A person who does not want to make progress, you are a waste no matter what time you are, no one will look up to you, even your parents, when you need it, you can't come up with money, they will scold you in your heart.

Zhang Lan was scolded like this before, but now looking back and looking at the traces along the way, Zhang Lan found that what people evaluated was actually right.

Most of the time, as a waste material or waste, Zhang Lan is very self-aware. Or simply lie flat without seeking progress.

The word lying flat has only become popular in the past two years, but Zhang Lan, who has been in college, has not long understood this truth in society.

When a person is evaluated as an honest person in the blind date market, but there is no other adjective, then this person has no other advantages except being honest.

It's like when the matchmaker introduced the woman and said over and over again that this girl is very well-behaved on weekdays, that is, there is no advantage to mention except for her peaceful temperament.

At that time, when Zhang Lan went home on a blind date, he worked in a small Internet company in other places, and he was able to be touted as an urban white-collar worker with a monthly salary of 10,000 or 20,000 yuan.

In addition to being a computer repairer, once it is involved with a listed company, it is a promising person in a small place like Canghe.

Most of the time, Zhang Lan has no shortage of people who introduce blind dates, but it can only be said that they were left behind later, and the pickiness in the early stage and the unwillingness in the later stage definitely account for a large part of the factors.

As for marrying Qin Yongjun in the form of marriage, the main thing is that after her father was sick and hospitalized, Zhang Lan at this time needed to have a suitable partner to quickly get rid of the eyes of her neighbors.

After many years outside, his parents said that he was an elite code farmer who worked in a listed company, but after his father fell ill, it became difficult to even get married.

The fiancée who had been scheduled to come once was heard from her, and Zhang Lan's mother also knew it. When Zhang Lan's father was transferred from the intensive care unit to the general ward, Zhang Lan's mother said to Zhang Lan in private: You are not young, you have also seen your father's appearance, and this recovery is not a short time.

At this time, you can still use the excuse that you will be able to take care of yourself in a year or two, and maybe you can even talk about a daughter-in-law. When Zhang Lan's father really can't stand up in two years and needs to be taken care of for the rest of his life, maybe Zhang Lan will really be hopeless.

Mother said very sincerely and thoroughly, it is true that my father is sick in bed, and he is an only child, who would want to have a father-in-law who needs to be taken care of as soon as he enters the door, not to mention that it may be difficult for Zhang Lan to even go out in the future. It is too troublesome to take care of a paralyzed patient alone, and it is easier for two people.

It was precisely because she knew in her heart that Zhang Lan felt confused at that time, and after careful consideration, she came up with the idea of form.

When there is really nothing to be done, people live with a face. At that time, Zhang Lan thought of her mother's words late at night, and thought that the best way to go was to find a partner who cooperated with each other.

People in the countryside often live with a face, because in such a small environment, there are so familiar people most of the time in their lives.

It's different from in big cities, if you change houses, your neighbors may not know you, and no one will point you to the point of view of how you are doing.

It's different in the countryside, your neighbors, the uncles and aunts in the village, maybe you don't care, but your parents have lived for half their lives, how can they not care about the gossip of others.

In fact, meeting Qin Yongjun was purely accidental, and after having this thought, Zhang Lan read comments and posts on the Internet for a while.

When the Internet tide rose more than ten years ago, it would be possible to find the right person and a reliable person.

But now, such circles are still full of accusations of cheating on marriage and bride price. Two strangers who don't know each other, in a short period of time, don't even have feelings, but they just start to get married under the banner of being for their parents.

How can a marriage built on such a castle of selfishness have a successful example.

Flipping through the essence posts one by one, looking at them one by one in chronological order, from the sincere words at the beginning, to the distrust that was all over the words and words later.

After Zhang Lan tried to send a message twice under the provincial post, she basically gave up her mind.

No matter what kind of circle, once it starts to expand, there will definitely be all kinds of people mixed in with it.

When Qin Yongjun contacted Zhang Lan, Zhang Lan no longer had the initial sense of urgency. After having a plug-in, his father's condition is no longer a problem, and he has a new path for the future, so Zhang Lan's mind is very light on such a thing as formal marriage.

But if you've already been contacted, let's meet and talk. In fact, when exchanging contact information, Qin Yongjun's appearance had a great advantage.

Zhang Lan's mind at that meeting had not been completely put over, although it was said that there was a plug-in, but for a beautiful woman to talk to her about getting married, Zhang Lan still felt a little complacent in her heart.

After getting acquainted, one thing after another, Qin Yongjun quickly determined his mind, and then followed to meet Zhang Lan's parents, and then began to get married in the new year, and then soon became pregnant and gave birth to children.

Zhang Lan analyzed her psychology very seriously, if it weren't for Qin Yongjun's actions, she would have become pregnant not long after the two got married, and it's really hard to say what the situation will be later.

When Tian Qingyong met Zhang Lan, Zhang Lan was just starting out, and he basically knew Zhang Lan's psychology very well. Zhang Lan continued to refuse his proposal, Tian Qingyong didn't have any annoyance, just smiled and said: "Sometimes I admire Zhang Lan quite a lot, to be honest, I can't figure out why you are like this...... Anyway. ”

Tian Qingyong couldn't think of how to evaluate Zhang Lan for a while, but Zhang Lan answered with a smile after listening to it: "You should mean not to be enterprising." ”

"No, no, but it's pretty much the same. I couldn't remember the words. Tian Qingyong said with a smile.

Zhang Lan sighed, reached out and took the cigarette that Tian Qingyong put next to the small table, took out a cigarette and lit it, took a deep breath and spit it out, and kept it in his mouth for not even a second.

Seeing this, Tian Qingyong said, "You really don't know how to smoke." ”

Zhang Lan said with a smile: "Some things are just like smoking, whether it doesn't matter whether it will be or not, and it doesn't matter whether you smoke or not." ”

After taking a few puffs, Zhang Lan simply put it in the ashtray, and then said: "I'm actually very pedantic, Dream of Red Mansions, you know, I didn't think it when I watched it before, but now that I think about it, most of the time, my actions are actually no different from Jia Zheng." ”

Tian Qingyong laughed after hearing this, and after a while, he thought about it and said, "Don't say it, you really mean something." ”

Zhang Lan laughed and said, "I already said it just now. ”

(End of chapter)