Chapter 663: Habit
But no matter how you can't see it, after a woman has given birth to a child, she chooses to be reborn again, and there must be feelings. It's just that the relationship foundation of the two is different, and the two got along a little awkward at the beginning, and then gradually got together.
The foundation is different, and the result is that although the two have feelings and roll a sheet or something, what a pair of lovers should do in the early stage, the two of them directly skip it, and it becomes the model of an old husband and wife.
In this mode, talking about love or something is a bit fake, just like living together, and the two run the family together.
In fact, at the beginning, Zhang Lan thought that he would deal with it for a period of time, and then everyone would get together and disperse, and just go their own way.
But with Qin Yongjun's pregnancy and the birth of two children, Zhang Lan's mood was suppressed. Later, under the urging of Qin Yongjun, Zhang Lan was also willing to work hard for the child.
As a result of these efforts, he settled in Kyoto. After this goal was achieved, Zhang Lan struggled for a while and wanted to lie down again, at this time Qin Yongjun's urging was no longer effective, even if he took the child as the goal, it was not very good, and even Zhang Lan himself had the intention of returning to his hometown.
The consequence is that Zhang Lan's family has a third child again, if you don't work hard for one son, right, what about two, you can't expect the two sons to leave them a different family property when the time comes.
When you have a son, you can also say that the good and the bad are the same, and when Lao Tzu has such a little connection, the good and the bad are all yours.
It is different when there are more children, and you must always think about the future of your children, and geniuses do not always exist. The dragon gave birth to nine sons, each of which is different, and the more children there are, the more you need to think about it.
Zhang Lan is talking about not being patriarchal, and he also hugs his daughter and kisses his daughter on weekdays, and his son just sends it away.
But how to put it, the real lack of attention is not the same as the superficial lack of attention.
No matter how much she loves her daughter, after having a son, Zhang Lanmei still has some biases in her heart.
The daughter is always going to get married, and the woman is not left behind, and she stays and stays to become an enemy. That's what Zhang Lan thinks in her heart, there will be everything she should have, but she just feels different in her heart.
That is, in society, if a person's daughter and his son, both of them are normal children, everyone's attitude is different.
As for equality between men and women, if they were to do the same thing, there would be no such atmosphere in society.
Under the same conditions, it is the children of an entrepreneur who have not grown crooked, and both of them have grown up normally, and when it is time to take over, the son and daughter enter the enterprise at the same time, and it is self-evident who is the heir.
If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight. Fate has given you a gift, and the price has long been secretly marked.
When you don't have anything, but you get preferential treatment, you have to have value in yourself to have such preferential treatment.
But behind this preferential treatment, the value you have will not disappear.
Some of the things you get at the moment, sooner or later, will give something accordingly, and this is the balance of supply and demand in life. In this life, there is nothing that can be obtained for no reason.
Whatever you want, you have to put in enough effort, and the more you want to get the better, the more you have to pay for the harder and harder.
If you can afford it, if you can put in enough effort, then you will naturally get everything you want. But if you don't like the high price and don't want to work hard, you must be prepared to accept your failure.
It doesn't matter if you're lying flat or working hard, as long as you're ready to accept the consequences you want to face, then there's nothing you can't do.
When I got home, it was already one o'clock in the morning, and after soaking my feet in hot water, Zhang Lan lay down in bed to rest.
In fact, Zhang Lan can also choose to use spells to clean up herself, but soaking her feet is different, after forming a habit, if she can't soak her feet in hot water before going to bed, she always feels uncomfortable on her body, and then she can't sleep.
It is a purely psychological factor, the reason why Zhang Lan often soaked his feet at that time was because of the existence of athlete's foot, if he did not soak his feet, the bedding would be infected with bacteria, and the toes would itch so much that people couldn't sleep when they soaked.
Soaking her feet before going to bed not only relieves the itching, but also allows Zhang Lan, who often gets up from work in the morning to go home in the dark, without worrying about the need to dry the bedding frequently.
Working in a seaside city, the most troublesome thing is to dry the bedding, if you are at home during the day, it is okay, but not at home during the day, it is a trouble to collect the quilt.
If you get up early and stay dark, when you get home, there is no difference between the bedding and the non-sun.
Later, after having the game panel, Zhang Lan cleaned himself thoroughly with water-based spells, and then cleaned up all his clothes, shoes and bedding.
After that, the athlete's foot completely disappeared from Zhang Lan's body. To put it bluntly, beriberi is a fungal infection, and once there is no environment for this fungal infection, beriberi will naturally disappear.
Early the next morning, when Zhang Lan was still sleeping, Qin Yongjun came into the house and called him to get him up, and someone came to look for him.
Now that Zhang Lan is at home, it is difficult to sleep peacefully. It's okay in Kyoto, sometimes the two children are not at home, and when Zhang Lan doesn't want to go to the clinic or doesn't have a doctor, it's okay to sleep a little longer.
It's different when I go back to my hometown, I just want to sleep a little longer, and from time to time someone will come to the door. It doesn't seem like anything, but every once in a while, something like that happens.
It's the same today, in the morning, Zhang Lan and Qin Yongjun said that he didn't eat breakfast and slept more. Now Zhang Lan looked at the time, it was only six o'clock, and Qin Yongjun had just finished washing.
Zhang Lan sat up and yawned, put on her pajamas and got out of bed, washed her face, walked to the living room and asked Qin Yongjun: "Who did you say you would come over just now?" ”
"Xiaoyu will come over and ask you to see his father." Qin Yongjun replied.
"What's going on?"
"I heard Xiaoyu say that it seems that he was accidentally hit by a bicycle while walking, and then he broke his leg, and he can't walk yet."
Zhang Lan asked with some surprise, "Doesn't Xiaoyu have medicine in her hand?" This kind of fracture caused by trauma was not just medicated at that time, what should I see? ”
Qin Yongjun shook his head and said, "I don't know the specifics, what Xiaoyu said is that people are fine now, but they just won't leave, so come over and let you see what's going on." ”
"When did this happen?"
"What happened last week, I was thinking that I had medicine in my hand, and I thought that it would be fine to take medicine directly after connecting the fractured part. But I didn't expect the injury to be healed now, but the leg can't move, and when I walk, I have to drag a leg or crutches to walk, I wanted to call you, but I just knew that you were back, so I came directly. Qin Yongjun replied.
Zhang Lan nodded: "Then let's talk about it after the others come." (End of chapter)