Some people think that things will pass when they are over, but for some people, if you don't straighten out her anger, sooner or later it will still be a trouble.

However, what about feelings, sometimes you can't expect outsiders to remind you all the time, the parties themselves are not aware of their own problems, and outsiders just work hard, no matter how anxious they are, it is in vain.

And Wang Tao can't divorce this kind of thing, in Zhang Lan's opinion, there is nothing wrong with leaving.

Some families may just not be suitable for being together, Wang Tao has been married for a few years, not to mention anything else, Aunt Zhang Lan has been tossed a lot.

The old lady is in her sixties, and when Zhang Lan was a child, several aunts were very good to him. Originally, I planted some land at home and played mahjong in my spare time.

Even if you are stingy, it is not a big problem in the countryside. is at this age, Zhang Lan's uncle still has a retirement salary, and the two of them should enjoy Qingfu.

Marriage is not only not easy when you get married, but also after marriage.

Every kind of relationship needs to be carefully managed, and now in this society, it seems that it is rare to see or hear a person say that he wants to get married because he loves someone very much, because he wants to be with another person forever.

Many people invariably hope that all marriages are based on love, because they love very much and want to be together forever, so they get married.

It is precisely because it is rare that I hope for it. Whenever I see a couple who love each other very much, so they get married together, there is always a feeling of a fairy-tale ending that has achieved positive results, and the prince and princess have lived happily ever after.

However, the beginning of the story is always good, because usually the end of the story does not appear, whether it is based on fascinating love or the most realistic dependence, no one can see forever.

It's obviously a person who picked himself, so how can he live a life that is not rare. It may be that too many temptations can easily touch the bottom line of human nature's fragility, it may be that there are too many problems that make people gradually exhausted, or it may be that the lenient policy of divorce freedom makes people have a way back at any time. In short, the seemingly happy ending of marriage is actually the beginning of all trials.

In the simple and enthusiastic Fantasia years, you can not understand the solemnity of marriage, and you can bet on your future life with indomitable progress.

The ignorant are fearless, and more often than not, they may be sure of their future happiness. With a face of self-righteousness, he rushed forward boldly, thinking that he could pass five levels and cut six to win a big victory, but life will always silently, little by little, draw away people's initial courage, so that you can finally bow down.

Sometimes, many major decisions are catalyzed by impulse, and deliberate deliberation and left-right trade-offs are just psychological contradictions before the decision.

Life always has to be peaceful, to the trivial, firewood, rice, oil and salt of the mundane. Even if Sima Xiang is like Lu Qi's affection, it is inevitable that Zhuo Wenjun will be drinking wine in the future, and the final life will be calm and calm, turning into a still water undercurrent.

To like someone, it only takes a moment of courage; And guarding a marriage requires a lifetime of dedication.

The road of getting married, in particular, should be taken well. Be brave enough to rush through the storm; It must also be tough enough to survive the blandness and tastelessness; Be fully committed and do your best to minimize your missteps; It is also important to preserve the remaining strength so that you can make a comeback after wrestling. I thought that life was like a drama, and marriage was the most satisfying ending, but life slowly told me that the road after marriage is not all glittering sunny avenues. Marriage, or just a corner of the long road of life, is the realization of a "two people walking together" way of life transformation.

Marriage is also marriage, what is marriage, the simplest is to become a relative.

Wang Tao's daughter-in-law has been expressionless since she entered the door, Wang Tao smiled and told Zhang Lan about what happened after he went back yesterday, saying that he felt much better than before.

On the side, his daughter-in-law's face did not fluctuate, as if everything about Wang Tao had nothing to do with him. Zhang Lan sighed in her heart, if you are not happy to come, there is no need to be so wronged by yourself.

Zhang Lan especially can't understand why Wang Tao and his daughter-in-law would rather go to work in other places after they got married, not to mention talking to Zhang Lan or Zhang Lan's parents.

It seems that he is really like some kind of flood beast, Zhang Lan feels that he has not entered any unsavory industry, as for avoiding suspicion so much?

As for what Wang Tao's daughter-in-law said later in order to accumulate a big wave of favors, Zhang Lan sneered a little, such a close kinship, you usually don't want to maintain it more, and if you encounter a big disaster in the future, you hope to save a big one.

Why should you bother, just say what you need help with, and when something really happens in the future, you will still be helped.

But if you don't maintain a relationship at the beginning, and your children don't even see each other during the New Year, you expect to reach out to your children in the future.

If Aunt Zhang Lan was fine when she was alive, when Aunt Zhang Lan died later, Wang Tao would not be in contact often, and the two children would not see each other once a year.

Isn't it pure nonsense to expect that Zhang Lan will try her best to help when there is something in the future.

The most important thing is to communicate, not to favor. If it's a stranger, there's nothing wrong with you saving favors and waiting for them to be cashed out later, but this kind of relatives of your own family, what do you think about saving favors and waiting for cashing in the future?

Too lazy to look at Wang Tao's daughter-in-law's black face, Zhang Lan didn't want to persuade Wang Tao to pay more attention to his daughter-in-law, there was no need for that. People like this who want to divorce have gone through all kinds of deliberations before bringing it up.

It is undeniable that in this married life, Wang Tao made many mistakes, and in the past two years, Aunt Zhang Lan also played some counterproductive roles in the middle.

In this modern era, whether it is a blind date or a free love, marriage is always shared by everyone.

Isn't the reason why happiness is used to bless marriage because it is rare?

After Wang Tao and his wife left, Qin Yongjun walked in from outside, opened the refrigerator and took out a bottle of chilled mineral water, Zhang Lan hurriedly reached out and lifted the teapot and reminded him: "There is herbal tea here." ”

Qin Yongjun didn't speak, and waved his hand at Zhang Lan.

After drinking most of the bottle of cold mineral water, Qin Yongjun said: "The main thing is that it's hot, and drinking tea doesn't give people a comfortable psychological feeling." ”

Zhang Lan nodded and said with a smile: "I told you at noon, don't care about those who come to maintain order in the afternoon, they can't be the master, and this is not a matter of a while." ”

"You don't understand, you just have to take advantage of this time to determine everything that should be determined in advance, and then after the real master comes over, you can discuss specific things." Qin Yongjun explained. (End of chapter)