Life seems to be gradually stable as Lao Dong finds a new job. Originally, the leaders recognized, and introduced the goods by words and deeds, and it was the old Dong Lao business. For Lao Dong, he finally met the right person and the right industry, which is very suitable. But after March, a new situation happened, which is really a good thing. This time it was not caused by external factors, but Lao Dong's own backyard caught fire.

Her chubby son was dissuaded from kindergarten, which was rare at the time. Always naughty, still disobedient to discipline, crying, rolling on the ground, sweating profusely, endlessly. The kindergarten is afraid that something will happen to the child, so it will take responsibility and resolutely discourage it from quitting. If you change kindergartens, it is even worse, and the children are even more noisy when they arrive in the new environment. The teacher couldn't calm the child, who was crying and sweating profusely, and his voice was hoarse, so he could only find Lao Dong.

Lao Dong hurried over, it was not good to coax, he was angry, he kicked the child's buttocks, the child fell out, climbed back, hugged her long legs, Mom, I want to go home. Whining and choking up.

Tears and sweat mixed together, hanging on the child's face, the whole little pitiful.

Ay! Lao Dong, how can you not be soft-hearted. But what can you do when you go home, and you can't go home all the time. On the way home, looking at his son who was sitting obediently on the sacred cow and occasionally sobbed, Lao Dong fell into thought sullenly. I can't help but think of what the principal of the first kindergarten said, you should take your child to the hospital, this child is too active, it may be a disease, not just Tao.

Although I didn't refute it at the time, I didn't think so, the kindergarten is not one, it's a big deal to change one. The teacher is impatient and doesn't want to take responsibility for making excuses. Isn't it just a little loss of park fees and meal expenses, and you can only refund the overpaid fees on a monthly basis? In order for the child to suffer less, what is the point of wasting this money.

Lao Dong is lucky again, the new kindergarten, the new environment, the new children, the son is not adaptable. It will be fine in a few days.

After such repetition, Lao Dong began the rhythm of being invited to parents many times.

The new kindergarten teacher also began to suggest that Lao Dong go to the hospital to have a look, don't delay. Lao Dong began to think about it, called his husband in a different place to discuss, and decided to take the child to the hospital for a check-up.

Soon the results came out, ADHD. Her children are indeed different from the general mischievous and active children, with excessive activities that do not match their age, crying, lack of concentration, inattentiveness in class, procrastination in homework, and frequent mistakes; Running around, jumping around, talking a lot, undisciplined; Mood swings, irritability, lack of self-control; Abnormal sensory sensation, clumsy movements, poor balance, left and right, up and down, and spatial position disorders; Children are often criticized by teachers and parents and rejected by peers, and may have anxiety, restlessness, and short tempers. The symptoms that the doctor said are basically the same.

It is understood that the causes of ADHD are multifaceted, and the onset of ADHD is the result of a combination of factors, rather than a single factor, including genetic, biological, social and psychological factors.

1. [Genetic factors]: Through family investigation, twin research and genetic analysis of ADHD, it was found that ADHD has very genetic factors]: causing its congenital physical defects, resulting in ADHD.

2. [Abnormal neurotransmitter secretion]: For example, the concentration of nerve conduction in the brain decreases, which weakens the inhibitory activity of the central nervous system and increases the child's movements, which is the main factor inducing ADHD.

3. [Allergic reaction of children to food]: Foods containing additives, artificial colors and other harmful substances, vitamin deficiency, environmental pollution or poisoning (lead, mercury, cadmium) will also cause certain effects.

4. [Psychological factors]: family relationships are not harmonious, and children will be traumatized by being beaten and scolded at home or being subjected to improper corporal punishment and discrimination at school, resulting in abnormal behaviors such as hyperactivity.

5. [Other factors]: such as pregnant women taking medicine during pregnancy, viral infection, premature birth, overdue delivery, postnatal infection and trauma, etc.

Other reasons cannot be verified, and even if the verification is clear, it is meaningless. But psychological factors are the only ones that can be started and can be improved.

The doctor said that ADHD should be clinically called attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, and if the child suffers from the disease, it is possible to return to normal when he grows up, but there may still be clinical symptoms and psychological problems.

The disease is a common psychological and behavioral disorder, generally children have normal intelligence, but there will be age-inconsistent manifestations, such as difficulty in concentrating, noisy regardless of the occasion, resulting in a series of problems such as learning disabilities, cognitive impairment, etc., if not treated in time, the symptoms may continue to adulthood;

Parents can often take their children to participate in some outdoor activities, or regularly take their children to do psychotherapy in professional institutions, in addition, they can also use haloperidol tablets, thiopride hydrochloride tablets and other drug treatment under the guidance of doctors, if the treatment is timely, the child may be able to return to a normal person.

has been diagnosed, especially when it is related to his son's life, it is really urgent. Lao Dong and her husband, who rushed back on purpose, repeatedly researched, and the only best way at present was to give up work, take care of the children at home, and be a full-time housewife.

For this reason, Lao Dong, who has always been extroverted and strong, lay at home for three days and cried silently for three days. For the sake of his son and this family, he finally chose to sacrifice himself and become a pot-turned-housewife.