The meaning of the bloggers' words is that the gap between the rich and the poor in society is widening, as the top level is fine, as the middle level should pay attention to their own class, and as the bottom layer, you must pay attention when climbing up, to see if the road you are on is not the road that your predecessors have walked.

When you are in a peaceful and peaceful society, and you are at the bottom, when you decide to climb up and improve your class, you yourself are talented, and your IQ and EQ surpass ordinary people, not to mention, as long as you stabilize your mind, sooner or later you will live well.

But if you are very ordinary in everything, your learning ability is very ordinary, your social skills are ordinary, and your looks are ordinary. At this time, if you still want to improve your class, then this society will be very cruel.

Maybe everything is comfortable when you're going to lie flat, but if you want to work hard, the first hurdle is your parents.

Ordinary your parents are better than very ordinary, or you want to prepare them with the ability to resist risks.

Otherwise, when you have worked hard for a long time, planning to buy a house in a better location and start a family, then unfortunately, due to years of fatigue and lack of attention to their health, they get seriously ill.

So the first thing to do is to settle your parents and don't ask them to help you with anything, but at least don't let you fall short at a critical time.

After that, it is marriage, an ordinary person, marriage is the beginning of his second fate, a good family and a bad family are completely two concepts.

At this time, if you fail to fall in love and plan to start a blind date, then at this time, in addition to professional matchmaker agencies, most of the introductions that are really good for you are the right ones, and you need to choose more.

Since it is a blind date, love must be put second. In other words, the first thing you have to consider is her family, as well as her own living situation.

What is said in most of the sayings in society, if you can avoid it, it is better to avoid it. You're not rich, and a second chance to come back is expensive, preferably once for a lifetime.

It was only after getting married that I realized that most of what my relatives said to me at the beginning was reasonable.

Maybe they don't have a high level of education, but marriage has nothing to do with culture most of the time. Although their feelings are different, they are essentially the same truth.

Zhang Lan also slowly understood that early marriage is really the most accurate truth.

When your family is able, it is better to get married earlier, preferably. When you've just graduated from college or someone has just introduced you, it's important to grasp it.

Because the person you are introduced to at this time, if your life does not change drastically, this time is the person with the best conditions you can meet in the future.

In marriage, one cannot be greedy. There's no denying that as you progress, it's possible to meet better and better people. But there is a fact that the more times you go on blind dates, you will slowly find that you will meet one is not as good as the other.

A person's life is divided into stages, at what age to do something, maybe you don't have the conditions at this time, but if everything can still be said, then it is best to do it.

For example, at the age of studying, even if you earn millions a year from a side hustle, it is best to study in class at an age where you can study.

Only those who have stepped into society understand that when you leave the campus, if you want to concentrate on your studies at this time, you will never encounter the same environment again.

The example here is that most of the time, people nowadays are particularly particular about survivorship bias, especially in the era of short videos, and this phenomenon is even more serious.

Of all the information, most of the time, you will only be concerned with the success or misfortune. But in real life, the things you see in the video are already very rare.

The Internet is full of people who earn millions of dollars a year, and in the statistics of social data, you will find that a monthly income of 3,000 can actually exceed the average person.

And if you can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, you have surpassed most people.

This society is not as good as imagined, nor is it as bad as imagined. Life is lived by yourself, and in this peaceful social environment today, in fact, in a copy of the earth, you have surpassed billions of people.

Qi Dongming's treatment fee of one million was on the account, and Zhang Lan called Feng Yuzhi and said that Feng Yuzhi was also very busy now near the end of the year.

For the sake of her two kindergarten children, Zhang Lan heard that she was also the accounting clerk of several companies. Now at the end of the year, the audit and accounting will start before New Year's Day, and I will be busy every day.

There is nothing going on in Zhang Lan's acupuncture hall, he has passed through the hospital, and there are fewer and fewer patients who see a doctor in private.

Originally, when the acupuncture hall was open, Feng Yuzhi had to reconcile the accounts about once a week or two, but now she can check it for two or three days a month.

The main reason is that Wen Ran's side sometimes needs to be checked, otherwise except for paying taxes, Zhang Lan basically has nothing to do.

The sale of medicine is mainly through Qin Yongjun's hands, Zhang Lan is only a provider of drugs most of the time, and he is only responsible for giving the medicine to Qin Yongjun, and he doesn't care about anything else.

Others have said that Zhang Lan has become a special asset management team, which is responsible for the property of the two of them.

After thinking about it, Zhang Lan rejected the proposal. For the so-called asset management, family offices. It can't be said that it is useless, but Zhang Lan feels that he has not reached that point yet.

Or you won't need that in your life, maybe in the next generation, you might use that.

The present is different from the past, and you can't expect people to be able to follow things as firmly as they did in this developed society.

There is a very simple thing, Zhang Lan once felt incredible.

Nowadays, among the many trends of thought in society that advocate lying flat, there is a very special argument that when I am old, I will go to a nursing home or directly cut myself off.

There is also a kind of thinking that I earn my own money and spend it myself, and I am blessed without children and grandchildren.

Zhang Lan thinks it is incredible that in such thoughts, if you don't believe that your children and grandchildren will be filial in the future, why do you believe that when you are old, those people in the nursing home will respect you, a lonely old man with no one behind you. As for the so-called contract, if the contract can protect everyone, then it is not called a contract.

As for the so-called self-assertion, if you have this determination in your old age, then you will not have such a statement in your young mouth.

The real departure is always silent, and those loud voices are mostly just words. And those who make up their minds will only be in a quiet time, and you will never see them again.

(End of chapter)