"It means that future generations may become officers." Zhang Lan repeated, and seeing Li Chaoyang nodding, Zhang Lan sighed helplessly.

couldn't help but complain: "When your family moved the grave, I only thought that the descendants would be officers, but I didn't think that something would happen to your two families?" And the main thing is, didn't ask anyone to see before the burial, is there anyone in the family who can afford it? ”

"It's just a good place to occupy in us, and no one thinks about whether they can afford it, where can they really get our family." Li Chaoyang explained.

Zhang Lan was speechless for a moment, but what Li Chaoyang said also made sense, the real good places are not only found everywhere, but also various signal towers will be placed on them from time to time, and ordinary people really don't need to think about this.

After thinking about it, he said, "I suggest it, you'd better talk to your father, if you can change places, it's best to change places." ”

Li Chaoyang thought for a while and said, "I know, I'll call my father in the evening." Zhang Lan: Do you mean that the problem of my family's ancestral grave is very big? ”

"As I said just now, there will be no one in your branch soon, and now it's the location of the cemetery, no matter how good it is, it has nothing to do with your family." Zhang Lan complained.

No matter how good the location of the grave is, the family can't suppress it or backfire on the head of the family, and at this time it's not nonsense to think about what the future generations of this place will be.

There is no one in your family, even if the descendants of this grave will become high-ranking officials, it has nothing to do with your family.

As he spoke, he arrived at the gate of the temple, and the big lion at the door was very powerful, and each of the three of them took three sticks of incense into the temple. Tian Shuyue's goal was very clear, and he went straight to the Guanyin Hall in the fifth courtyard.

Zhang Lan walked in the back while admiring the lilacs in the temple, stopped for a while when passing by the hundred-year-old locust tree, and waited until the fifth courtyard to worship the Bodhisattva.

After worshipping the Bodhisattva, Tian Shuyue and Li Chaoyang said that they would find someone to teach the Fa in the temple, and let Li Chaoyang and Zhang Lan arrange it by themselves, and she would call Li Chaoyang after she was done.

Li Chaoyang looked at Zhang Lan with his eyes, and just as he was about to say something, Zhang Lan said, "It's okay, don't worry about me." Brother and sister, you are busy with your business, Chaoyang, we don't need to pay attention to this relationship. ”

After watching Tian Shuyue and others send WeChat, a teacher came out of the side door of the courtyard and said hello to Tian Shuyue, and then Tian Shuyue and Zhang Lan said hello, and then the two went out of the courtyard.

Looking at the situation in front of her, Zhang Lan asked Li Chaoyang on the side: "What is the situation with your daughter-in-law?" Do you want us to come along? ”

Li Chaoyang's expression was a little helpless, and he said to Zhang Lan: "Leave her alone, let's find a place to eat first." ”

Turning around and coming out of the temple, the two found a restaurant not far from the door and sat down, ordered two cold dishes and two stir-fried dishes, and asked for a bottle of wine.

While waiting for the food to be served, Zhang Lan asked Li Chaoyang: "Why is your daughter-in-law's situation a little wrong with me?" ”

The cold dish was brought up first, unscrewed the wine bottle and poured a glass of wine, Li Chaoyang sighed after taking a sip, and then said: "Since the last miscarriage, my daughter-in-law sometimes seems to be half like a crazy demon, today is still fine, I went to a temple to offer incense before, and I was going well." As soon as she crossed the signboard of the mountain gate, she said that she felt the call of the Bodhisattva, and she wanted to knock in front of the Bodhisattva statue in three steps to show her piety. ”

"Can it still be like this?" Zhang Lan had a feeling that she had seen it.

Li Chaoyang nodded: "That's it, fortunately, the temple is not large, but from the place where she knelt and bowed, to the front of the temple dedicated to the Bodhisattva, there is almost a distance of more than five hundred meters, and there are still some steps." ”

Li Chaoyang said very helplessly, Zhang Lan thought about it and said: "I think, your daughter-in-law wants a child of her own, and she may have formed an obsession." ”

"I know that, too, but how to say it."

Li Chaoyang took a deep breath, and then said to Zhang Lan: "Zhang Lan, I'll be honest with you, there is no one who doesn't want to have a child of their own, not to mention that my daughter-in-law and I have been begging for children for so many years, and then we had a few miscarriages. Over the years, I don't know how much I have eaten just by seeking medical advice and taking home remedies. After the last miscarriage, the doctor told me that if possible, try not to let my daughter-in-law get pregnant again, that is, she is really pregnant, maybe it is not a miscarriage problem, what do you say I can do. ”

As he spoke, Li Chaoyang's eyes turned red, and then he raised his wine glass and took a big sip before saying: "Now my mother and my daughter-in-law basically don't talk to each other, and my father occasionally says a few words to me, because of the child's problem, the atmosphere at home is deathly silent every day." I can't help but lead my daughter-in-law out, with the current environment at home, I'm afraid that my daughter-in-law will be driven crazy. ”

Zhang Lan didn't speak, raised her wine glass and touched a glass with Li Chaoyang and said, "Take a sip and eat some food, don't just drink and not eat." ”

Li Chaoyang is an only child, he and his daughter-in-law have never had children, and it is normal for his parents to be anxious. But his daughter-in-law's physical condition is also here, thinking about what he said, it is really difficult.

After drinking, Li Chaoyang's words obviously increased, which may also be related to the fact that he usually doesn't know who to say these words to.

"Privately, my dad told me to raise one, and my mom was looking for some home remedies from time to time. My daughter-in-law went crazy when she burned incense and worshiped the Buddha, and now her home is not like a home. Zhang Lan: You say, is it really important for children to do that? Li Chaoyang sighed and said with a wry smile.

Zhang Lan thought for a while and said: "How to say Chaoyang, I think that in your current situation, the best thing is that you and your daughter-in-law move out of the house, and it is best not to live together." This mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict has been a problem since ancient times, not to mention that you still have the problem of children, at this time, it is the most important thing to separate people and let your daughter-in-law recover as soon as possible. ”

"I wanted to move out for a long time, but my dad is not in good health, my mom has two years to retire, and she has to go to work, and my dad is home alone, and I don't feel at ease." Li Chaoyang said helplessly.

"What's going on with your dad now?"

"Cerebral infarction and diabetes, life is self-care, but what I'm worried about is that no one is at home, and no one will know if something happens at home one day." Li Chaoyang explained.

Zhang Lan rubbed her forehead and asked, "With this kind of disease, you can take care of yourself in life, and you let your daughter-in-law watch your father at home?" It's better to let your daughter-in-law come out to work, install a camera at home, and then hire a part-time worker. ”

Zhang Lan couldn't understand Li Chaoyang's thoughts, under the condition that his father could take care of himself, he had cerebral infarction and diabetes, and it didn't cost much to find a part-time job. Then he is renting a house in the same community, so that his daughter-in-law and the two old people are separated, won't it be fine?

(End of chapter)