Chapter 4 Decisions
"Grandma~ Did you say that my mother was too much, just graduated, where is the 100,000 yuan."
In the dyeing workshop in the backyard of silk thread spinning, Lu Ning was holding a stick, standing on a small bench and stirring a pile of mulberry silk thread in the dye vat.
While stirring, he also complained to Ruan Sang.
These silk threads need to be soaked repeatedly to achieve an almost perfect color. Ruan Sang also inherited the family business, and has been doing dyeing and selling threads all his life.
Originally, when she was in college in Jincheng, Lu Ning often brought Jiang Yan to her grandmother to help. Therefore, grandma Ruan Sang knew Jiang Yan.
Facing the kind grandmother, Lu Ning couldn't help but pour out all the bitter water.
Ruan Sang listened, took off the gloves on his hand and put them on the dye vat, took out PHS from the pocket of his apron, looked at the time and put it back.
Only then did he glance at Lu Ning and said, "You also know that you have just graduated, how old are you and you are going to get married?" Also, marriage is a major event in life, you don't say a word, notify your parents directly, can your parents agree? In ancient times, you also paid attention to the words of the matchmaker of your parents, and you are also wrong about this. ”
The little girl is very assertive, but it's not used in the right place.
Lu Ning choked, held the stick and spun around on the small bench for half a circle and said, "Didn't I get a preventive shot first, lest my mother urge marriage every day in the future." Don't you know, she also said that she wanted to learn the daughter of Aunt Zhang's family and find a rich man in Jincheng. ”
Speaking of this, she put the stick down, jumped down directly and continued to complain: "What if you have money, I heard that the person Xiao Min is looking for has a high vision, and she also instructed Aunt Zhang to do this and that, I don't want such a person to be the object." ”
I didn't see Aunt Zhang go grocery shopping early in the morning, I didn't see her go out to buy groceries so early in the past, and she had to go at seven or eight o'clock at the earliest.
The corners of Ruan Sang's mouth twitched slightly, and he said angrily: "Don't ask about these messy things, the most important thing for you now is to find a stable job, work hard, and struggle." Listen to your mother's public examination, it is best to take the civil service examination in Jincheng, and grandma can take care of you more in the future. ”
People go to high places, the county wants to go to the city, and the city wants to go to the provincial capital, so it is better to take the civil service test in the provincial city of Jincheng from the beginning.
Not to mention the higher wages in Jincheng, the prospects are better than those below.
Moreover, she is such a daughter. In the future, this silk thread spinning will not have to be handed over to grandchildren. She prefers to hand it over to Lu Ning, a granddaughter, if she works in Jincheng, she will be close to her and take care of it.
Lu Ning's eyes lit up, and he hugged Ruan Sang's arm and shook it: "Grandma~ Do you mean to agree with me marrying Jiang Yan?" Jiang Yan is indeed very good, right? ”
She knew that her grandmother was the best person for her, would support her to do what she liked, and would be her strong backing.
"Agreed, how can I disagree, Xiao Jiang is a good boy." Ruan Sang sighed and said, "But, I agree what's the use, it's not that you don't know your mother's temperament." Besides, Xiao Jiang went to teach for three years, and no one knows what will happen in three years. After a long time, what should I do if your feelings fade. What if he likes someone else, or you like someone else? ”
As she walked out the door, she continued, "You all have to think about these questions. On top of that, both of you don't have an economic base right now. If you get married now, how will you live?
Is it to go to Liangzhou or Jincheng, or to Anshi and his hometown? Is it renting or how to live, and who will pay for the living expenses? What if this is going to have a child, who will pay for the milk powder? ”
Marriage is not like falling in love, you can do whatever you want in love, love the person you want to love, and have no scruples.
Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families.
There are so many things to consider when getting married, and these things are tedious and complicated. That is, reality and helplessness, but it is still unavoidable.
Ruan Sang's questions were thrown out one by one, leaving Lu Ning speechless, she really hadn't thought about these questions. But she really wants to have a result with Jiang Yan, which is not in conflict.
Seeing that she was thinking, Ruan Sang shook his head lightly and said, "You, you're still too young, think about how to go in the future." ”
In the world of young people, she doesn't understand, and she doesn't want to interfere more in their decisions, at most she will only refer to her past experience to give some advice. As for what to decide next, that's for the young people themselves.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so they don't care what they do.
'Think about how to go in the future', Lu Ning was silent, she really had to think about how to go in the future.
If she wants to go on with Jiang Yan, it will definitely not work if she is separated from the two places for a long time.
Take the message he sent to Jiang Yan in the morning, it's been a day, and he hasn't replied to the message yet, and he hasn't called yet.
I just heard Ruan Sang say that it was probably because he had entered the mountain and there was no signal in the mountain. As for when there will be a signal, she doesn't know.
If you're lucky, you'll get to town, and the signal won't be too bad. But if you're unlucky and go to a place where there's no electricity, you'll probably lose contact for a long time.
Thinking of this, Lu Ning had mixed feelings and was full of confusion about her and Jiang Yan's future. Sure enough, only the school days are the purest and most enjoyable.
Another night of tossing and turning, and early the next morning, she found Ruan Sang on the head of the chicken nest and told her what she thought.
She wanted to go to Liangzhou to find Jiang Yan, first meet him, see where he worked, and then find a job in Liangzhou to do it first.
It is impossible to go to the mountains with Jiang Yan to teach, and if both of them teach, they will not starve to death. As for what job she was looking for in the past, she wasn't sure yet, and it was never too late to go and see it.
After all, she is such a big person, she still graduated from college, and she can't eat less. Maybe one day you will be lucky and ride the wind and waves and get rich overnight.
Moreover, even if she doesn't have a suitable job, she can still open a computer training class and start her own business as she thought before.
Ruan Sang listened to her words, frowned slightly, and said disapprovingly: "Do you know where he is?" In the past, what if there was still no signal and no one could be found? Also, if you want to take the public examination, the conditions are difficult when you go to Liangzhou, but you are not as comfortable as at home. ”
She has never been to Liangzhou, but who has never heard of Liangzhou, which is collectively called Dashanli by people outside.
In the mountains, it means that the road is not good. If you want to get rich, you must first build roads, and if you don't have roads, you can't get rich.
It will also face the situation that the heavens should not be called and the earth is not spiritual. If you really go there, you have to endure it.
Lu Ning clenched her fists and said firmly: "Grandma, I don't want to take the public examination." I just want to go to Liangzhou, I want to make money. My mom doesn't want the bride price, I earn it. No matter how much Jiang Yan and I want, we can earn it. ”
It is better to ask for others than for yourself, and you can get closer to Jiang Yan and rest assured.
Ruan Sang's mood was a little complicated, she pursed her lips and said, "I have to think about this, and your mother, what do you want to say?" ”