Life must always be experienced and explored by oneself, and everyone has their own fate and way of living.

Zhang Lan did not agree to lend money to Liu Chao, and said to Liu Chao that if it is a matter of two children getting married and going to school, you Liu Chao will borrow money, and it will be a matter of one sentence.

But you just want to have a good time yourself, then you can enjoy it if you have money, and endure it if you don't have money.

When Liu Chao saw that Zhang Lan didn't borrow money and got up to leave, Zhang Lan also warned Liu Chao that he had time to go out for a road trip, so it was better to hurry up and drive a big car to make money.

If you want to enjoy it, you can earn your own money, and if you want to do it quickly, you can earn the money for the car and the road expenses in a year. The children are so old, and now they are still thinking about how they are comfortable and how they came.

Zhang Lan can understand this selfish psychology, but she can't understand this behavior.

At an age when children like Liu Chao should get married soon, and they just want to enjoy themselves, Zhang Lan has seen similar examples.

However, in rural areas, most of the families are girls, and they don't have to worry about the house and their future life.

The following is the son, who has the ability to be a father and doesn't do it, he doesn't care about his son, Zhang Lan has not seen it many times over the years.

I have only seen one case around me, which is a primary school classmate in Qingshan Village. His mother committed suicide when he was seven or eight years old, supposedly because his father cheated on him. His mother was angry and committed suicide at home, because this classmate had a very poor relationship with his father.

When Zhang Lan was in the third year of junior high school, this classmate stopped studying, and dropped out of school early to work, and his father didn't say anything at that time.

Since Zhang Lan's classmate's mother committed suicide, his father has never married another person, and has always been alone at home.

I don't see him go out to work on weekdays, just just planting a little land and doing odd jobs. When you have money, you eat and drink, and you don't worry about Zhang Lan's classmate.

The classmate and Zhang Lan are the same age, and they have never been married. Except that he himself is a little extreme because of what happened when he was a child.

Another is that his father basically doesn't care much about him, and his attitude towards him is to come back if he wants to, and go out to work if he wants to.

You're back and you've got a bite to eat, but don't think about anything else.

Because he is a classmate and a fellow villager, Zhang Lan has always been in contact with him, and occasionally sends a message to chat a few words or something.

When it comes to getting married, his words are always full of dissatisfaction with his family, saying that the main reason why he doesn't mix well is his father.

Zhang Lan's classmates also work outside all the year round, and they earn a lot of money, but they have never had any sense of saving money, and often go to the factory to work for a period of time when they have no money, and quit their jobs to enjoy a period of time when they have money.

Regarding marriage, what he and Zhang Lan said was that his family would be forgotten in his lifetime, and he planned to do it for the rest of his life in the future.

Later, when I learned that Zhang Lan was worshipping the Bodhisattva at home, this classmate also came to Zhang Lan once.

wanted Zhang Lan to show him his life, if he was going to work hard for a lifetime, Zhang Lan comforted him a few words after he burned incense.

Whether this person's fate is good or not, there is a part of the natural fortune in it, but more of it depends on their own acquired efforts, if they don't work hard, simply rely on others, in addition to their own relatives, other people who will help a person who has nothing to do with themselves for no reason.

The strange place is also here, Zhang Lan's classmate is such a son, after what happened back then, until now, the other party has neither married nor shown a special love for the child.

Daily life gives people the feeling that they are raising a dispensable thing. No matter what Zhang Lan's classmates wanted to do, his father didn't care most of the time.

It's what you want to do, as long as you don't let me do it, don't let me stick your ass.

Zhang Lan has always been puzzled why this classmate's father, when he has not married another son, has always been very indifferent to his son.

Until one day when he went to the cemetery, after Zhang Lan burned the gold and silver paper money, he used his merit to check the surrounding environment.

By chance, Zhang Lan's classmate and his father passed by on the road in front of the Zhang family's ancestral grave.

After shaking a glance, Zhang Lan looked at it again with some surprise. In addition to recognizing the two people, there was another reason that made Zhang Lan extremely surprised.

The reason is that under the eyes of the meritorious spirit, the two people who should have been father and son, but Zhang Lan saw that there was nothing to do with each other at all.

This made Zhang Lan, who was burning paper money in the cemetery at the time, couldn't help but sweep it back and take a look again, and then suddenly it dawned on her.

It turned out that the classmate's father had long known that classmate Zhang Lan was not his son, so he didn't care about Zhang Lan's family and career in the future, and he himself was also drunk today.

However, there is a bad explanation for this speculation, which is why the classmate's father is no longer married, and he never mentions this to outsiders and his own family.

Afterwards, when Zhang Lan calmed down and thought about the reason, she suddenly realized that it might not be that the classmate's father was no longer married, but that he himself might have something wrong with him, so he didn't tell the reason.

Looking back at this time, Zhang Lan's classmate's mother's later suicide may also have some hidden secrets.

Some secrets are not suitable for too many people to know, and after Zhang Lan found out that the two fathers and sons were not biological, the classmate's father's bad behavior also had a reason.

However, this kind of behavior is still a little unpleasant. Since he didn't say it at the beginning, it means that there must be a certain reason for the classmate's father to endure this breath.

Thinking back to the classmate's father, who has never been married, knowing that Zhang Lan's classmate was not his own, he never told the truth. That means that this person should have something wrong with his body, so he will recognize his son knowingly.

But in Zhang Lan's opinion, no matter whether you really have a physical problem and plan to raise this child, you didn't mention this when the child's mother died, which means that you plan to raise people in the future.

A child, who has been brought by himself since he was a child, why do he have to be entangled in the wrong way, is he afraid that the child will know the inside story in the future?

In the past two days, people from ten miles and eight villages have come to incense, and the father of Zhang Lan's classmate also came once, how to say, sometimes people's spiritual outlook can really reflect enough situation.

An old man in his fifties, he doesn't want to add confidence to his children all day long, do what he can, and help young people. On the contrary, from time to time, he said that he wanted to retire, and he didn't want to have a child by himself, and the child dropped out of school early and didn't spend much money on the family.

In this case, the old man who is dozens of years old has not saved a penny, for fear that the child will not have to work hard in the future. (End of chapter)