Chapter 190: Sublimation

Wang Wei returned to his position, and after thinking about it, he decided to sue Meng Wen, but he was afraid of disturbing Meng Wen, so he sent a text message to Meng Wen to inform Meng Wen that he had finished reviewing his work, and at the same time, he also told Meng Wen the news that Meng Wen's new song was recommended first on the homepage.

After Wang Wei finished this qiē, he relaxed. Seeing Hong Yuan coming up again, Wang Wei looked at Hong Yuan's ghostly appearance, he was really angry and funny, and asked with a straight face: "What are you doing here, the work is done?"

Hong Yuan said with a smile: "Not yet, then I heard Brother Qiang say that the manager wants to treat him at night." On behalf of everyone, I came to ask if it was true, and we can make arrangements. ”

"What else do you have to arrange, don't go if you don't have time. Wang Wei knew Hong Yuan's personality and said angrily to Hong Yuan. Wang Wei found out, he can't be polite to Hong Yuan, the more polite you are, the more energetic he becomes.

"Look at what you said, manager, you finally invited a second guest, and you have to push everything important, so you can't help but give the manager face. Hong Yuan said.

"You mouth, hurry up and go yourself. If you can't finish the task, you can't go. Wang Wei still wanted to teach Hong Yuan a few more words, but he didn't say it yet. Hong Yuan was a little excited and said first: "Guarantee to complete the task." With that, he ran back to his place.

Wang Wei looked at Hong Yuan's back, he really couldn't do anything about him, how could he recruit such a living treasure back at that time.

Wang Wei was alone there, but Meng Wen was driving to the Conservatory of Music, so he didn't see Wang Wei's text message. Ouyang Die, who had changed her clothes, sat in the car, but Xun Hanlei and Wang Ting did not follow.

Meng Wen drove the car intently and didn't speak. Ouyang Die also sat quietly in the car, looking up at the front all the time, looking contemplative.

In fact, Meng Wen's heart is not as focused as it seems, all kinds of ideas burst out in Meng Wen's mind, about Xun Hanlei, about Ouyang Die, about Wang Ting, and occasionally Li Xiangxiang's figure will burst out, including his new novel "Peerless Double Pride", the new song "Little Cabbage", etc...... , Meng Wen didn't know what he was thinking, the only thing that was certain was that Meng Wen's heart was contradictory.

This contradiction comes from the emotional impulse in the face of Ouyang Die and the guilt in the face of Xun Hanlei, Meng Wen doesn't know how people can be so contradictory, in his heart, he has obviously regarded Xun Hanlei as his lifelong partner, so the idea is that when facing Ouyang Die, it has not changed.

It's just that when facing Ouyang Die alone, the brain automatically doesn't think about this, and the mind is full of thoughts about Ouyang Die, and he also hopes that Ouyang Die can be by his side. Meng Wen didn't know if he was selfish or amorous?

Just when Meng Wen was thinking wildly, Ouyang Die suddenly turned his head and asked Meng Wen: "Meng Wen, what is your ideal?"

"Be a famous writer!" Meng Wen said without hesitation. As soon as the words came out, Meng Wen didn't know whose ideal this belonged to, was it his own, or was it the body he inherited?

Meng Wen suddenly remembered his past life, did he have a dream? Maybe he had it when he was a child, Meng Wen sighed in his heart, when he was a child, he dreamed of becoming a person to be remembered by the world like his ancestor Mencius, and this memory will not disappear with time, but will remain forever in the long river of time.

But as time slowly increases, the dream is fading little by little. When I was in junior high school, I also fantasized that if one day I could be famous all over the world, even if it was only my own life, it might be enough; by the time I reached high school, Meng Wen could already face his dreams rationally, could he really become famous? What did he rely on? I thought about it for three years, but I didn't find the answer.

When I went to college, my dream had been annihilated in the quilt of the dormitory, and Meng Wen thought that if I could do what I liked without worrying all the time and read my favorite novels, it might be enough.

"But haven't you become a writer now, don't you have any other dreams?" asked Ouyang Die.

A word wakes up the dreamer. Yes, now that I have realized my dream, what is my next dream? Meng Wen thought for a while and said, "Be free!"

"It's not easy for you to achieve your dreams. Ouyang Die didn't expect Meng Wen to say such a thing, so he was stunned for a moment before he said.

"Then Mr. Ouyang, what is your dream?" Meng Wen asked casually.

"My dream," Ouyang Die paused and said, "My biggest dream now is to realize the third requirement of Maslow's hierarchy theory. ”

After listening to Ouyang Die's words, Meng Wen was a little speechless, saying that an ideal can still be related to Maslow's body. is worthy of being a teacher, but fortunately, I have heard of it before, although I don't know the specific theory, but at least I know that Maslow's hierarchy theory has a total of 5 layers, as for the specific five layers Meng Wen does not know. But that's enough to deal with on your own. "Teacher Ouyang, your ideal is too simple. Maslow has five tiers of needs, and you can satisfy them with just the third. ”

"You also understand Maslow's hierarchy theory?" Ouyang Die asked with some surprise.

"Hey, what's that look on your face? You're underestimating me. It's not pediatric for me yet. Meng Wen said unconvinced.

"Okay, since you know. Then tell me what Maslow's five-layer needs are?" Ouyang Die said with a smile, Ouyang Die could be sure that Meng Wen had absolutely no in-depth understanding of Maslow's theory, perhaps only understood this term. Otherwise, Meng Wen would definitely not have the current expression.

Meng Wen watched Ouyang Die suddenly become more serious, and secretly blamed himself for being cheap, he had nothing to brag about. Meng Wen quickly recalled what he had seen before, but he really couldn't remember it. I guess I saw it before the previous owner of my body, otherwise I would never forget it so clean if I saw it.

Meng Wen looked at Ouyang Die and looked at him with a smile, wanting to say that he was bragging just now, but he was embarrassed to say it. I can only follow my own residual impression, plus my own understanding, and say: "That, Maslow's hierarchy theory, the first layer is safety, and the second layer is physiology? ”

"At this level, you still dare to boast about pediatrics?" Ouyang Die laughed.

"Well, I'll admit I'm shallow. My teacher Ouyang, please teach the students. Meng Wen said.

"Listen, Maslow's hierarchy theory, the first level is physiological needs, that is, to ensure that you can live first. The second level is the need for safety, to ensure that you are not harmed, including physical, mental, and property. The third layer is ......" Ouyang Die said but stopped here, as if he didn't know what to say.

"What is the third layer?" When Meng Wen heard Ouyang Die say what he wanted to achieve, it was also the part that Meng Wen wanted to know the most, but he was stuck, and couldn't help but urge.

Ouyang Die ignored Meng Wen, and no longer turned his head to look at Meng Wen, but raised his head to look ahead, and said: "The third layer is the need for emotion and belonging, the fourth layer is the need for respect, including internal respect, that is, self-respect, self-esteem and external respect, that is, the recognition of others, and the fifth layer is the need for self-realization, through one's own efforts, to realize one's expectations for life." ”

Although Ouyang Die only passed by the third layer, he didn't explain it. But Meng Wen can also roughly understand that to put it bluntly, Ouyang Die's needs can also be said to be dreams, which should be related to himself. Emotion and belonging?Meng Wen smiled a little self-deprecatingly, can he be satisfied?

Meng Wen was a little silent, and after a long time, Meng Wen seemed to have made up a lot of determination, and said firmly: "You will definitely achieve it, I promise." ”

"En" Ouyang Die responded lightly.

After Meng Wen said this, he suddenly felt a lot more relaxed in his heart. The thought was also channeled, as if it had been sublimated. What are you struggling with here? Since she can meet Ouyang Die's needs for her, why do you still resist, why do you still have to contradict it?

In this life, maybe sometimes you don't need to think too far, who can predict the future, even if one day for some reasons, Xun Hanlei left herself, Ouyang Die left herself, Wang Ting left herself, but at least she had, loved, and beautiful, maybe when she dies one day, she can still cherish the last look in this world and die without regrets. Because I still miss myself, because I enjoy life, I have no regrets in my life, even if I die silently......

When Meng Wen thought of this, his mood instantly became happy. Without the shackles of spirit, Meng Wen can also treat Ouyang Die with a normal mentality, a favorite mentality!

"Ouyang, then what level do you say my ideal just now belongs to?" Meng Wen omitted the word teacher. Meng Wen originally planned to only call Ouyang Die's name, but just one butterfly word, it seems to be too intimate, although he is letting go, he is afraid that others will not let go. In the end, according to Western habits, it feels very smooth to call the surname, and with such a rare surname as Ouyang, there is no need to worry about the same name.

Ouyang Die didn't notice the change in Meng Wen's name for a while, but the unique feeling of women still captured the change in Meng Wen's feelings, and she was also infected by Meng Wen's mood relaxed, and explained: "Your dream has surpassed Maslow's five-level demand theory. Belongs to the sixth layer of unknown theories, higher demand. ”

"It turns out that my dream is so great that even Maslow can't sum it up. Meng Wen said jokingly.

"Yes, it's great, it's free, why don't you say go to an alien planet, you're alone, you can do whatever you want, and no one cares about you. Ouyang Die said.

"Isn't there no you there? Meng Wen said with a smile.

"Isn't it okay to bring your Lei Lei, what am I?" Ouyang Die said with some jealousy.

"Are you jealous" Meng Wen said with a smile, then took out his free right hand, held Ouyang Die's left hand, and shook it vigorously, as if he wanted to convey the firmness in his heart, and the expression on his face became a little strict, as if he was talking to Ouyang Die, and as if he was saying to himself: "You two, I want it!"