What is the least trouble, that is, your side suffers a loss, if you want to compensate, you should prepare the details in advance, and be reasonable. For example, the invoice for the treatment of electricity, the proof of purchase of the broken item, and if you want to pay for lost work, it is best to prepare the proof of work and the previous salary slip, etc.

These things are prepared in advance, and bargaining between the two parties during mediation saves a lot of trouble. You save the other party's worry, and the other party makes it easier for you when they deal with it.

If the other party suffers a loss, and the other party opens his mouth when talking about compensation, you can't accept the situation that you don't want to compensate or the amount you want to compensate is too different from the other party's proposal.

At this time, if you want to mediate, you must be prepared to be arrested and put pressure quickly, to see who can't bear the pressure in the end and legally and voluntarily accept mediation.

The most common means of pressure is to keep both parties in the case area, and under the pretext that you need to investigate the issues, you will not be allowed to walk around and make phone calls and play on your phone, just sit there and wait.

After waiting for a long time, there will naturally be people who are willing to loosen their mouths and regress, and finally after some people regress, they will come back to do the ideological work of both sides, and finally reach a legal and voluntary mediation.

Of course, this premise is mainly based on the condition that the parties have no relationship or background, or that the situation of both parties is the same. The kind of situation where tens of thousands of yuan are slapped and a little blood is shed to buy a car and a house will only be based on a clear surveillance video, one party takes the initiative to do it, and the other party does not fight back. And the party who does it must have a decent job, in this case, there will be a trip to the ground, buy a car and a house.

Some people think that the law represents justice, and that the quick capture is to enforce this justice fairly and justly. But in fact, the law is the embodiment of the will of the ruling class, the instrument of the ruling of a state.

The essence of the law is order, and the formulation of the law represents the birth of an order. And the fast catcher is the defender of order, although what is advocated now is the people's fast catch. But in essence, it is a violent institution, and it has no coercive connection with justice, which generally upholds justice, but does not deliberately pursue justice.

Zhang Lan told her aunt about the inside story, and asked her to see which one was in charge of their affairs when they went to the police station tomorrow, and then called Zhang Lan, and Zhang Lan would find someone to talk to here.

Judging from the current situation, the surveillance video in the elevator can see the quarrel, and you can see that the other party starts to do it first, which is not much of a problem.

The follow-up is nothing more than the question of how much compensation, if you can't talk about it, just let the sister-in-law wait at the police station for a while longer.

The best thing is to be mentally prepared when you go over tomorrow with the appraisal report, and after the compensation cannot be negotiated, the two parties at the police station will boil each other.

Unless the other party is determined to stay for a few days, in this case, you can't help it if they don't lose money.

As long as it is the kind of person who has concerns, most of them will choose to lose money, it is nothing more than a matter of how much. When the time comes, Zhang Lan's sister-in-law can hold on for a while, maybe it will be a gap of hundreds or thousands, depending on how the two choose.

Zhang Lan estimates that it will be a few thousand yuan in compensation, and under normal circumstances, unless it is a case record with administrative punishment and detention on his back, he will definitely accept mediation.

Detention of no more than 15 days, this kind of administrative record is not the same thing for some people. When Zhang Lan was leaving, she specially explained the difference with her aunt and sister-in-law, if she went tomorrow, the other party would be determined not to lose money and go to jail, Zhang Lan persuaded her aunt to accept it if she saw it.

The main reason is that the gap between minor injuries and minor injuries is too large, once the other party breaks the jar and falls, it is a small fight for you and you for three days, and a big fight for five days. After being imprisoned and detained, she also admits that it's almost okay to meet this kind of person, don't hold on to it.

When Zhang Lan drove home, it was getting dark, and it was almost time for dinner.

Zhang Lan's mother was chatting with people at the gate of the courtyard, and when she saw Zhang Lan's car, she got up and opened the courtyard door.

locked the car and went to close the gate, seeing that the eldest lady who had just chatted with her mother had left, Zhang Lan asked her mother with some curiosity: "What did you say?" I saw Aunt Juxiang with a worried face. ”

Zhang Lan's mother sighed and said, "It's okay, it's just that the child of your aunt Juxiang is divorced, ask me if there is any suitable person, and introduce her child." ”

"Xiaobin is divorced? I met him during the Chinese New Year and saw that he and his daughter-in-law had a good relationship. Zhang Lan said with some surprise.

"A good relationship during the Chinese New Year doesn't mean that the relationship is good now, Xiaobin and his daughter-in-law have someone outside, and they say that they won't talk to Xiaobin about anything, they just want to divorce." Zhang Lan's mother explained.

"The two children in Xiaobin's family are in junior high school, right?" It's not surprising to get divorced, but it's rare to have two children and want a divorce because of cheating.

"Who knows what people think, your aunt said that Xiaobin said that as long as he has a good life, there should be no such thing. If the result is not successful, people just want to divorce, but they don't want to live it. ”

After thinking about Xiaobin's daughter-in-law's appearance for a while, Zhang Lan shook her head and said: "His daughter-in-law will regret it sooner or later, as soon as this Xiaobin gets married after a while, it will be too late for his daughter-in-law to regret it." ”

Cheating in marriage, if one party refuses to look back, the other party has no effect after trying to keep it, and after looking back and sobering up, even if he does not remarry, the other party regrets it and cannot go back.

The world is so big, coupled with the development of the Internet now, it is inevitable to meet a few people in your life who want to fall after making your heart pound. The wider the contact and the more people you meet, the more likely you are to meet them.

Cheating is related to the individual, and it is also related to the environment and circle in which it is located. There are external causes, and there are internal causes. It's not just about getting into bed, it's the beginning of life's troubles.

Many times it is just a thought, and the whole direction of life will change.

People like Xiaobin's daughter-in-law may have been for temporary pleasure at first, but then they began to gradually become addicted. And in order to cover up lying to his family and friends, he became confused because he couldn't control the situation, and finally became a slave to his desires.

Being in a tense state of fear of being exposed all the time, you will feel more and more pressure, and you want to end, but you can't end it. In the end, you may hope to be discovered, at least without being condemned by your conscience.

When discovered, some people may repent and make up their minds to return to their normal lives.

And some people will also intensify and take the opportunity to break away from their original family. But when you make up your mind to leave your original family, will the other party do what you want?

Most of the time, when a middle-aged person's cheating is discovered, one party will regret it nine times out of ten after taking the opportunity to leave the original family. (End of chapter)