Zhang Lan paused for a moment, what is my opinion, thought about it Zhang Lan shook his head and said, "I don't have any opinion." ”

It's a sad thing to not have enough knowledge or not enough knowledge, and you know it's not right, but you don't know what to say.

But in fact, when Zhang Lan encountered a problem, she was also impatient to reason with the child. Once it doesn't make sense, the first reaction is to be equally unreasonable.

After coming back this morning, seeing Qin Yongjun criticizing the child, the reason why Zhang Lan didn't ask too much at that time was that his first thought was not to judge, but to suppress the problem first, and it would be no problem if the two were separated.

Regarding the child's appeal, Zhang Lan doesn't think it's a big deal, just explain the contradictions.

Listening to the expert's description, Zhang Lan was a little confused, he felt that something was wrong, but it was not as serious as the expert said.

So when Qin Yongjun asked Zhang Lan what his opinion was, Zhang Lan's opinion was that he had no opinion. Or if you don't know about some problems, there will be hidden dangers after a long time. But now that you know it, just listen to the experts and give it a try.

Whatever it may be, if parents want their children to take the next step, it's best to prepare in advance.

It has never been said that children can have enough self-control to grow up with encouragement alone.

On the surface, learning this course and that course, it is better to think about what the following others are implementing behind their backs, and what are the requirements for children.

Without a premise, just talking about the conclusion is a hooligan. Shut up and don't mention the elimination rate behind those behind it, and only advocate the luxurious life on the surface.

With the advent of the Internet tide, information exchange at home and abroad is becoming more and more convenient. Ordinary people can easily obtain outside information if they have a heart.

There are no secrets on the Internet, and the answers are there as long as you want to find them.

No matter how good others say, they must have their own judgment. Zhang Lan has no opinion, which means that he will listen to the experts first, and now that he knows the problem, before there is a better solution, there must be a way to implement it first.

However, Qin Yongjun didn't see it that way, and when he heard Zhang Lan say that he didn't have any opinions, he turned his head and said a few polite words to the expert, and asked Lu Qian to send the person away.

After Lu Qian came back, Qin Yongjun and Lu Qian said: "Sister Qian, let's go to my grandfather's place together to find someone to ask, I think what this person said is too exaggerated, where did you find this?" ”

Lu Qian replied: "In the morning, I felt that Doudou's reaction was different from usual, so I asked someone to ask why this was the case, and then someone else recommended it to me." ”

Lu Qian took out her mobile phone, opened WeChat, pointed to the avatar on it and said: "I have an understanding of psychological education, but I am not a professional, so I asked someone to ask." ”

Zhang Lan leaned over to take a look, thought for a while and said, "I think it's better to find a teacher to ask, it's too exaggerated to find a psychiatrist and professor directly." ”

Seeing the WeChat message on Lu Qian, the person she consulted pushed to her was an expert doctor with psychological problems. Zhang Lan sighed in her heart, no wonder it was so serious.

Zhang Lan thought for a while and said to Qin Yongjun: "Don't be in such a hurry, the other party said it is very serious, but this is the same as us going to the hospital to see a doctor, if the disease develops purely from a medical point of view, what will be the result, then most people will be scared to death." If you don't treat a cold in time, you may die. ”

Qin Yongjun nodded: "I know, I'll find someone to ask the relevant teachers." ”

Qin Yongjun began to call and ask people, and Lu Qian also felt that she might have made a big fuss, so she also took her mobile phone to contact the teacher with relevant experience.

Zhang Lan reminded Qin Yongjun: "Just contact friends who have acquaintances at the Normal University and ask the professors in this area." ”

Qin Yongjun made a few phone calls, asked the experts and professors of the corresponding disciplines, and told the other party about today's situation. The other party smiled and said, "Your behavior is correct, but today's matter is not as serious as you said." ”

The other party asked the kindergarten where the child was, and said to Qin Yongjun with a smile: "It's not a big problem, just pay more attention in the future." It will not be said that one or two ordinary no-shows can make the child unable to become a talent in the future. ”

Two consultations, one serious and one relaxed, Qin Yongjun, who was not at ease, began to call again, but after consulting the relevant teachers, they all said that it was not a big problem.

However, if you consult a psychologist in this area, the other party is more cautious.

Anyway, it's okay not to ask, the more you ask, the more panicked you become. Until it was close to the end of school, Qin Yongjun and Lu Qian went to pick up the children, and Zhang Lan prepared meals at home.

When Qin Yongjun took the child's hand and walked into the courtyard, hearing the child's laughter, a smile also appeared on Zhang Lan's face.

The dinner in the evening was made by Zhang Lan with the blessing of merit, looking at the two children who were happy, Zhang Lan and Qin Yongjun on the side said, "Now rest assured, right?" ”

Qin Yongjun nodded and said: "If you care, it will be chaotic, mainly because the person who consulted at the beginning said that it was too serious. ”

Zhang Lan comforted: "Knowing the mistakes, let's try our best to improve them, but it is better to believe in books than to have no books." If children can be educated simply by following the practices in the book, how can there be so many things in this world. ”

After eating, sitting on the sofa watching TV, watching the news or watching the big screen TV is comfortable, that is, lying on the sofa without using your hands is the most comfortable.

It's a pity that after a while, Zhang Lan, who was watching TV, was turned off by Qin Yongjun with a remote control and locked people in the study.

The daughter has to practice the piano, the son has to practice calligraphy, and the younger son has to watch alone.

Then lying on the sofa, Zhang Lan, who didn't do anything and made noise in the living room, was driven away.

Zhang Lan got up and entered the study, it is strange to say, Zhang Lan also installed a projector in the study, and there is a special home theater stereo, but it is okay to watch movies, watching TV or news has never been lying on the sofa in the living room and watching TV gives people a comfortable and comfortable feeling.

(This chapter was overhauled after it was banned.,The missing content is probably some complaints about some aspects.,I'll just look at it.,Please forgive me.) I don't feel like there's anything wrong with it, but it's banned. I won't mention this part in the future, I can think of a bad way to write, but I really didn't expect to be blocked directly. And I don't know where this is prohibited, I can't see it at all, I'll ask the editor when I get back. Take a look at what the blocked words are. (End of chapter)