Chapter 473: The Future
After starting to consciously cultivate Lu Yichen, Zhang Lan asked Lu Yichen what he wanted to learn, Lu Yichen himself is a medical student and has an understanding of Chinese medicine.
After Zhang Lan asked, she made it clear that she planned to learn acupuncture and moxibustion first, and only to understand other plans such as prescribing medicine and treatment.
After understanding what to learn, the next step is to memorize various acupuncture points and corresponding acupuncture techniques in addition to practicing.
It's the same acupuncture, an unimportant acupuncture point and a dead acupuncture point, pierced with the same force, and then maybe the person is gone.
Therefore, in the early stage of acupuncture, in addition to practicing acupuncture techniques, the characteristics of acupuncture points must also be remembered.
There is also the strength, the strength of this thing is not understood, only practice day after day, after a long time, you will naturally know what acupuncture points to use what strength, how much is more appropriate.
Lu Yichen studied seriously, but Yu Lingling, who was together, was very leisurely.
With a happy smile on her little face all day long, Zhang Lan has asked if you want to follow along, if you are afraid of needles, it is not bad to learn moxibustion.
However, Yu Lingling refused very resolutely, Yu Lingling, who was not interested in medical skills, was very concerned about Zhang Lan's incense to the Bodhisattva on the fifteenth day of the first month.
Since the Buddhist hall was established and the Bodhisattva was invited in, Zhang Lan himself was the fifteenth day of the new year to make an offering, and he offered incense in the early morning on weekdays.
Yu Lingling is next to her, in addition to incense every day, the inside and outside of the Buddhist hall has to be cleaned every day. In addition, he occasionally pondered Buddhist scriptures, so Zhang Lan couldn't help but ask if Yu Lingling had any thoughts.
After asking, Zhang Lan breathed a sigh of relief after knowing that the little girl had no intention of becoming a monk, but was only interested in the matter of gods and Buddhas.
As long as he doesn't want to become a monk, he can still get it back just if he is interested.
However, Zhang Lan still reminded Yu Lingling's mother in private and asked her to pay more attention to it on weekdays. It's nothing to believe in gods and Buddhas, it's actually a good thing for people to have faith, but if Yu Lingling has the psychology of being born because of this in the future, then Zhang Lan's sin will be great.
After all, people handed over their daughter to him so that her daughter would have a place to meet people and get to know the world, not to let Zhang Lan make people want to become a monk.
After mentioning it to Yu Lingling's mother Zhang Yayun, Zhang Yayun also found a time to talk to Zhang Lan.
Contrary to Zhang Lan's expectations, Zhang Lan was worried that Yu Lingling would not be able to explain if she couldn't think of becoming a monk, and Yu Lingling's mother's mind was just the opposite.
In her words, the family doesn't have too many requirements for Yu Lingling now, and her grandparents and older brothers and sisters, everyone's minds are relatively unified.
Yu Lingling now looks like a normal person after Zhang Lan treats her for a small defect. But in reality, the question of IQ is the big problem.
The family can protect her for the rest of her life, and they don't want Yu Lingling to be hurt in the future. As for getting married and having children, it can't be said that everyone in the family is against it, it can only be said that this matter depends on fate.
If it was Yu Lingling who was in the countryside in the past, with simple ideas, simple considerations, and low IQ, parents would naturally find someone to marry her as soon as possible, and then after having children, be a foil for parents, and when the children are older, it happens that the parents are also old, so everything is left to rest.
And in this era, their idea of being parents has changed, and now there are so many people who are not married, and one more Yu Lingling is actually nothing. They can afford to be taken care of by their parents, and when they are old, there are brothers and sisters watching from the side, and there is no shortage of money at home, so there is nothing wrong with Yu Lingling, who does not need to worry about pension problems.
Zhang Yayun said very bluntly, and Zhang Lan was a little noncommittal. Although Zhang Yayun said that everyone in the family thinks so, Zhang Lan estimates that Zhang Yayun herself thinks so.
As for Yu Lingling's brothers and sisters, if they are not married, everything will naturally be easy to say, but after the future, who can say for sure how things will develop.
But one thing is very right, if Yu Lingling's family has not been short of money, Yu Lingling really doesn't need to care about what she wants to do, she has money to back her up, and her relatives are watching by the side, and when she gets old, he is alone.
Even when they go to a nursing home, there are people who visit and no one who visits, and the experience between the two people is very different.
Regarding this kind of thing, the lying flat and unmarried doctrine advocated on the Internet is wavy from time to time, and Zhang Lan herself is not unthinking about it at the beginning.
But after thinking about it carefully, you will know that for the poor, it is more cost-effective to want to turn over and have children than to buy lottery tickets. It's all about odds, and the odds of winning a child are much better than the odds of winning the lottery.
This is especially true for the rich, there is no way for a child to become a talent, and two or three can't be a talent.
There is also raising children to prevent old age, and now there are too many children on the Internet who do not have children, and I am happy, and everything is cut off when I am old. But these people seem to have forgotten that there is also a saying that it is better to die than to live.
A person who can have the determination to take the initiative to make a decision when he is old will not be a weak person at any time.
And those who keep saying that they don't believe that their children will be filial, but they believe in those people in strange nursing homes when they get old.
There are also people who say that the law will supervise something in the future, and the same thing has been staged for a long time, in the past few years, those old people who advertised selling houses for the elderly when housing prices were rising, and the contract party gave them a few years of pension after getting the house.
Zhang Lan once paid special attention to the follow-up, it is said that the company that got the house at the beginning, after the trend faded, it lost most of its money with a few investments, and then there was no one at all.
And those advocates who take the house and hand it over to the other party for investment, and they only need to enjoy the retirement life every day, and there is someone by their side to take care of them all the time, but they don't mention it like no one else is in the face of the reality of the company running away.
At all times, only what is held in the hand is real. As for what the future will be, what will be in the future, those are things that need to be considered when you can stand in the present.
The most important thing for people is to see themselves clearly, understand what kind of person they are, and then always remember that God will not drop pies, and if you don't go to greed, you will naturally live a good life.
As for Zhang Lan, she just saw herself too clearly, so much so that she didn't even have the motivation to do so.
At this time, it is not a question of whether you are doing well or not, but you need to think about how to get rid of your own problems.
It's not hard to recognize yourself, it's hard to make changes and stick to them. Zhang Lan was defeated because after recognizing herself, even if she had a plug-in on her body, she still didn't think about how to make changes to make herself better.
Watching the short video, Zhang Lan looked at the passionate words on it, and was very moved, but she didn't have any change in her mind.
At the end of the month, there were millions of words, and I was thinking about how to write a new book. This book is just like this, and there will be no big moves. The hostess of the next book can't use the big family, and even the emperor Jin Bian can't think of it, and another lesson is in the body.
(End of chapter)