The second meeting was agreed between Xiao Dan and Song Yan, and Yu Haifeng and I arrived on time in advance.

I smiled as I looked at him who arrived before me and waited under the telephone pole. Be punctual, respectful, and polite.

This time we left each other's contact information, which is the phone number of the unit. At that time, home telephones were not yet common, and the conditions were particularly good, or only the telephones were available in leading families. Haifeng's parents are dual-income workers, his father is still a department leader, and there are only two brothers in the family.

It didn't take long for Haifeng to happily tell me that he had a pager. In the future, I can pager and go directly to him.

In fact, I am relatively lazy and shy in my bones, and I have been dealing with him for half a year, and I have not taken the initiative to call his unit to find him once. Anyway, I'm working shifts, and as long as I make an appointment in advance, I have a lot of time to wait for him to come to the door at home.

Because of his height, every time I knocked on the door, I could see his shining spectacle lenses from a distance through the gap between the wooden door and the door frame.

I hate people wearing glasses the most. The bias given to me by the man with glasses is to be cautious. Later, after getting along for more than a year, I learned from Xiao Dan's mouth that Haifeng usually does not wear glasses. It's Xiao Dan and Song Yan, who say that wearing glasses looks better than not wearing glasses, but their faces look shorter.

And neither of us has ever dealt with a serious object, so we won't deal with it. The relationship developed slowly, and it took a year and a half before I began to talk about marriage. I'm used to wearing glasses, and I can't take them off, and once I wear them, it's a lifetime.

I started shopping, walking on one side, keeping a distance in between, and then getting closer and closer, and began to hook up my shoulders. But as soon as they met acquaintances, they immediately dispersed. At that time, love was more conservative, mainly looking at character and conditions, not particularly face. will not be carried away by love, mostly more rational. Premarital sex is not yet accepted by the general public. Yes, it was also done secretly behind the back of my parents. In my case, it's simply impossible. Mother's earnest teachings before her death, my brother's ear mentions, you are a girl, and you will be the one who will suffer when the time comes. This idea took root in my heart and grew into a towering tree. Another one I was full of itchy flesh, giggling non-stop when I touched it, and the boys and girls in the shy period were still relatively timid, and they didn't dare to make too much movement. Every time I see Haifeng's helpless embarrassment, I am even more happy.

We talk about the past and the present. Browse the bookstalls and wander through the park. Watch movies, eat rock sugar gourds, eat barbecue, eat iced soda with ice cream balls. Climb the mountains and watch the sea together. Although it is not as warm as other people's love, it has a sweetness that belongs to us.

The streets and alleys of Dajiucheng are full of our footprints, and at that time, there were some people called rolling roads. At that time, he was really young and strong. I remember that my future mother-in-law asked us at that time. Isn't it cold? How cold. How nice it is to be at home. was rejected by Haifeng all of a sudden, and ran out as if he was pulling me to escape. I just went out laughing and laughing. He stared at him narrowly, he was embarrassed. In Xiao Dan's words, Haifeng is quite an honest child, so I took it badly.

The relationship between me and Haifeng gradually warmed up, and it progressed step by step in an orderly and step-by-step manner. The engagement is just a meeting between the parents of both parties, and the families of both sides have a meal and give me a big red envelope of 9,999, which means that it will last for a long time. Everything was agreed upon when the parents met. An engagement reception is just a process. At that time, the man's dowry was 13,000 gold. It is 10,000 yuan plus three pieces of gold jewelry, which is 13,000 yuan. The woman's return gift is 1,000 yuan to buy a dress or a gold for the man. My family is in a special situation, my parents consulted us in the early years, and we didn't care about getting married for studying, because the family's conditions were limited. It was up to me to choose, and my second brother and I both chose to study without hesitation.

My three golds were paid by Haifeng to work by himself, and the money he had saved came out. One of his money, I'll pay it. After discussing it, we bought a 30-gram gold bracelet that my mother had been dreaming of for a long time and had not been able to afford to buy. It's like fulfilling my mother's dream. I bought a 10-gram gold ring and gave it to Haifeng to wear. As for the jewelry worn when getting married, they are all exquisite fake jewelry that is rented at the same time as renting a wedding dress. When getting married, people are afraid of losing it, so they deal with it like this at that time.