Maybe it's really inexplicable trust, maybe it's absolute inferiority. The whole family tacitly agreed not to mention the matter of entrusting people to do work. The days go by day by day. It's just that my mom and I are eating less and less. I was also tired of staying at home, and I didn't visit my classmates and friends in middle and high school.

About three or four days later, Aunt Cousin's familiar loud voice sounded in my family yard again. I jumped off the kang like a rabbit, grabbed my shoes, and took three steps and two steps to open the courtyard door.

Mom was busy with a small broom, sweeping, and the folds on the kang quilt did not exist.

Mom said to my aunt with a smile: Hurry up, take off your shoes and go to the kang. Old girl, wash the apples!

In fact, I don't need my mother to explain, I have already moved quickly to serve tea, pour water, and wash fruits. The habit of receiving and entertaining guests when I was a child was cultivated.

Don't be busy, rest for a while, don't be thirsty, sit down for a while, and chatter. Auntie greeted with a smile.

This time, I came to report good news, and my eldest daughter-in-law said that she could find someone and talk to her. But don't worry, you have to hurry up and talk about it at a good time.

Hey, hey, don't worry, eldest sister, if you speak, I'll be relieved and put a hundred hearts. Mom said yes.

Eldest sister, I don't understand, you see what we need to prepare, you can explain, I'll do it. You can do whatever you say, and I'll listen to you.

Yes! The aunt agreed coolly, the relationship is here, and there is no need to pretend to be polite at all.

Aunt Slowly continued: I don't understand either, what will my eldest daughter-in-law say when she arrives, I'll tell you again. I'm afraid you're in a hurry, so I'll tell you a letter first. The eldest daughter-in-law said that she would do her best to do it. Don't pick if it's good or bad.

Oops, how could it be, we are blinded and we don't know anyone. Doing that step is that step, and it is also the child's life. This is quite a thank you to her sister-in-law, for causing her trouble. Mom smiled politely.

Adults are not allowed to interject, children are not allowed to interject, I am responsible for listening with a smile. It's enough to have a mother. I really feel very happy in my heart.

After gossiping for a while, such as I should find my mother-in-law's family and the like, the second brother needs to choose a daughter-in-law as soon as possible, or the bad ones are picked out.

Mom smiled and nodded, and at the same time asked my aunt to bother to help find a search. Auntie is back in familiar territory. With a wave of your hand, you can take care of it, no problem. I must help pay attention, and I must help find a good person who knows the roots.

At that time, the concept of marrying a daughter-in-law was still deep-rooted.

The mother said that finding the right person will save her children from being angry in the future. It's better not to find conditions that are too high. The gap between the two sides is too large, and the living habits, consumption concepts, and habits of receiving people and treating people are diametrically opposed. Living a life, there are constant strife. In the era of my parents, there were very few divorces. There are fights or awkwardness in every family, but there are really few children from single-parent families who are divorced and divorced by their parents. There are also children in single-parent families, most of whom are widowed and the conditions are too poor due to the large number of children in the family, and they will not be able to reorganize the new family for a while. Children from such families are generally the focus of teachers in school. Students will also do what they can, and there will never be a child from a single-parent family who becomes the target of school bullying. The people are simple and kind. And that night, the families did not have a good time, and the gap between the rich and the poor was not large. In the compound, there is always a scene where the food is cooked, and the neighbor's children come to eat and drink, everyone is used to it, you come and go, it really feels good.

I remember my parents' time, when it was really slow, and there was only enough love for one person in my life. Families live tightly, but the happiness is bursting. Eat and dress warmly, there are many children in each family, not one, they are all just healthy and happy to grow up. Children learn well and better. Admission to university is excellent. Children who do not study well can easily find a job after graduating from a vocational high technical school. It is best to buy a bungalow in the house, of course, it is second-hand, and you can use it as a new house when you get married. If you can't afford to buy a bungalow, then in your own yard, find a helper or hire someone to build a small house, build a kang kang, burn dry the kang noodles, and it will be a new home. If you have very special conditions, you will buy a house, and it is also second-hand, which is similar to the three brothers of Gao Qiqiang's family in Hurricane. The pigeon cage is like a pigeon, and many people of the parents' generation do not think so. How nice it is to have a courtyard, there is no upstairs and downstairs noise in the bungalow! My own family is a separate courtyard, I have nothing to do, and my heart is so open! Of course, every night the stove is pressed, and when the stove is raised in the morning, you have to endure the smoke and fire characteristic of the bungalow. Parents said: This has advantages and disadvantages. This is how people live all their lives, and nothing good can be done, it's all yours alone.

Come to think of it, it's still true.