The eldest brother is back, and the family has a backbone again. 1737577777777700 days, all under the leadership of the eldest brother and sister-in-law, were successfully completed.

His father has aged a lot, and he has long passed the retirement age, and he no longer goes out to work to earn money. My father said that he wanted to earn more money for his mother's medicine. In those days, it was impossible to pay pension and health insurance without a job. This means that you will not be able to receive a pension or receive health insurance benefits.

It is only divided into those who go to work, publicly-funded medical treatment, and are reimbursed with medicine slips. If you don't go to work, you are unemployed, and all expenses are completely self-sufficient.

The house is either divided by the unit, or inherited by the family, or returned by the national recovery policy, or bought by individuals who worked hard to earn money. My family belongs to the second and third categories.

The success of children in their studies is also related to the genetics of their parents. My uncle and uncle also have college students. At that time, the general climate was that of workers, peasants and soldiers in the sixties and seventies, and college students in the eighties and nineties. Being admitted to university is a very enviable thing for the ancestors.

According to his mother's wishes, he wanted to return to his hometown and settle in the countryside. My father had no opinion on what was going on after his death, and agreed to go to his hometown with his mother in a hundred years. The eldest brother came forward to contact, and the people from his mother's hometown found a professional speaker of white affairs and chose the address in advance. There is a small dirt hill on the north side of my mother's hometown, where most of the old people in the village are buried for a hundred years. When they were alive, they were neighbors in the street, and after they died, they were still in the neighborhood.

I guess my mother might have this kind of mentality. Because of the family's poverty, only his father's salary and grandmother to support, and three children to be fed, my mother rarely went home to visit relatives when she was young.

Later, when the economy improved and his health was not as good as before, my father was busy working overtime to earn the medical expenses of my mother staying in the hospital for at least one month a year and the education expenses of my brothers and me. There was no time to send my mother back to her hometown. My mother's body could no longer support the 12-mile hike after getting off the train, so I could only wait for the second brother to go to college during the summer vacation, and the second brother fixed four bamboo poles to the four corners of the tricycle, tied a white cloth, and used it as an awning, and the tricycle carried the rice and flour oil she gave to her grandfather and grandmother's rural relatives and friends and the cool boiled water to drink on the road, and returned to his hometown to visit relatives. Forty-two miles back and forth, every time the second brother is tired enough, the car can't carry me, and I have to stay at home for my mother to watch the house and cook for my father and brothers.

I remember that since junior high school, I was able to cook a table of dishes, and I was in charge of serving the guests. When my second brother is not busy with his studies, he also helps me do it. Later, my second brother said that I did not do well in the college entrance examination because I took care of my mother's hospitalization and housework, which distracted my attention. Students should be able to concentrate on their studies.

I was silent when I heard it, but if God gave me a chance to do it all over again, I guess I would do it again, my mother would too, my father would too, my eldest brother would too, and so would my second brother. We don't have a choice, we don't want this, we can only do it. Huddle together for warmth, work together, and use it for hard work, so that life can be constantly rewritten.

My father was silent, but the body routines taught us to be diligent, not afraid of hardship, and never admit defeat.

My mother is cheerful and generous, teaching us to use our brains more in everything, and if we can't solve it, we can let it go, and we can save the country.

Parents let you develop the good habit of being sunny and self-confident, not waiting or relying on anything, being strong and enterprising, and relying on yourself in everything. Understand that being a person and doing things is not because of who I am, but only because I am me. No need to hesitate and entangle, it's done!