Chapter 932: Fate
Parkinson's disease and Alzheimer's are degenerative diseases that are difficult to cure. The best thing to do is to prolong the progression of the disease as much as possible and improve the quality of life at the same time.
His father suddenly changed from a negative man who killed his wife to a great father. For a while, this change in impression was difficult to accept, and it was difficult for Zhang Lan to imagine how his classmates digested this information.
But this has nothing to do with Zhang Lan, although she is a young student and a classmate. But Zhang Lan also did not try to get the other party to accept the idea of her own point of view.
Under normal circumstances, don't try to change other people's minds, even if they agree with you, it doesn't mean that they really support you.
However, after Zhang Lan asked him about his plans, he still gave some suggestions.
Let him not rush to go out to work, his father is sick, this degenerative disease is not a problem if you take medicine on time at the beginning, maintain a healthy lifestyle, and stick to it for decades.
This world cannot be destroyed. The more confused people are, the less they should panic, and the more they should not ask for help. Anyone who wants to rely on any external force, or which master to guide the country, a skill, or a move to turn over, is almost just a constant waste of time.
Even if you don't have money, you have to earn money to marry a daughter-in-law or for a future retirement life, it is not a matter of time and a half. Sharpen the knife and do not mistake the woodcutter.
An ordinary person, if he wants to turn over quickly, he has never relied on a simple part-time job.
Zhang Lan's advice to this classmate is to first find out what he is best at making money, and only then will he know what his minimum ability to live in is when he finds out these things.
After that, you can pick out your favorite thing to do based on these abilities, but if there is only one option, it won't be a problem.
Because you can only rely on this thing to turn over, specialties and interests, to expand these two things, and make money from these things, is the right choice for a person to turn over quickly.
When people stand at a low point, after finding their own position, this is the time to start subtraction.
When you are focused on earning money, you have to cut out all unnecessary socializing, friends, and entertainment. Tell yourself that you have to spend a year or even two preparing for the next five or ten years.
It can be a painful process, but it's worth it, and only painful growth can prove that you're going uphill. Of course, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, it's just because you're not cornered.
When you are cornered, you can naturally do it, and at that time, it is not that you actively choose to stay away from this world, but that this world directly abandons you.
The only thing people can rely on is themselves, the weak are waiting to be redeemed, and the strong are saving themselves. Rely on this and that, and in the end, you can rely on yourself.
What's a little funny is that Zhang Lan and her classmates said that they should rely on themselves, find what they are good at and what they are interested in, throw away all their concentration on making money, and the garage will be at your fingertips for a few years.
As a result, this classmate said with a smile, if he knew such a thing, it would be better to directly agree to the conditions of a rich woman when he was mixing outside.
said that he was working as a waiter in a bar at that time, and a rich woman said that she would support him, and she had tens of thousands of pocket money every month, and she didn't stop him from finding a partner. And she has a job and a career herself, so she doesn't usually look for him much.
After following for more than a few years, you can directly buy a house and a car, and when you break up, you will also have a full breakup fee for him. As a result, Zhang Lan's classmate felt that it was not bad for the money, so he didn't agree at all.
The other party looked for him for a long time, until later, after Zhang Lan's classmate left the bar, he went to look for him several times. At that time, this classmate despised the rich woman for smashing people with money, saying that she didn't understand feelings. Then the other party scolded him for having a sick brain.
Later, after the other party had a new goal, he cut off contact with him. Thinking about it now, Zhang Lan's classmate slapped his thigh with regret, saying that he would definitely not refuse if he had known such a thing.
Zhang Lan smiled, who didn't have some ideals when he was young. Many people's ideals, from childhood to later, are gradually declining step by step.
At this moment and then, some things that are worthy of wisdom are truth in the eyes of some people, and nonsense in the eyes of others.
After sending Liu Chao away, Zhang Lan moved a reclining chair and placed it under the shade on the edge of the courtyard wall.
The name of the Bodhisattva next to him spread, and there have been people who have come to offer incense outside Zhang Lan's house to rest and chat next to him.
Zhang Lan also just discovered that in the afternoon, it was very interesting to sit in the shade of the courtyard and listen to the gossip of people outside the courtyard.
For example, a voice outside the courtyard that was obviously an eldest lady said that the little girls now are amazing, and each one is more crazy than the other.
Another voice said that her granddaughter came home from the weekend vacation two days ago, and told her that there was a girl in their school who changed partners every week and went out to open a house.
This gossip neighbor's son is in his forties, and his wife led his son to run away with a rich man.
The one said that there was a commissary in the same village, and the daughter-in-law ran away with the rich man after giving birth.
One said that the children are all debts, that there is a family with a son and a daughter, the children are all single, the son earns more than 10,000 yuan a month outside, and the daughter often has to rely on her mother to help if she can't earn money. Her mother set up a stall to earn some pocket money, and let her daughter leave.
Her mother scolded her daughter every day for being a wolf, and when her daughter came to ask for money, it was a wolf. Her daughter has a partner who often changes, and her son will not be dealt with after a yellow.
The other said that there was a woman, her father died, she didn't go to work, she ate, drank and slept at home every day, and her mother worked to support her. When her mother was tired from cooking, and she was sick, and said that she was not feeling well, her daughter scolded her mother for almost getting it, saying what were you doing.
As he spoke, he lowered his voice and began to say that there was a woman in the same village who had been working in the field for many years, and after she came back, she divorced her husband and left all the children to her in-law's side. Then he was almost fifty years old and gave birth to another boy. As a result, because the person I found later was rich, the children born before all went to this woman.
Another voice said that everything is now looking at money, saying that there is an old man in her village who is over 60 years old, and his son-in-law is rich, so he has a large piece of land for the old man to plant and play. The old man took the opportunity to hire two women to work for him.
The old man has landed more than 100,000 yuan in a year, not counting the pocket money that his daughter and son-in-law stuff him from time to time. As a result, after a long time, the two women invited became the old man's second wife and third wife.
Later, after the third wife became pregnant, the old man bought a house in the city. The second wife couldn't get used to bullying the third wife, and told the old man that he would buy her a house, so the old man drove the second wife away, but he gave a sum of money to drive her away.
I heard that after his daughter gave birth to the child of the third wife, she went home and talked to the old man very much, but she couldn't control the old man, and his son-in-law didn't care about anything as long as the old man didn't make trouble for him. (End of chapter)