Chapter Eighty-Seven: Parents
Shen Qing couldn't tell who the poor person was for a while, he shook his head a little helplessly, and then sighed again.
He Annian looked at the other party shaking his head and sighing with some amusement, and couldn't hold back a low laugh, "Baby, it's really not, don't worry so much." ”
Shen Qing pursed his lips a little angrily, "You don't have to worry about what you said is good, but think about it yourself, your family is so complicated, you will definitely want you to inherit the family property when the time comes, so what should He Guangji do?" ”
He Annian understood the subtext of Shen Qing's words almost instantly, "What if you inherit the family property, my good sister!" ”
"Even if I inherit the family property, He Guangji is not poor, the He family has only a few children, why do you think the population of our family is much smaller than that of other families."
Shen Qing thought about it too, so he asked stupidly, "Then why do you have so many children in your family?" ”
He Annian pulled off his tie directly, and leaned lazily and casually to the side and spoke, "If you want to tell the story here, there are complicated and uncomplicated. ”
"What's not responsible?"
"It's not complicated!" He Annian's eyes were full of smiles, and the whole person looked at Shen Qing quietly.
Shen Qing was a little embarrassed by the other party, and twisted He Annian's waist with his hand, "Oops! Don't sell it, what the hell is it! ”
He Annian raised his hand in surrender, "It's not complicated, it's actually very simple, that is, there was infighting in the family before, and those people died." ”
"What's complicated is that our family looks simple, at that time the population was dead, my grandfather was thousands of troops across the single-plank bridge to obtain the right to inherit, and then he worked hard to engage in a career, and also had illegitimate children, but those illegitimate children and my dad are very different in age, and my dad has become the heir when they grow up."
"Didn't I tell you? My grandfather, when I was young, I didn't want to give power to my father, he wanted to finally pass the company to me in the name of cultivating his grandson, at that time my father was already in charge of the company's affairs, how could he be willing to let his son press himself? ”
Shen Qing didn't understand what the other party's psychology was for a while, "No, this can retire and enjoy happiness, why do you have to hang yourself on a tree, what do you say they are working hard for, and they don't have any secret recipe for immortality." ”
When He Annian heard this, he felt that the words were not rough, "I remember that when I was seeing a psychiatrist abroad, my psychiatrist once told me that when you have been psychologically traumatized in your family in childhood, no matter how rational or what kind of person you are, in the end, you will repeat the injuries you suffered back then." ”
"There is indeed no infighting in our family, but it doesn't mean that our family is very peaceful, my grandfather and my father single-handedly made the family ruined, why do you think He Guangji's parents had an accident, they could have lived a good life in the country at that time, but the old man didn't agree!"
"My dad is jealous of them, the old man prefers them, and even I am a little envious of He Guangji, do you think this family will not be separated in the long run?"
Shen Qing asked with some gossip when he heard this, "Then there seems to be a rift in the relationship between your mother and her current husband, as if it was last time." ”
He Annian couldn't help laughing when he heard this, you see my mother is thin and small, in fact, she has always been a domineering person in her bones, and no man can stand the things he does.
He went to S City to quarrel with me at the time, her husband is actually quite capable and earns a lot of wages, you say that he did this for the sake of the child in the womb, but she didn't consider her husband's mood at all.
even feel that they are doing the right thing, we can infer from this one thing alone, there must be a lot of similar things happening, then they must also use this method to solve it, after all, if two people quarrel, one person must back down first, and let the same person back down all the time It seems that it is for the life of the husband and wife, but in fact, it ......
Shen Qing still remembered that his mother once said to him, "You must be ready to marry He Annian, the relationship between his parents is not harmonious, although you have no conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but you will also have a special headache when something really happens." ”
After Shen Qing said these words unconsciously, He Annian said with some envy, "Actually, your parents are really good people, although they are very mediocre people, they think about you everywhere. ”
When Shen Qing heard this, he said the words that he had been suppressing for a long time in his heart, "Yes, my parents are very good to me, and this is the main reason why I have never given up on them." ”
"Actually, I am a very family-loving person, but sometimes I feel that I am very despicable, even though my parents are so good to you, I feel that his love is like a shackle, which makes people feel suffocated."
"I have thought about this question countless times, and then I felt that in fact, my parents were really good to me, but sometimes their love was very suffocating, and they would even do something unacceptable to you under the banner of being good for you."
He Annian couldn't help laughing when he heard this, "This is a normal thing, I don't know if you remember the first time I met you at that time, the two of us seemed to quarrel over one thing." ”
Shen Qing actually couldn't remember what the two of them quarreled about at that time, but He Annian remembered it clearly, "I actually didn't give up on my mother at that time, I felt that even if my father didn't love me, at least my mother would still love me." ”
"It was Mother's Day, and I asked you what gifts you had prepared for your mother, and you told me that I hadn't prepared anything, and at that time I thought, you should be a very selfish and realistic person."
The two of us had a violent quarrel, and I said at the time, "Your parents raised you so big, you don't even think about your parents on Mother's Day, what do you think of you now, but you don't spend your parents' money on eating, drinking, and Lazar, even if you don't care on a day like Mother's Day, then your parents' birthday, have you prepared gifts!" ”
Shen Qing seemed to remember something in a trance when he heard this, he couldn't help laughing, "Actually, that year, our dormitory was going to travel together, and at that time, the train ticket hotel, and even the strategy had been prepared, at that time, I told my mother that I wouldn't go back during the Mid-Autumn Festival, I wanted to go out for a trip." ”
"In fact, at that time, he only gave me living expenses a month, and the living expenses of college life were actually 1,000 yuan, which was really nothing. Duty. ”
At that time, I was with a classmate in our class and a male classmate in another class, and the three of us went to the cinema to work part-time, and the cinema had night shifts at that time, and then the cinema also provided staff dormitories.
I still remember working overtime for several months in a row, when there was a girl in our dormitory, and his parents heard that he was going to hang out with his friends in the dormitory, and his parents transferred him 3,000 yuan without saying a word.
At that time, I was a little embarrassed, because when I told my parents that I was going to go out, it was really nothing at first, and my parents agreed, but I never thought that it would be the night before the holiday, which was the second. The day we were going to leave by train, my parents called me out of the blue.
At that time, I was really a little messy, because we had something at home in the dormitory that needed to go home, and we watched the school's art show during the Mid-Autumn Festival, and went out to eat hot pot together.
When I got back to the dormitory, you know, my phone was full of missed calls, my parents, my grandparents, my grandparents, and my grandparents, basically all the relatives in our family who could mobilize called me.
I felt a little devastated, so I called my parents, and they started scolding me for everything, and finally told me, "It's not safe for you girls to stay in a hotel, you have to go home for me."
Really, I never felt so depressed at that time, and I never felt that the world was so fucked up.
I had a big fight with them, and they pointed at my nose and scolded, saying, "We provide you with food, you drink, and you grow up, and that's how you repay us?" ”
Shen Qing still felt a little heavy when he said these words, the damage that people have experienced in this life cannot be erased, so he became a little low at this moment, "After the conflict between us, I was forced to return home. ”
When I got home, I found that my parents were just going to let me go back to my hometown for my grandparents to see, and although I lived in a big city, I didn't do anything deviant.
Even if nothing happened to our family, the main reason they called me back was that they were afraid that I would ask them for money, that I would go out and spend a lot of money and then they would think that I was a girl who was unnecessary.
Later, they began to say that it was not easy for my daughter to go to school, and I didn't know how much it cost me to study art.
Anyway, these words were really disgusting, and I quarreled with them, and they said that I was working part-time, and at that time I dyed my hair, which is what the old people often call blonde hair, which my grandmother called yellow hair.
He pointed to my hair and said, "The way you look now, it's like a "sell. Maybe they were also unintentional, or they accidentally said this kind of thing because he would be angry, and I was really sad at that time, so after I returned to school during the Mid-Autumn Festival, I rarely talked to them and didn't have much contact.
All of a sudden, there was a kind of impasse between us, I was unwilling to compromise and my parents were too lazy to take care of me, but they were waiting for me to reach out to them every month to ask for living expenses, and when I asked for living expenses, they would proudly say, "You rely on your parents for food and drink, and your parents haven't gone out to play yet?" Why are you going out to play. ”
"Then there was a time when I inadvertently revealed that I was working part-time, and then they looked through my mobile phone records in order to find out whether I was serious about studying, and then they found out that I used to work night shifts when I was in college, so they talked about it and then summed it up, you are too dangerous for a girl to be outside, you know what people are in those staff dormitories, in case they don't have you ......"
He Annian couldn't hold back his frowns when he heard this, "Your parents ......"
Shen Qing shook his head, "Every time we talk about our parents, it's a heavy topic, and I'm extremely reluctant to mention these uncomfortable things, but I can only tell you that He Annian, many times we are hurt because of our family, and we will eventually backfire on ourselves." ”