Chapter 877 - Passing
As for doing things like asking for gods and Buddhas, in Zhang Lan's opinion, there is no need, the most important thing is to untie the knot.
From Qin Changyue's few words, Zhang Lan can almost guess that the reason why Qin Jiawen has never been married has a lot to do with the failure of the last marriage.
First figure out the matter of the last divorce, and then analyze the specific situation, and basically you can figure it out.
led people to the Buddha hall, and after paying homage to the incense, Zhang Lan asked about the previous marriage.
It was still Qin Changyue who was talking, and Qin Jiawen occasionally added a sentence or two on the side.
Qin Jiawen has always been more honest, his daily communication is similar to that of an otaku, he usually loves machine tools, and he also got a special workshop at home, and after work, he studied his own machine tools at home, polishing various parts and the like.
When I got married for the first time, Qin Jiawen's parents were anxious to hold their grandson, and they had been on a blind date, and the conditions were relatively high at the beginning, but after the passage of time, Qin Jiawen's parents' conditions were also repeatedly reduced, whether it was in Kyoto or out of town, as long as Qin Jiawen was willing to marry someone, it would be no problem.
In the end, Qin Jiawen's mother passed through an acquaintance in the unit and introduced a girl three years older than Qin Jiawen. The girl is from another place and works in Qin Jiawen's mother's unit, with a salary similar to Qin Jiawen's, and they are all contract workers in the unit.
At that time, Qin Jiawen's conditions were there, and there was nothing on the girl's side, so everything was fine from the beginning of the relationship to the final marriage.
The bride price symbolically asked for a thousand and one, and the jewelry money was led by Qin Jiawen and Qin Changyue to buy it, and the girl didn't mention anything, what she bought was what she bought.
After getting married, Qin Jiawen's parents also thought that there would always be inconvenience with their new daughter-in-law, so they let Qin Jiawen and his daughter-in-law live in a house, and the old couple lived in a house by themselves, so there would not be so many contradictions if they didn't live together.
The first two years after marriage were similar, the woman didn't have any special requirements, and no matter which relatives on Qin Jiawen's side mentioned it at home, they were full of praise.
It wasn't until later that the girl's job at the unit was transferred to the establishment and the family register became the Kyoto family register, that things began to change.
nagging Qin Jiawen at home every day that he earns less money and doesn't have enough money to spend, but even if he changes the establishment, the salary of the two people is about the same, adding up to more than 10,000 yuan a month, because there is no mortgage to repay, and the simple daily life of the two people is enough.
Qin Jiawen didn't answer her at first, but then it became more and more excessive, pointing at Qin Jiawen's nose and saying that Qin Jiawen made less money from waste and garbage. I don't do housework anymore, and Qin Jiawen often scolds him for not doing well when he does it.
After that, she couldn't spend enough money on the salaries of the two people alone, and she had to ask Qin Jiawen to go to her parents from time to time to get some. Don't mention cooking at home or something, I have to go to this restaurant and that restaurant from time to time, because both of them are in a regular unit, and there are holidays or something.
From time to time, when he was on vacation, he thought about going out to travel, and when he ran out of money, he forced Qin Jiawen to ask his parents for it, and he often said that Qin Jiawen was alone, and the money was not all reserved for him.
Slowly, I can bear it anymore, and I annoy women to scold all the time, scold when the salary is low, and scold for not doing housework well. There are also frequent comparisons, whose husband's monthly money is, whose husband buys what her daughter-in-law has.
Later, there was basically no communication with Qin Jiawen, except for asking for money. Even when is the salary paid in the life of the couple, let you touch the salary when you bring it, otherwise don't think about it.
In the end, Qin Jiawen simply told his parents that he wanted to divorce, but the girl was a face in front of Qin Jiawen, and her performance in front of outsiders was very normal, she smiled at everyone, and she was gentle and generous in dealing with others.
Qin Jiawen and his parents said that they wanted to divorce, but Qin Jiawen's mother didn't support it at all, saying that this girl looked very good, and it was a bit of a big deal to spend money, but it was not a big problem.
Later, as long as Qin Jiawen saw her at home, he got up and left directly, and the two of them were not alone at all.
At this time, Qin Jiawen's parents saw that both of them were like this, and knew that this girl was probably different from what they saw, and what Qin Jiawen said might be the truth.
I went to find the middleman who introduced the girl before, and asked him to persuade him in the middle, after all, it's not a matter of two people making such a fuss, it's really not okay to leave before you have a child.
The middleman didn't believe it after hearing it, this girl looked very good in the unit, she worked very hard, and she was very good at dealing with people. When I first entered the establishment, the middleman also felt that a good matchmaker was introduced, and he specially approved this girl to come in, why is it that it is now to the point of divorce.
The middleman talked to the girl once, and persuaded her to say that you have been married for so long, and you have also entered the establishment, so don't fight so hard, should you have a child. In the eyes of the middleman, the contradiction between the two people is so big, it may have something to do with not having children, and it will be good to wait for them to have children.
The girl performed very well in front of outsiders, but it was even more intense here in Qin Jiawen. After the middleman approached her, she still had her original appearance and had not changed. Qin Jiawen, who was still sneering, went to find someone to complain, and the complaint was also a wreck, and at this time, Qin Jiawen's anger had accumulated to the limit.
Not long after that, when Qin Jiawen paid his salary again, the girl asked Qin Jiawen for money, but Qin Jiawen directly said no. That night, the girl made a big fuss at home, and when Qin Jiawen was making parts in the workshop, she went directly into the house and smashed the workshop that Qin Jiawen used to pass the time.
Qin Jiawen was angry and said cruel words to divorce tomorrow, pushed the girl out of the house and locked the door. This time it was terrible, the girl directly reported to the police, saying that Qin Jiawen was violent, and the police wanted to arrest him.
Because it was a demolition and resettlement community, the neighbors knew Qin Jiawen's parents, and after calling the police, the neighbors called Qin Jiawen's parents. After Qin Jiawen's parents arrived, the girl still said the same thing. After learning what had happened, the police persuaded the girl that I could take him away tonight, but you have to think clearly, once you take him away, you really won't be able to live this life.
This girl threatened that she couldn't get along with Qin Jiawen for a long time, so she quickly took him away, and she wanted Qin Jiawen to go to prison.
As soon as the words fell, Qin Jiawen's mother was also anxious, saying that our family did not treat you badly, my son had wanted to divorce for a long time, but I pressed him to not leave.
And Qin Jiawen's father was next to him, so he simply said to leave quickly. Let Qin Jiawen go to the police station first to solve today's matter, and then go to the divorce tomorrow. Just pushing someone out of the house is going to put my son in jail, and I don't know what will happen in the future, so I get a divorce quickly.
Qin Jiawen said that after seeing the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow, he left with the police. As a result, not far from the community, the police let Qin Jiawen get out of the car and leave, and told Qin Jiawen not to go back tonight, and both parties were calm and calm. (End of chapter)