Chapter 234: You're just afraid that you're not perfect

Night, Yunnan Province, Lijiang, an ancient village.

The heavy rain outside the window was majestic, and as soon as Su Ye's fingers were loosened, the recorded rain sound came out, and he was sending it to Jiang Baizhi.

This time I came to Lijiang to continue the recording of the "Threesome" program, and Jiang Baizhi also started her own roadshow journey.

"You and Xiao Jiang are really sweet." Ma Xi smiled, but the movements of his hands did not stop, and the cork of the red wine had been taken out by him.

And how can there be less places with wine Xu Qingyuan, the three of them are preparing to listen to the rain, drink, and chat.

An unknown piece of music was playing in the room, accompanied by the sound of rain outside, and the aroma of red wine was pleasant.

"Actually, I have a puzzle about finding two senior brothers to drink tonight, and I hope the senior brothers can help me solve it."

"Oh? There are things you can't figure out. ”

"I'm just an ordinary man, and there are many things that can't be solved." A wry smile flashed on Su Ye's face, "A few days ago, I attended the wedding of two old friends with Bai Zhi, and Bai Zhi was a little moved. ”

"That's a good thing, but you're confused, because you don't want to get married?" Ma Xi hit the nail on the head.

Su Ye shook his head, "It's not that I don't want to get married, I love Bai Zhi very much, it's just just"

Su Ye couldn't think of a suitable word, it couldn't be said that he was afraid of marriage, he was still full of yearning for marriage.

"Senior brother, have you seen the movie "Trouble Family"?"

When Ma Xi heard this, he immediately smiled. Su Ye's question is actually very simple, high emotional intelligence said Have you watched "Trouble Family"? Low EQ is to fart in front of the other half without washing your feet and picking your nose, what should I do? Of course, the above is the behavior that appears in the movie, and by extension, it actually refers to what to do if you are not so perfect in front of your other half?

When we are in love, we all try to show each other the best of ourselves, because we want to attract each other. But in reality, everyone is not perfect and there are imperfections. We can't always disguise ourselves so perfectly, then again, if we wear a mask and disguise in front of our partner all the time, is this still love? Isn't love just that you will be very relaxed when you get along with this person?

Xu Qingyuan teased, "Senior brother, I think you just think too much, you and Xiao Jiang are so sweet, the two of them are as good as one person, and the problem you are worried about is not a problem at all." ”

"Don't listen to Lao Xu nonsense, he is a bachelor and has no right to speak."

"And what do you think?"

Ma Xi said very seriously, "Marriage is actually a run-in process, which naturally includes values, living habits, etc., and there are not a few people who can't run in and collapse directly." But the junior brother doesn't have to think too much, whether the marriage can last for a long time, simply put, whether the good can be greater than the bad, as long as you have been at the top of the balance in the other party's heart, then it doesn't matter if there are shortcomings, or you have something that the other party needs most, it can be care, it can be emotional value, it can be material, as long as these things exist, it will grow old. ”

Xu Qingyuan shook his head frantically on the side, "Although what you said makes sense, what you said is too realistic and naked, as if it is an investment business." The junior brother's worries are very simple, but he is worried that his evaluation in Xiao Jiang's heart will become low. ”

Although Su Ye did not speak, he agreed with Xu Qingyuan's words. His worries may seem to some, but he just worries. For example, although he cleans the house, he actually saves up his socks for a long time to wash them when he is lazy. Getting married means a more intimate relationship, but he will also be shy if Jiang Baizhi does not shy away from coming in when he is in the bathroom. In fact, he has a little sweaty feet, which will stink a little; In fact, he is also a little indifferent, and he is unwilling to pay any more attention to the people and things he cares about; In fact, he will also get angry, and he will also have times when he swears.

That's right, Su Ye never worried about the quarrels and disagreements that he and Jiang Baizhi might encounter in their future marriage, because he felt that the two of them would not have them, and even if they were, they would be resolved quickly. What he's worried about is these seemingly trivial, trivial things, maybe his perfectionism? Or maybe it's a common problem for people with delicate minds?

"Senior brother, if you want me to say that your worries are not a problem. The most unfair thing in the world is love, because everything about loving you is different. If I love you, you are fat not ugly, but cute; Running on the street without an umbrella on a rainy day is not a neurosis, it is free and uninhibited; Walking under the street lamp at night and feeding mosquitoes is not an idle egg pain, but a romance; Your sleepy eyes and messy hair like chicken feathers are not unkempt, but reckless; If you take her to a roadside stall, she won't feel shabby, she will only think that this is the best meal in the world; You said that you want to give her the best life in the future, she will not think that you are a pie, but will fantasize about a better life in the future with you There is no doubt that Xiao Jiang loves you very much, and everything about you will be different in her eyes. ”

How to say it, Xu Qingyuan was right, but he didn't convince Su Ye, or Su Ye himself understood this truth, but he was a little hesitant to put it on himself.

Ma Xi, who was on the side, poured the awakened red wine into the three-person cup without hurry, and he said with a smile, "If you want me to say, the junior brother's worry is indeed not a matter, but it is also a small hurdle, we can't say anything, we have to rely on him to think it through." ”

"Do you still have to say that?" Xu Qingyuan didn't have a good breath and said, "I'm a single dog and have no right to speak, what about you, did you have this worry when you got married, and how did you overcome it?" ”

When this sentence came out, Su Ye couldn't help but look at Ma Xi, he really wanted an answer.

"I didn't think about it so much at the beginning, I was very poor at the time, there was a girl I liked, she also liked me, and she didn't dislike me for being poor, it was the right thing to marry home quickly, but if I got married slowly, I was stupid."

"Vulgar!" Xu Qingyuan didn't know whether he was really spurned or envious.

Ma Xi didn't care, shook his head and said, "Senior brother, you just read too much, it's too idealistic." How many people have a girlfriend like Xiao Jiang, and Xiao Jiang is also willing, so he can't marry his wife and children right away? ”

"Lao Ma is right, Xiao Jiang is so good, I don't know how many people like it, you hurry up and marry her back. You will be hypocritical here, in case Xiao Jiang is really snatched away, there will be your kid crying. ”

Su Ye drank all the red wine in the cup, the reason why he thought so much was probably the current scene, for him, it was quite like being drunk and not knowing that the sky was in the water, and the boat full of stars was full of dreams and the galaxy. Jiang Baizhi is really special in his life, and he has too many feelings and memories for him, but she is really with him, which is really like a dream.

His worries are probably still a little afraid of losing, although Jiang Baizhi is so real and loves him so much.

This is the sequelae of the years, Mao Buyi shared that he was accused by his relatives for loving carob when he was a child, which led to his love of salted egg yolk and only salty egg white, and even when he became famous, he couldn't express his favorite food so boldly.

Although Su Ye is very confident, he always seems to lack a little bit in Jiang Baizhi

(End of chapter)