Chapter 775: Two Suggestions
Zhou Ling is not tall, the whole person is thin and short, and she looks like she can be blown away by a gust of wind. Zhou Ling herself knows what Zhang Lan said, and she knows what to do.
Zhou Ling has not stopped conditioning her body in the past few years, and she knows in her heart what the reason is for the continuous miscarriage.
This time I came to Zhang Lan to worship the Buddha, asking for a hope, hoping that the next time she is pregnant, the Bodhisattva can bless her to give birth to the child smoothly.
In his hometown for a while, Zhang Lan always wanted to show off his medical skills, but after the name of the Bodhisattva in the courtyard next to him spread, they came over one by one, and eight out of ten wanted to ask Zhang Lan to help him be a boy in front of the Bodhisattva statue.
This time Zhou Ling came over like this, after Zhang Lan took the pulse, Zhou Ling herself knew what she said, and Zhou Ling said it very clearly, she is a nurse in a tertiary hospital, she has worked for almost 20 years, and she knows very well what problems in her body, how to treat them, whether they can be treated, and what methods are better, she also knows very well.
Whether it is Chinese medicine or Western medicine, she knows what is better, in fact, she also knows what the best way is, but she has no money.
This time I came to Zhang Lan, what I asked for was peace of mind, and after she went back, she began to prepare for pregnancy again, and the hospital had already coordinated it.
Zhou Ling is career establishment, her plan is to be transferred after going back this time, whether it is successful or not, the current position cannot be taken for a long time, she and people privately agreed, when the time comes, she will transfer to another place, use the vacant position in exchange, plus her own relationship, and then transfer her to an idle position.
(In reality, this kind of operation is not feasible, and it is not possible to make such a big effort if you have this relationship, and it is better to go directly to the test without this relationship.) If it doesn't matter, if you are too old and want to take this path, the method I said is not referential, just laugh it off. )
This time, Zhou Ling came to Zhang Lan to ask Zhang Lan to give her an incense in front of the Bodhisattva and ask for a blessing. Regardless of the outcome, at least for now.
Zhang Lan has no problem here, since she decided to do the ritual of praying for a son and asking for an heir, Zhang Lan's mentality is gradually beginning to change, it is really a problem to be too hypocritical, there are not so many twists and turns in this world, when you treat people simply, you will naturally be treated simply.
Do what you need to do, say what you need to say. Tactfully detoured, maybe I will make this mistake from time to time in the future, but after realizing it, Zhang Lan will correct it as soon as possible.
There is also such a thing as helping, helping when you should help, raising your hands, and there is nothing else at hand, you should give love.
You don't need to ask for a return for everything, many things in this world are not rewarded.
It doesn't work to be afraid of wolves and tigers, you can't just see people enjoying happiness, but you can't see the suffering behind it. Nothing is easy in this world, and when you grow up, everyone has their own troubles.
But it's afternoon now, if Zhou Ling goes to incense by herself, it's no problem, and Zhang Lan is a little inappropriate to follow her over to do a ritual.
The previous ritual Zhang Lan has stopped, and everything has been cleaned up. If you don't stop, you can continue to do it.
But now it is equivalent to starting anew, and in Buddhism there is a saying that "meditating in the morning, you will be blessed", and it is easier to be blessed by performing the ritual in the morning, so that the person who performs the ritual can receive greater blessings and blessings.
There are also afternoon and evening prayers, but afternoon and evening are not very suitable for prayer type rituals. There are Yin Matter Dojo and Yang Dojo, and Yin Shi Dojo is generally placed in the afternoon or evening, after noon.
The reason is that the yang energy is more abundant in the morning or noon, and it is not suitable for this time to do yin dojos.
This is a conventional saying, which is generally based on this, but there is no specific indication of what kind of ritual must be done at what time.
After all, some rituals have 357 days, or even longer, and if those large-scale rituals are held strictly according to this kind of time method, then there is no way to do things.
Zhang Lan and Zhou Ling said the reason, mainly to see if Zhou Ling's time can be arranged, if you are in a hurry to leave, then after you will prepare things, just go directly to the courtyard next to Zhou Ling to help Zhou Ling.
If you're not in a hurry, it's better to do it in the morning. But if it is done tomorrow morning, it will not be as good as today's day, today is an auspicious day of the zodiac, and it will not be tomorrow, it depends on how Zhou Ling chooses.
This choice of pros and cons, Zhou Ling thought about it and asked Zhang Lan what time is suitable for praying for blessings on the next auspicious day of the zodiac.
Then it's hard to say, Zhang Lan hasn't pushed the time yet, but he may not be here in Qingshan Village at that time, and he may be in Kyoto at that time, and he may not be able to come back.
Then Zhou Ling asked Zhang Lan when it was best to do it this afternoon and tomorrow morning. Don't ask for better, which of the two times is relatively better, Zhou Ling will choose whichever one.
If it's tomorrow, Zhou Ling still has time, but it won't work after a long time, she is also on vacation, and she doesn't have so much time.
Zhang Lan thought about it for a while, and said to Zhou Ling that the two times are actually better this afternoon than tomorrow morning, not that this afternoon will be better than tomorrow morning.
The main reason is that Zhang Lan just suddenly thought that Zhou Ling had a few miscarriages before, and he could choose to do an excessive ritual this afternoon, and then if possible, he would do another prayer ceremony tomorrow morning.
Infant souls are babies who have been aborted due to accidents or human factors before they are born, and most of them are abortions, stillbirths, or babies who die soon after birth.
According to folklore, the meaning of transcending the infant spirit is to send the infant spirit who has not been reincarnated to the place where it should go, and not to be displaced from the world and become an orphaned soul. Most babies harass their loved ones, but like humans, babies have different personalities and temperaments. Therefore, the ways and degrees of harassment of relatives are also different, and infants with bad tempers and personalities have a stronger hatred of revenge; Some mild-mannered babies do not harass their loved ones.
The reason why Zhang Lan proposed to do a transcendental ritual was that if she really believed this, for Zhou Ling, doing a transcendent ritual might be more reassuring to her than doing a blessing prayer ritual.
As a result, when Zhang Lan said that it was better to do a transcendent ritual in the afternoon, Zhou Ling immediately nodded and said, "Just do what Zhang Lan said, do a transcendent ritual this afternoon, and do another prayer tomorrow morning." I brought some from the car, and if I didn't have enough, I'll buy them now. ”
Zhou Ling almost instantly agreed to Zhang Lan's suggestion to do supernatural rituals, and asked Zhang Lan what things she needed to prepare, and she brought some with her car when she came, but she didn't know if it was enough. (End of chapter)