885 Not Everyone Can Do It
Xiao Hongmin took herself as an example, and also mentioned other people, saying that Zhang Lan had a good way to regulate her body to treat infertility, but it was okay at first, but when she heard that the fees for rich people were higher and higher every time, she asked Liu Lei if she could accept it.
Expensive fees are not a problem, Liu Lei and her husband are not short of money, but one thing is different is that when Xiao Hongmin learned the news and went to Liu Lei and her husband to talk about it, Liu Lei and her husband had already signed a divorce.
It's not that she doesn't love anymore, and it's not because of a quarrel, Liu Lei actually understands her husband's feelings.
Just when the two of them had an accident abroad and were both admitted to the hospital, they couldn't find anything at first when they were trying to find someone to talk to with their mobile phones.
When I wanted to tell others about my safety, or to find someone else to tell me what happened to me, I flipped through my phone, but found that there was nothing to say.
Liu Lei's feelings may not be as deep as her husband's, when the two quarreled, her husband said that he got into the ambulance on the way to the hospital, and thought more than once, this time it was their luck, what if the accident was too serious and the two people needed someone to sign for treatment?
If it's the kind that dies directly, it's fine, in case it's that kind of high-level paralysis or something, what will he do to ensure his life for the rest of his life.
As for being rich or something, you are a lonely old man, there are no descendants below, and the money is not as much as you imagined, and you want to take care of yourself with the conscience of nursing homes and caregivers for the rest of your life.
People's hearts have never been able to stand the test, and at that moment, Liu Lei's husband suddenly thought of something, he is also a small family property, and he is also a figure with a face in his hometown, if something suddenly happens abroad, he may not even be able to enter the ancestral grave at that time, and he may not even have a cemetery, and there is no one to worship him.
When people reach a certain age, they will naturally awaken to something. It doesn't matter if you don't get married, once you get married, for a man, there is no sense of belonging without children, there is no responsibility for him to bear, then he has no concept of family. No one in this world will really care if you have children or not, except for your parents.
When you are young, you can talk about love, two people are like glue, and when you haven't encountered any turmoil, you naturally won't have much feeling about some things.
Until a certain age encountered a turmoil, the two people's minds changed, Liu Lei's husband was in a hurry to want a child of his own, he could still give birth, his income was also very high, and his health was also very good, and it was a matter of his heart to leave his hard-working family property to his offspring.
And Liu Lei's side, her husband has been with her for most of her life, Dink is what she insisted on at the beginning, whether it is marriage or divorce, it is a matter of wishful thinking, adults, since they made a choice when they were young, they should also bear the results of their choices, whether good or bad.
Although it is a little difficult to calm down, the other party has nothing to be sorry for himself. Because Liu Lei's husband was not a Dink from the beginning, Dink's choice was a choice made by the other party for Liu Lei.
Now that the other party has his own awakening and wants to seek a descendant of his own, and his body has basically been confirmed to be unlikely after several examinations, so let's get together and disperse.
Liu Lei said very indifferently, smiled and sighed and told Zhang Lan and others about her feelings, and now looking back, she also felt that her original ideas were a little too extreme.
Although she used to be a staunch Dink herself, it was only at her age that she understood what her parents were saying when she was young.
Now her health is not bad, and she maintains various physical examinations and daily living habits every year, and if there are no accidents, it is not a big problem to live for at least twenty or thirty years.
Now she has no parents, no husband, no children, and is truly alone. Maybe while you have money in your hands in the past few years, your appearance is still there, and you can still raise a little milk dog to play. But it's already too difficult to find someone who really accompanies you.
Maybe you can find a divorced single person to live with, but at this age, due to the consideration of both parties' own assets, if you just live together, it may still be possible, and people of the same class don't have to think about getting a marriage certificate.
Liu Lei now has small assets, and under normal circumstances, it is not a problem to spend her old age with her current assets. But she is also a little worried, if she is still with her husband, it is okay, and the two of them can take care of anything that happens.
As you get older, who can guarantee that you will always be able to. During this period of time, Liu Lei has often reflected on herself, and also privately visited some urban elderly people whose children are abroad, but have lost contact.
What can they say about their lives, they are rich and healthy, they can grow flowers and grass and dance a square dance, have their own hobbies, and raise their favorite pets.
seems to be happy and harmonious, but once she chatted with them and became familiar with them, Liu Lei talked about her situation and persuaded Liu Lei to try to raise a child of her own if possible, even if it was adoption.
If you don't pay attention to it when you're young, the end result is that you will pay the price when you get old. Some people are willing to bear this price, some people don't know anything about this price, and they don't start to regret it until they really start to face it, but there is no regret medicine in this world.
As you get older, you will always indulge in memories, and as you get older, you will find that your life will gradually repeat itself day after day, year after year.
If you are not really strong in your heart, and you have always had different things to do for fun, it won't be long before the whole person will be out of touch with society.
seems to raise flowers and grass, dancing happily in the square, the old professor visited by Liu Lei said to Liu Lei with a smile: "To be honest, I see those people now, and they are almost the same as when they were young. I know exactly what they're going to say, what they're going to do, what they're going to think. ”
"But even so, I still happily go to the event, what do you say for, every day guarding this empty house, no matter how much I study, but my mind can't keep up, my brain is protesting to me. I knew that if I worked around the clock, I would be able to achieve something. Of course, it's more likely that one day I'll suddenly fall down at this desk. ”
"When I was 70 years old, I thought it was my life's work, and there was nothing wrong with giving my life to it. But I'm eighty-four now, and I find that I cherish my life very much now, and I don't want to risk my life to fight for a slim hope. ”
"I knew I was a coward compared to everyone else, but I chose to back down. When I was a young man reading history, I criticized the man who said 'the water is too cold', but now I find that I am no different from him. (End of chapter)