Extra: Thank you for those things in the good family
Since Xie Hao's family met his father-in-law, Master Wei, on that day, the whole person fell into infinite self-blame......
Although he got married, he didn't start a business, not to mention, and even the housework was a mess......
He knew in his heart that whether he could go out or not, it was necessary to rectify the affairs of the inner house......
But although he knew that Pan Xiaoniang was wrong, after all, because of the so-called "love", he was really ruthless, until the night before he was released from prison, he dreamed of his friend Master Huide many years ago...... He finally made up his mind......
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(I'm super cute memory line)
Although Yanxian County is economically backward and the traffic is blocked, it is better because of the simple folk customs and beautiful scenery, and it is a favorite place for literati and scholars.
Therefore, Xie Haojia, who was transferred to Yanxian County in the year of establishment, did not have any disappointment similar to the year of establishment but had not yet achieved fame, but set off first, and arrived in Yanxian County three months before taking office, and leisurely rented a house at the foot of the mountain of Chan'en Temple in Yanxian County before his wife and children moved their families.
The house was nothing more than a secluded little courtyard with few neighbors in and out, and even those officials and colleagues seldom came to visit, just because they wanted to come here, and there was even only an overgrown path that led to this barren little garden.
However, this is exactly in line with Xie Haojia's heart, he thinks that he is a person who has great ambitions and is eager to enter the office, but he is also a person who is eager to indulge in the contradictions between the mountains and rivers.
Therefore, although his career was not as smooth sailing as his father and brother, he did not complain, and his wandering abroad can be regarded as his complex ambivalence.
Just like at this moment, under the bright moonlight, the birds are perched freely on the trees by the pool, and he accompanies a monk who returns late, walking together in this hazy moonlight, the scenery is charming, and the clouds and mist are layered, making people feel that the clouds are fluttering, and the mountains and rocks seem to be moving in the mountains.
"Amitabha, thank you so much today, the poor monk went to the house of the money clerk today for his father, never thought that on the way back, he encountered heavy rain, delayed time, and was stopped by the rain at the bottom of the mountain, fortunately thank you for taking in, now, the rain has stopped, and I am tired of Xie Shizhu You accompany me up the mountain."
"Little Master, these are just trivial things, after all, who would have thought that the sky would be clear during the day, but it would suddenly rain heavily, not to mention, I want to go up to the mountain tomorrow and ask for a few good signs for my relatives at home, tonight, I sent you back to the mountain, you probably want to stay with me for the night, I can't ask for it." Xie Haojia carried a lantern made of fireflies and said to the monk with a smile.
"Amitabha, this is nature, the night is dewy, thank the donor for sending the poor monk back to the temple, the poor monk is grateful, please donor you stay overnight, it is the honor of the poor monk."
At this point, the two suddenly didn't know what to say in the mountains, so they continued to set off on the mountain in silence together. It wasn't until a mountain breeze blew that Xie Haojia spoke:
"The mountain wind is too cold this night, if Master Huide comes back late in the future, you can stay directly on my side, although the house on my side is smaller, but it should be possible to stay with you, little master."
"Amitabha, thank you for your kindness, there are regulations in the temple, if you can rush back to the temple, you must rush back, don't disturb the masses, besides, thank you, although you live alone now, but don't you tell me that your wife and others have already accelerated their pace, and soon, they will come to Yanxian County and reunite as a family."
"Come to think of it, when the time comes, the donor will have to move to the official residence, even if you still live under the mountain, there should be a lot of inconvenience." Huide said.
“…… Thanks to the little master, for his thoughtfulness, it is true that after my wife and children are here, I should not be able to live here. Xie Haojia paused. So to speak.
Huide glanced at Xie Haojia, whose smile became a little reluctant, and recited a few words of "good" and "good" in a row, and then asked Xie Haojia and said:
"Family reunion, family happiness, this is the happiest thing, why, thank you, but you can't smile, as if there is suffering......"
"Little Master can see it really clearly...... Oh, yes...... It's a good thing for a family reunion, come to me...... But it's ......" Xie Haojia said this, and began to sigh for a long time.
"Amitabha, although the poor monk is a monk and does not move the word, but if you are willing to thank the donor, you can also talk to the poor monk, and the poor monk may be able to say something to the donor."
"I have a wife and a concubine in my family, my wife is from a famous family, my father and mother have come to the door to ask for my marriage, although she has a hot temperament, but her mind is simple, for me, for my parents, and all the brothers and sisters in the family, are really good, but also for me to have children, I am the worst to bear her ...... Although, in my heart, I don't have any affection for her......
But a few years ago, I took a concubine, and my concubine was originally from a famous family, but it was ill-fated and miserable, and I fell in love with her at first sight...... She is docile and delicate, and she does not hesitate to make a concubine for me......
But these two people ...... It's as if it's not going to deal with it by nature...... As soon as they met, they were full of gunpowder, and they had only been together for two years, but they turned the family upside down, and my wife had a hot temper and often punished me as a concubine...... But it's my fault, and I can't say anything...... had to buy property for the concubine in private, and left her children by her side as compensation......
Some time ago, my wife found out...... It's even more peaceful...... Even the children suffered with them...... So...... I had to entrust my children to my sister's family, who worked in the same place...... I left my wife and concubine behind...... Alone...... I ran to Yanxian County first......"
"Soon, they will all come...... But I don't know what to do...... I can't blame my wife, but if I don't...... I was speechless about the concubine room......"
Xie Haojia spoke hesitantly, and he also covered up many things by himself, but Huide was a bystander, even if Xie Haojia only said this, he also understood the deep meaning, so Huide shook his head and said, "Thank you...... The poor monk thinks that you are really wrong...... If it weren't for the donor's fault, you were at fault that day...... Today...... You don't have to worry about yourself......"
"Why did the little master say this?"
"According to what you say, your wife is noble, and she should be the pearl of the family, so she will develop a straightforward character, and such a girl, the person who wants to marry will definitely rush to her, and you can marry such a wife by borrowing the face of your father and mother.
You have married such a wife, although she does not love, but she has always done all the duties of a wife, even so, even if you meet the person who really makes you emotional, that is, the concubine who is ill-fated in your mouth, but who is kind to you, you should always treat your wife with courtesy. ”
"Just ask, which wife knows that her husband will have no temper if she accepts a concubine, and it is just human nature to embarrass the concubine room at first...... But your wife is a beautiful lady, and there will be a degree in everything, so ...... I think......
If at this time, the donor coaxes you to respect this wife, then this matter will be lightly exposed......
However, since the donor is in this situation in your family, it must be because you were worried that your concubine had been wronged, and you favored this concubine many times, and slapped your wife in the face, so you can make your wife angry three times and twice......"
When Huide said this, sure enough, Xie Haojia really lowered his head with a weak heart, and said very embarrassedly:
"Master is amazing...... But so...... At the beginning, I only saw the difficulty of the concubine room...... I forgot about my wife's feelings, and when I realized the problem, it was too late......"
"It's not too late to make amends, since you know your mistakes, why don't you correct them, and make mistakes again and again......"
"You said that every time you were angry with the concubine, you bought her property and brought it to you, but, in the end, it was just a concubine, since the concubine decided to be a concubine, she should remember her duty, respect the master's mother, respect Langjun, instead of telling you about the master's mother's wrongs, so that you feel pity, so indulge her, and give how many decent wives have decent ......"
"Speaking of raising children, I Dayong has a routine, as long as it is not because the main mother is not in good health, or the main mother herself has too many children under her knees and cannot take care of them, then all the children in the house should be handed over to the main mother to raise it.
But because of the crying of the concubine, you made your own decisions and raised your children by the concubine's side...... This is tantamount to telling everyone that your wife is of bad character and has a small belly, and your concubine is gentle and virtuous, generous and humble, so you have to ignore the rules and put the children born of the concubine next to their biological mother to raise them......"
"You're ruining all your wife's face, and the relationship between you, and you're going to say a little more...... The children raised by the concubine, the man is fine, and in the future, he will still be able to enter the imperial examination by himself, but the daughter raised by the concubine is ...... And how many good people are willing to come and see each other...... You are also irresponsible to your children......"
"Speaking of which, it's nothing more than Xie Shi's own thoughts, and if you don't stand upright, you will fall into today's situation......"
Xie Haojia didn't think that a monk would be so proficient in the affairs of the inner house, and his face was blue and white for a while......
"Master...... I knew I was wrong...... So what should I do now...... to be able to make the house peaceful......"
"To love someone, you don't necessarily have to tie her to your side, sometimes, let go...... It's also a choice......"
"But obviously, Master Xie, you are ruthless and let the concubine leave...... Case...... Then let your concubine be her concubine well, let your wife be your wife well, everything that is wrong and wrong, change it back, and let everyone and all responsibilities be in their place, as long as this is the case...... Of course, I can thank the donor for a quiet ...... your house," Huide bluntly pointed out the only way to solve these things completely in a real sense.
Obviously, at this time, Xie Haojia, although he understood all the truths in his heart, he still couldn't be ruthless......
Huide saw Xie Haojia's thoughts at a glance, and he had to recite the sentence "Amitabha" in his mouth, and then said:
"Time is also fate...... Thank you, Lord Shi, now I still want to influence the two of you in the family more, since I can't make up my mind now, I just want to ...... Everything should be arranged in the dark...... There is no escaping all calamities...... Want...... The donor should only come to that day...... to be able to really make up your mind......"
After speaking, Huide didn't want to listen to Xie Haojia's quibbles, so he was alone, touched the dark, and continued to walk up the mountain, and Xie Haojia swallowed the words he was about to say back into his stomach, carried the lantern, and went to chase Huide......
Until Huide took Xie Haojia, in the middle of the night, knocked on the Zen door, and the little monks in the temple opened the temple door...... Thank you...... I finally woke up from my sleep......
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(I'm the dividing line at the end of super cute memories)
"Lord Xie, great joy! Great joy! As soon as Xie Haojia woke up from his sleep, several jailers who had been squatting for a long time immediately opened the prison door, happily approached Xie Haojia and began to say hello.
Xie Haojia didn't know where the joy came from, so he heard the jailers say again:
"The real murderer of the Nanban royal family has already confessed his guilt, and he committed suicide in fear of the crime, think about it, soon, Lord Xie, you can go out!"
"Congratulations! Thank you, sir! After you go out, don't hold a grudge against our brothers, brothers' attitude...... It's also a rule......"
"Naturally, what a few jailers did was reasonable, and I can understand it, so why do you hold a grudge." Xie Haojia was not prepared to care, when he first entered prison, these people sneered at him and said generously.
"Oops! Master Xie is sensible! Since you're going out, it's always hard to go out in these dirty clothes, brothers, I've already asked people to take away the robe you often wear and wash it, and there is a good meal, Lord Xie, you are waiting for it! The jailers received Xie Haojia's reply, and they also smiled, and immediately said so.
After saying that, he immediately ran out, to bring in those good wines and dishes, leaving Xie Haojia with complicated feelings......
Perhaps it was this dream that finally prompted Xie Haojia to make a decision......
Xie Haojia suddenly said to himself at the moment when the jailers brought the food in:
"Got it, got it...... Back to where you are, back to where you are......"
(End of chapter)