"What's wrong?" Qingyun smiled, got up and simply locked the office, took out a bottle of wine from the cabinet, took two wine glasses, and beckoned Qin Xiangyu to sit down in front of the coffee table.

Qin Xiangyu was a little dizzy when he saw this formation, "No, brother-in-law, you drank early in the morning?" ”

"Can't you still drink flower wine?" Qingyun didn't stop moving, and poured two glasses directly.

As a rich second generation, Qin Xiangyu is not a too honest child, but he is not lightly treated by drinking in the morning.

After all, he is twenty-eight years old, and no matter how stingy he is, he actually knows that this brother-in-law wants him to calm down and facilitate conversation.

"It's not impossible to drink flower wine, as long as you're not afraid of my sister's leg being broken." Pinching the wine glass, Qin Xiangyu said playfully, wanting to see how this brother-in-law, who is good at manipulating people's hearts, manipulates him.

Qingyun touched the cup with him, raised his head and drank it all, and then shivered all over, very comfortable.

The soreness of the muscles after exercising in the morning suddenly dissipated a lot.

He swore that he would never play any Train bento with Qin Manman in the future, that big-sized woman didn't count her weight, and when she saw him playing with Tang Qianying, she had to make a fuss about treating her fairly.

Can this be treated fairly?

It's competitive!

Qin Xiangyu looked at the cups of the two taels, and suddenly had a little stomachache, but in the playful eyes of his brother-in-law, he gritted his teeth and dried up.

I haven't drunk it like this.

Qingyun didn't know where to find a bag of peanuts, poured it on the table, and after eating two of them, he opened his mouth leisurely, "The fault is at the source." ”

Qin Xiangyu smiled helplessly, "Really? You also think that I shouldn't have met Shen Fu. ”

Qingyun shook his head, "I'll talk about my point of view first, it may subvert your view of marriage and love, don't interrupt, after listening, you can compare it yourself." ”

Qin Xiangyu nodded and motioned for him to continue.

"In fact, the views of rich people and ordinary people on mate selection are different."

Seeing that Qin Xiangyu wanted to refute him, Qingyun glanced at him and poured another glass of wine, "I know what you want to say." What's the difference? In fact, it is fundamentally different.

Most of the lives of ordinary people are very hard, so marriage has become one of the few happy and happy things in their cognition.

So the purpose of their finding a wife is to enjoy happiness together. ”

Speaking of this, Qingyun glanced at Qin Xiangyu, "Please note that the key word here is: happiness."

So you will find an interesting phenomenon, everyone gets married for happiness, divorce is also for happiness, single or for happiness.

For them, in a word, if they are not happy, they just can't do it. ”

Qin Xiangyu, who was originally listening, frowned unconsciously and began to think.

For happiness...... Isn't it?

Qingyun ignored him, rubbed the peanut red coat in his hand, and continued, "And the rich man, what he needs, pay attention, I am talking about 'need', not the person who shares his happiness, but the person who can share the pain, understand his difficulty, and preferably help him solve his problems." ”

Speaking of this, he smiled playfully, "Because, a man is not necessarily happy when he is rich, but as long as he is rich, someone will definitely try to make him happy." I think...... This truth, Brother Xiangyu, you must be able to understand. ”

Qin Xiangyu was silent for a while and sighed, "This kind of happiness, I understood it in junior high school." ”

After that, he stared at Qingyun, "So, Shen Fu, in my eyes, is unique, she is the happiness I actively pursue, I have chased her for six years, from the first year of high school to the third year." ”

Qingyun nodded in understanding.

The joy of licking a dog.

"Therefore, what rich people lack is not happiness, and there is no need to get married for the sake of happiness and happiness."

Qin Xiangyu just wanted to refute, but immediately understood that Qingyun was talking about a group, not his case.

"What they need is actually these three things: compensation for scarcity, blessing of resources, and greater achievement."

Qin Xiangyu was interested when he heard this, and he also wanted to know what was the difference between himself and his original class.

He always felt that he was a little out of place with the rich second generation around him.

Qingyun actually understands this problem very well.

The essential reason is that the Qin family's tutor ...... It's just wonderful.

makes a rich second generation alive, and has no thoughts that belong to his class at all.

This kind of tutoring is beneficial, and it is really not easy to produce a loser, that is to say, from the perspective of the family plan, it is benign.

But at the micro level, there are also drawbacks, if the offspring are not so talented, it is easy to fall into the contradiction of worldview conflict.

Qingyun raised three fingers, "These three things also divide men into three levels, and I'll talk about them one by one."

Let's change the angle today, look at a man from a woman's point of view, how to get a rich man.

The junior wealthy often seek compensation for their scarcity.

These are usually the first generation, and it is no exaggeration to say that the successful generation is definitely the most difficult of all men.

Let me start by saying, except for your father, my father-in-law, and their brothers, because their marriages were all before they made a fortune. ”

Qin Xiangyu nodded approvingly, "My dad's marriage was so simple at that time, now ...... People's hearts are not ancient! ”

Qingyun smiled and rolled her eyes in her heart.

You're a special rich second generation, tell me this?

How innocent it is, it turns out that it's not that you can't control the trouble caused by your trouser belt!

He pursed his lips and continued, "But if the founding generation that can break out is self-made, helpless, soldiers will block, and water will cover it, then this person's mental journey must be extremely complicated and tortuous.

No matter how sleek and sophisticated he looks on the surface, there must be paranoia or flaws in his heart, and if he doesn't do it well, he will be a little gloomy.

Moreover, because he has experienced countless collapses and reconstructions: first to be a grandson and then a grandfather, and to be a grandson after becoming a grandfather...... This cycle of ravages will form a strong protective mechanism deep in his heart.

So every time you collapse and rebuild, you will put a protective shell on your heart.

Their hearts are not wrapped in a protective shell, but wrapped in layers of protective shells.

Therefore, you can't pierce his heart with a needle, on the contrary, everyone has a clear price in his heart.

Some women often show off how expensive the bag and how nice the car the man bought him, as if this can prove how much the man loves her.

On the contrary, if he buys you a bag for 10,000 yuan, it means that you are worth 10,000 yuan in his heart.

At this time, if you ask him how much he wants, he will be disgusted and think that this woman is so low.

For a woman, her appearance is still worth 10,000, but this woman's emotional intelligence is very high, and she is very good at getting things done, and the amount given may be 100,000, because this woman has gone one more layer to the depths of his heart.

At this point, the generation will be stratified.

Some will fall into lack of compensation, what does that mean? ”

(End of chapter)