Zhang Lan means not to rush first, but to solve the mentality first and then come. Qin Changyue asked Zhang Lan if he could do both, he should worship the Bodhisattva and worship the Bodhisattva here, and Qin Jiawen should go to the doctor to see the doctor.

The main reason is that Qin Jiawen's age is really not young, and he can rush forward a little bit if he can do anything.

There is nothing wrong with it, although there is really no spell in his hand that can pull the red line, but give Qin Jiawen a spell like a calm heart and a clear heart, so that he can avoid turning into the tip of the horns when he thinks, maybe the effect is better?

Older singles like Qin Jiawen, as long as they take the initiative and put down their bodies to accept the gap, it is still easy to get married.

There is no shortage of money, there is no shortage of houses, and it is still a Kyoto account, so it is easy to be backward compatible.

Zhang Lan nodded and said, "That's okay, then I'll prepare, and I'll let Brother Jiawen burn incense and worship the Bodhisattva." ”

After worshipping the Bodhisattva, Qin Jiawen called him about something in his unit and asked him to hurry over. When he left, Qin Changyue also wanted to go together, but Qin Yongjun stopped him and said that he would leave after dinner.

Usually it's easy not to come once, it's okay to eat and leave when you come, Qin Jiawen's unit has something to do, and he goes to work.

After Qin Jiawen left, Qin Changyue's originally smiling face became sighing, and he nagged that he shouldn't have listened to Qin Jiawen's mother in the first place, at that time, he should find a family that knows the root and the bottom of the matter to marry, where would there be so many problems.

Qin Changyue's nagging and complaining was her dissatisfaction with Qin Jiawen's mother, saying that the girl she introduced to Qin Jiawen was suitable, but Qin Jiawen's mother was unwilling. If it is said that other people's families are not good, the character of single-parent families is definitely not good.

As a result, now, the girl introduced by Qin Changyue at that time also got married quickly, and gave birth to a pair of twins not long after marriage, and now she is living a very happy life. She found it to her liking, but what did it turn out to be, even if she got divorced, she made her nephew so reluctant that she didn't even want to go on a blind date.

Zhang Lan smiled and comforted her, in fact, there are some things that don't need to be too anxious, he may just be fate yet, and when the time comes, he will naturally start a family.

By the way, Zhang Lan gave her an example, he had a junior high school classmate Guo Rui, who was relatively short when he was in school, and he was already in the third year of junior high school, and his son and appearance were still like a primary school student.

Later, when he became an adult, his height was about 1.6 meters, and he was estimated to be dissatisfied. At that time, Guo Rui's study was okay, and he played well in the college entrance examination, and he walked one by one.

Because my family was relatively poor, I chose to major in civil engineering. In the past few years after graduation, I have been revolving around the construction site, because of my height, my appearance is not outstanding, and I have never succeeded in falling in love on a blind date.

Even later, because of this, Guo Rui was also researched on the construction site, and the salary level was rising all the way, but it was difficult to find a partner.

His parents are also dying in his hometown, but there is nothing he can do. It is said to be 1.6 meters, which is the height after wearing height-increasing shoes.

In addition, he has been immersed in study all year round, and he has been on the construction site since graduation, and it is very general to talk and deal with people, which is to fail one by one.

Guo Rui himself is also a little insistent, and the introduction of his parents in his hometown is not willing to be backward compatible, when Zhang Lan chatted with him before, when he mentioned blind dates, Guo Rui often talked about it, he didn't get married for the sake of reproduction, he studied for so many years, if he forced himself to get married just for the sake of reproduction, then what is the point of reading. At the very least, he had to find someone who could communicate effectively, and he didn't want to say a word casually, and the two of them ended up on their own channels.

It dragged on until last year, and according to Guo Rui's later words, he was only persecuted by his mother, so he met with an introducer.

This introducer is the kind of matchmaker who charges a fee in the township, and the introduction of a person is a few hundred yuan, and then the two people become a few hundred to several thousand.

The woman took Guo Rui to meet at home by the introducer, and when she met Guo Rui, it was the girl's father who talked to Guo Rui and his family, and then let the two of them talk by themselves to see if it was suitable.

In this case, the woman felt that Guo Rui had been deceived, she had no intention of going on a blind date at all, and before meeting Guo Rui, the same introducer had led people to her house more than a dozen times.

I didn't know what psychology was that day, and the woman felt that Guo Rui was quite pitiful. Originally, he was short, his family was still rural, and he was majoring in civil engineering when Guo Rui heard him say that he was a civil engineering major, and he was often absent from home.

After a while, she was relieved, and said that she went out for a walk with Guo Rui, and her plan was to explain to Guo Rui that this kind of introducer is unreliable, and she came for the introduction fee, and after the success of the future, the fee of several thousand yuan was just lip service.

This kind of introducer is staring at how much money is introduced to a person, leading you to meet once is a few hundred dollars, and then sometimes you can mix a good meal.

If the man takes a fancy to it and the woman hesitates, this middleman can make a lot of money from the middle.

The woman was well-intentioned at the time, and after going out, Guo Rui said please eat, but the people directly refused, and after explaining the cause and effect clearly, let Guo Rui and his family make it clear that giving money to this kind of person is throwing money for nothing, as long as you give money, he can take you to kiss more than a dozen times a day.

As for whether it can be successful, they only charge you an introduction fee, and the follow-up is casual.

Guo Rui didn't think it was anything at the time, he would also go home on vacation, and the cheating money would only cost one or two hundred introductions, and he couldn't stay at home for a few days, so he threw one or two thousand to let his parents stop nagging, which was very cost-effective for Guo Rui, who had more than 10,000 a month at that time and a bonus at the end of the year.

Because of the girl's persuasion, the two of them had topics for each other after adding WeChat. After chatting for a while, the girl felt that although Guo Rui was a little shorter, he didn't seem to like to talk much.

But after getting acquainted with it, it's completely different, he talks funny, knows a lot of knowledge, and can tolerate his stubborn temper.

Guo Rui's side also got to know each other a few times and went out to eat and go shopping, and completely left behind what he said with Zhang Lan about having common topics and the like.

What common topics and mutual exchanges, as long as two people identify each other, marriage is mutually accommodating. You tolerate me, I tolerate you, and it's best to be happy with each other.

After that, the two quickly got engaged and married, and Zhang Lan and Guo Rui met during the Chinese New Year, the woman was five months pregnant, and it didn't take long for the child to be born.

This kind of thing is that as long as he is fate, everything is very fast. Don't put too much pressure on you as an elder, this kind of thing is married, and it may be useful for you to press him on a blind date or something when you are young.

When you reach a certain age, it is better for you to press him on a blind date to let him contact more people, and if you have more contact, you will naturally bring people home. (End of chapter)

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