Chapter 182: How terrible is it, think for yourself

Rutang thought for a long time before coming to the conclusion that Chen Guilan is an NPD personality.

Only in this way can there be a reasonable explanation for her abnormal behaviors in her past and present lives.

"Everyone has their own personality, we are all normal, but there are also some people's personality that is very dangerous, such as Chen Guilan's NPD personality, which is medically speaking, narcissistic personality, which is one of the three dangerous personalities."

"Narcissism? My brother is also very narcissistic, I watched him look in the mirror for a long time this morning, and that's the kind of expression that is, heh, Lao Tzu's most handsome man in the world. ”

Xiao Yue's two fingers compared to his chin, imitating his brother's narcissistic appearance.

"Narcissism and narcissistic personality are two concepts, narcissistic personality is a pathological personality, how to explain it to you-" Rutang thought for a while and found a suitable metaphor.

"Vampire, yes, it's a vampire, the narcissistic personality is like a vampire, everyone in her eyes is her blood bag, she has to live by sucking others, she is the only one in her world, for her own benefit, she can hurt others without guilt."

Rutang summed up Chen Guilan's various actions and came to this conclusion.

The reason why she didn't find out that Chen Guilan had a problem in her previous life was because Chen Guilan needed Rutang's money and the rights that Rutang had in her hands, so she did everything possible to please Rutang, and the rest of the old Chen family also gave Rutang as a licking dog, Chen Guilan's performance was not outstanding, but her vampire characteristics were still inadvertently revealed, and she often intentionally or unintentionally used words to hurt Rutang and destroy Rutang's self-esteem.

In Chen Guilan's eyes, Rutang in her previous life was a huge "blood bag", she was sucking Rutang's energy while waiting for an opportunity to hurt Rutang.

In this life, Rutang has no identity and status in the future, and there is no need to please Chen Guilan, so Chen Guilan revealed her true colors.

"Normal people have feelings and hearts, even if it's your brother's lustful eyes - I mean, a man with a real temperament, ahem." Rutang felt the sight projected by Yu Yaoyang, and immediately changed his words about his desire to survive.

Yu Yaoyang licked his back teeth, and when he returned to the house, he saw that he didn't kiss her little mouth! Dare to say that he is squinting!

"Your brother is such a man with such a true temperament, he is very good to his family and friends, this is a normal person." Rutang added in his heart, a normal person who is a little colored.

"Chen Guilan is different, she has no heart, all NPDs are hollow people, all her actions are for her own service, that dead gangster is her blood bag to her, and Brother Yaoyang is also a blood bag to her."

"Hey! Whom do you want? Yu Yaoyang rubbed his arms, who wants to be a blood bag for that kind of ugly and bad woman!

Even if he dies, he has to die on his daughter-in-law, and he is willing! Who wants to contaminate that disgusting Chen Guilan?

"I'm using an analogy, of course you can't take a fancy to her, and you won't give her a chance, she has this attitude towards any man."

The reason why Chen Guilan is eyeing Yu Yaoyang, Rutang feels that it may not have much to do with love, the only person that narcissistic personality loves the most is himself, even if he has feelings for Yaoyang, it will not be too much, Chen Guilan just looks at Yu Yaoyang's money and his social status.

If Yu Yaoyang is really got her hands on it, Chen Guilan will have the opportunity to contact richer ones in the future, and she will get rid of Yu Yaoyang and pursue a bigger blood bag, of course, she herself does not have that charm, God gave her a very ordinary face very fairly, and a heart that is not very smart, so that she can't catch too good men.

"In addition to these, there is also Gui Ning, you are also her blood bag." Rutang looked at Gui Ning sympathetically.

"Me?!" Gui Ning was a little confused, she was not a man, she didn't deal with Chen Guilan, why was she a blood bag?

"Do you think about it, since you were a child, has she always suppressed you? Doing things that obviously hurt you, but also brainwashing you, saying that it is for your good? She doesn't get financial benefits from you, so she draws spiritual strength and exalts herself by suppressing you. ”

Gui Ning nodded, and suddenly felt a chill.

Before the rain-soaked clothes could be taken off, they were attached to their bodies, mixed with the fear of memories of the past, and became extremely cold.

As soon as her shoulders warmed, Satsuki draped the towel over her.

"You've left that house, don't think about her, all her actions have nothing to do with you." Satsuki comforted.

"Gui Ning just looks weaker, but fortunately, her spiritual core is still quite strong, and because of this, she was not completely defeated by her, and anyone who changed her vulnerability would be tortured and crazy by her."

The reasons for the formation of narcissistic personality are more complex, there are congenital and acquired, Rutang thinks that Chen Guilan should be congenital, because her father is a narcissistic personality, a family has a narcissistic personality, and other people will also be affected, either having a mental breakdown, or becoming the same pathological person.

"The reason why the narcissistic personality is classified as a dangerous personality is because this disease changes the brain, so that all her logical behaviors revolve around her, in order to make the logic consistent, she is full of lies, she lies a lot, she believes it herself, and she will not have any shame, nor will she empathize with anyone, we can't change this kind of person, and we can't treat it."

Even if psychology is so developed in later generations, it will not be able to cure this dangerous personality that will bring ruin to the people around you, let alone hope to influence these people with love.

"Sister-in-law, you mean, she lost all the money in Sedum, and she won't blame herself, right?" Satsuki asked.

Rutang nodded.

"Being irresponsible is also a prominent feature of the narcissistic personality, she will do everything possible to blame others for her faults, she will complain about the bad weather, complain about the cold-bloodedness of passers-by, blame everything, but will not reflect on herself."

"What kind of monster is this......." Satsuki sighed, the world is so big, there are no surprises.

"Don't say it's a truckload of goods, it's just that the thug who did something for her last time died, did she go to someone's grave and burn a piece of paper for someone's house? Although that thug deserves it, it's also for her. Rutang told a more heart-wrenching truth.

Narcissistic personality has no heart and will never empathize with anyone, Chen Guilan not only won't feel that it's a pity for that gangster to die, maybe she will also complain that the gangster is ineffective and dies a bad death.

"If there is no shame, it means that she will not have a sense of morality, and people who are not bound by morality and think about their own interests are terrible, think for yourself." Rutang sighed.

That's why she asked Yu Yaoyang to hurry up to Sedum to take a look, Chen Guilan lost all the money invested by others, not only will she not feel guilty, but in order to avoid compensation, it is very likely that she will kill Sedum.

Rutang felt that it was better to settle the grievances, and if he could save Sedum, maybe the grievances between the two families would be resolved.