Chapter 698: Respect for the fate of others
It can only be said that some people are really stupid. It can only be said that the love brain is hopeless.
Regarding Zhang Lan's question, Jia Ming's explanation was that after his parents heard about it, they wanted him to see if he could use traditional Chinese medicine to restore normal, after all, there was still a success rate.
In Jia Ming's several answers, Zhang Lan has seen that Jia Ming may be very mindful of being divorced, but he doesn't seem to pay much attention to the matter of ligation.
Zhang Lan politely said that there was nothing he could do about this, because it was physically blocked. Just like a doctor who is good at treating hemiplegia after stroke, you can't let him treat after amputation.
After reading it, Jia Ming left first, and Qin Yonghui stayed at Zhang Lan's house for dinner. Speaking of this matter at noon, Qin Yongjun was also a little stunned, and it was equally difficult to understand Jia Ming's thoughts.
However, after thinking about it for a period of time, Zhang Lan somewhat understood the reason why things have developed to the present.
Nearly half a year has passed since Jia Ming's sterilization, and due to the side effects and his own personality, Zhang Lan feels that Jia Ming may have other ideas now.
It's hard to say exactly what happened, but the only thing to be thankful for is that after knowing what happened, Jia Ming's parents forced Jia Ming to save the seeds.
Now his parents should consider practicing the trumpet, and Jia Ming should be wasted like this.
For such a person, Zhang Lan can't quite understand it, he can understand licking a dog, but licking it to the sake of castrating himself is a rare thing in the world.
Relatively speaking, for the kind of patients with wrong gender cognition, who take the initiative to undergo surgery, Zhang Lan can still understand such a person. After all, it's a psychological factor.
Thinking about it, it's not that he can't understand it, it's all ideological behavior, and what kind of actions he can make is also his own personal opinion.
In the early days of the Internet information age, Zhang Lan remembers seeing such a news report. said that it was a young man, because he couldn't accept his identity, he went to have an operation to change his identity.
However, soon after the operation, he fell in love with a girl, and after the two were together, she went to the hospital for a pick-up operation in order to be with her girlfriend without discrimination from outsiders.
Due to the long period of time, Zhang Lan can't remember the specific facts clearly. But the most impressive thing is that this person had two surgeries in the hospital, one to remove and one to reconnect.
When she saw the news at that time, Zhang Lan was shocked, which hospital is this, and it can still be connected after surgery.
After suddenly remembering, Zhang Lan took her mobile phone and searched according to her impression, but she couldn't find any relevant information. However, I found a report of a girl undergoing reconstructive surgery, and the operation was successful.
When she searched with her mobile phone, Zhang Lan thought that there was something wrong with her memory, or that she had seen fake news from somewhere. And then I saw that there were successful examples twenty years ago.
In fact, this example cannot be compared, like Jia Ming, in order to prove the love in his mouth, he chose to take the initiative to go for surgery. How to say this kind of behavior, if after a few decades, two people grow old together, there is nothing wrong with it.
But from the rise of the Internet era to the introduction of the concept of Dink into China and being carried forward, the original Dink people have reached the age of fifty or sixty years old.
Or rather, it is already rare, and those who held high the banner of freedom at the age of twenty or thirty regretted it after the age of forty-five.
The only remaining couple, because of their wealthy family and the attitude of not worrying about money, may still be living freely and chicly.
Then the eyes of the young people were focused on this couple, and as for the others, they could not see them.
What was wasted and wasted when you were young will one day be recovered little by little by time to you.
It is often said that there is no time to look back, but most of the time, many people are looking forward to the possibility of turning back.
Qin Yongjun asked Zhang Lan if he could treat Jia Ming, and Zhang Lan said with a smile: "What to do for him." Anyway, didn't his parents have the foresight to save the seeds, while the time is still short, the top priority is not to go abroad to find a life trumpet as soon as possible. There is a trumpet, and no matter how scrapped this trumpet is, it will not be affected. ”
Speaking of this, Zhang Lan asked Qin Yonghui on the side a little strangely: "The clan atmosphere in the south is so strong, didn't Jia Ming's parents think about practicing the trumpet?" ”
Qin Yonghui shook her head and said, "Jia Ming has an older sister, his mother is an employee of a state-owned enterprise, or a monopoly employee of a state-owned enterprise. At that time, you also knew that family planning was almost 50 years old after it was liberalized, and there was no motivation. ”
Zhang Lan nodded to show that she understood, but she was still a little puzzled: "Then Jia Ming has only one son in his family, and he and his daughter-in-law are engaged in dink, can his parents be happy for him to get married?" ”
Qin Yonghui shook her head and said, "You can also see Jia Ming, he is short, and he has problems with speaking and doing things. No matter how hard his parents tried, but Jia Ming didn't work hard, no one would do it. And when he was young at the beginning, his parents wanted to pick one when he met someone who was about the same, but when he got older, he followed Jia Ming himself, who knew he could find one like this. ”
Zhang Lan smiled, shook his head and said, "It's no wonder to others, it's up to his parents to arrange it." ”
"His father was in business, and he was not afraid of money. I heard that there are illegitimate children outside, and now it is his mother and his sister who are anxious, and his parents came to me directly after hearing about you that day, so that they wanted me to take him to have a look. The old lady is now busy finding a suitable mother for her son. Qin Yonghui said.
"It's too early, just use the money to buy her grandson, can the old lady still expect other girls and his son to continue to live." Zhang Lan said casually.
Qin Yonghui nodded: "That's what the old lady thinks, in my husband's family group, she also said her own requirements, the academic qualifications and appearances are clearly marked, the money doesn't matter, but the conditions must be enough." ”
Zhang Lan didn't say anything anymore, the employees of monopolistic state-owned enterprises plus the status of rich people are indeed very high-minded most of the time.
Just like civil servants in the system, there are always some people who think that their status can withstand thousands of troops. In fact, I don't want to say whether I can top it for the time being, but I can't always find out if my position is true.
Sometimes I feel that the Internet era is really good and bad, the good thing is that some people's horizons have been greatly broadened, and the disadvantage is that some people's horizons have been greatly broadened.
The acquisition of fragmented knowledge is becoming easier and easier, and hearsay that when you see a thing or an argument, you will take it as the truth, and after practicing it for a long time, you will find that those words are nonsense from the other party. (End of chapter)