I can't sleep every day when it's cold......"
"What does it have to do with me whether you are cold or not?" Lu Ming said coldly.
"Young man, it's not easy for your mother, but after so many years, after all, he is your father, you should at least find him a place to live first, how can you let him live under the bridge cave." Liu Liqin said.
"He lives in a dormitory in the hospital, there is no place for him to live, you like to meddle so much, take him to your house to live, and be your father."
Tang Zheng can now understand what is going on, he originally didn't want to meddle in other people's affairs, but this mediator kidnapped Lu Ming with morality, and he couldn't stand it anymore.
The starting point of mediation is good, but mediation is not always good for mediation, and the focus of mediation is to solve the word, understand, and solve the contradictions of others.
If a mediator can't empathize, just for the sake of the show, he stands on the so-called moral high ground to blame others, and he doesn't mind giving the other party some color.
"How can you talk as a doctor, he is his father, can there be him without his father?"
"A truly strong person should have the strength to forgive and tolerate the mistakes of others, and to be generous."
Liu Liqin is righteous.
"Smack-"
Tang Zheng's figure flashed, and he arrived in front of Liu Liqin in an instant, and then slapped her in the face.
Liu Liqin screamed, and then pointed at Tang Zheng angrily, "If you dare to beat me, I will fight hard with you......"
"I'm sorry, I was a little emotional just now, you are a strong person, you should forgive and tolerate me."
Tang Zheng unceremoniously sent the original words back.
Liu Liqin was so angry that she almost vomited blood, "You-"
"Yes, you should be generous, you can't be angry."
"Be generous, isn't it quite good at persuading others when you persuade them?"
Tang Zheng said, "This is a hospital, it is not easy for everyone to register, you have to mediate and go to other places for mediation, the hospital is not a place for you to mediate." ”
Tang Zheng naturally knew why these people came to the hospital, and they wanted to put pressure on Lu Ming through the hospital to achieve the effect of mediation.
Seeing that Tang was anxious for them, the patients and their families condemned and cursed the mediator.
"You mediate with others, and you have to ask the specific reason, come up with a moral kidnapping, you see that he is pitiful, and let his own family go."
"I finally hung up Director Tang's number, if I can't see it today, I'm not done with you."
"Get out of here."
Some people died, but not completely......