Chapter 86 My sister-in-law died and had a second miscarriage
On the day of work, there is a farce going on, and I am also used to it, and I slowly get used to it. If you are in a hurry, I am not in a hurry, Chad has to stay for a day, or you will not give money.
There is time. Talk slowly, boil slowly, stand up, and it's over. It's gone, it's gone. Or what? If you can't get by, you just can't get along with yourself, and it won't help.
Besides, who cares, I think in my heart, in the past, I can't get by. Laughing at yourself, living well, and looking forward are the right things to do.
On this day, after a busy day, I felt a little tired, and I went to bed early before nine o'clock. only to be woken up by a screeching phone ringing.
As soon as I sat up, I clicked back, and my heart jumped. I was in a hurry, I got up slowly, slowly, I don't know what time it is, I don't know where I am? Pick up the phone that keeps ringing. The brain is completely clear.
What's wrong? Call so late?! It was past nine o'clock in the evening.
Feed?
Your sister-in-law is gone? The voice of the eldest brother with a crying voice came from the earpiece.
What?! You repeat! I can't believe it.
Your sister-in-law is gone.
What's going on? What's going on? Where are you now? Does the second brother know? I was in a hurry, and I asked a series of questions.
Xiaobin knew that he called me and told me that your sister-in-law didn't come home from work, and I was waiting for her to come back for dinner.
Your sister-in-law had a car accident on her way from work and was pulled to the hospital by 120.
Xiaobin happened to be on the night shift and participated in first aid. That's what he told me. I'm in his hospital now.
I'll go right over. I put down the phone, took all the cash and wallets with me, and immediately took a taxi.
Not as expected, waiting outside the door of the emergency room.
The eldest brother and the second brother were both in the surgical inpatient ward, and the sister-in-law was lying quietly on the bed, covered with a quilt, only her face and neck were exposed, and she looked peaceful, as if she was asleep.
The nephew, who was less than ten years old, sat on the side in a daze, looking at everyone with ignorant eyes, not knowing what to say. He only knew that something had happened at home, and his mother was asleep and ignored him.
I went up and pulled my sister-in-law's exposed hand, which was still warm.
The second brother said that when he arrived at the hospital, his pupils were dilated, the electrocardiogram was straight, and he was brain dead. The wound was in the back of the head, knocking out a hole, the size of a bowl. The brain inside is probably already a paste. There is no value in continuing to salvage.
He participated in the rescue, looking like his sister-in-law, how much the appearance of a dead person is different from that of a living person, and he didn't want to believe it, so he called his eldest brother to confirm: Is my sister-in-law at home? got a negative answer, so I told my eldest brother to come to the hospital quickly, my sister-in-law had a car accident.
I didn't dare to tell it directly, for fear that the eldest brother wouldn't be able to accept it, and there would be another accident on the road in a trance. I told my eldest brother the truth when I got to the hospital.
It's a pity that the imaginary age of thirty-five years old is in the prime of life.
I took the door key given by my eldest brother and went to his house overnight to find clothes for my sister-in-law. The clothesline was full of clotheslines, all of which were freshly washed by my sister-in-law before her evening shift. When I opened the cabinet door, I couldn't stop the tears from flowing again. The shirts are all old clothes, and the coats are not decent. The one she wears should be the newest and best in the house. I can't let my sister-in-law, who has always loved beauty and pay attention to her image, go like this.
I told my husband, who was accompanying me, to go home. Take my clothes. My mother has always been in poor health, and since my sister-in-law married into my family, my sister-in-law has bought my clothes and shoes for me. At that time, I was busy studying, so she walked around by herself, fell in love, and then took me over to try on and buy.
The mother died early, and the eldest sister-in-law prepared for the mother. In the past, the sister-in-law took the lead in all major and minor affairs in the family.
When I got home, I rummaged through it, and I used my new, unused one. I said in my heart: Sister-in-law, thank you for your acquaintance. You took care of me at the beginning, and I sent you on the road with dignity.
Go back to the hospital and help my sister-in-law get dressed. Contact the ambulance here, and the body should be stored in the morgue of the hospital designated by the Public Security Bureau for refrigeration and preservation. Because it was a car accident, it was not possible to follow the normal funeral process, so I had to wait for the Public Security Bureau to go through a series of procedures.
The owner of the car that caused the accident escaped, but was chased and intercepted by two well-meaning citizens, one riding a motorcycle and the other driving a taxi. A blessing in misfortune.
The sister-in-law's relatives have also been notified, saying that there is no opinion, they are all waiting for the second sister in the field, and she is on her way to come.
The family set up a mourning hall overnight, notified relatives and friends, and the brothers and husbands were responsible for the vigil in three shifts, watching the ever-bright lights and incense.
In the next few days, I asked the general manager for leave, and accompanied my eldest brother, who had been tortured by grief and stupidity, to run the traffic team to ask about the progress of the traffic accident and cooperate with the investigation. Go to the unit to go through the formalities of work-related death, go to the hospital to issue a death certificate, and go to the community and police station to go through the procedures for canceling the account.
Due to the hit-and-run of the other party, it has violated the laws of the country. The traffic police force cannot mediate, and the court can only make a judgment in accordance with the law.
We are responsible for providing the damaged items: invoices for the purchase of bicycles, clothes, shoes, and transportation expenses, as well as relevant medical treatment reimbursement vouchers. When you buy something personally, how can you have nothing to keep the invoice?
Everything has to be made up for now, but fortunately I'm here, I've been there. Bicycles to the Nine Gate Store to reopen. The clothes are made up in the current store. I asked for a taxi invoice from a friend who drove a taxi.
After the eldest brother consulted his sister-in-law's mother, he refused the Public Security Bureau, and the autopsy was performed to determine the cause of death. It's too trembling and cruel, the dead are the greatest, so let my sister-in-law rest in peace.
After many negotiations, it was notified on the third day that the cremation of the body could be carried out normally.
According to the custom, the funeral can only be held every Wednesday and every Friday.
I have now bought my nephew thick-soled cotton shoes and a large puffer jacket, for fear that the child will freeze on the day of the funeral.
The day before the funeral, I fell red, because the period should not come, a week late, I think maybe I have been tired lately.
Before returning home in the evening, my stomach began to throb and hurt terribly. I bought two boxes of Jiawei Xiaoyao Pills on the way, which has a miraculous effect on the symptomatic treatment of dysmenorrhea.
When I got home, I took it on an empty stomach, so that the medicine was highly effective. In the middle of the night, my stomach tightened and hurt, I woke up in pain, and when I got up, I felt the blood flowing under my body, so I quickly went to the bathroom to sit, and my waist couldn't stand up in pain.
I curled up and barely sat on the toilet cover, folded my hands against my lower abdomen, hung my head weakly, and for a long time, I felt like I was going to faint in pain, and I felt a stream of blood expel out, and the pain disappeared.
My face was covered in sweat. Struggling to get up, he subconsciously glanced at the urinal, the water had been dyed bright red, and a jellyfish-like object was floating in the water. No wonder it hurts so much, it hurts my mother to death. It turned out that the endometrium was shedding, I said self-deprecatingly. If it hurts, it doesn't work, and if it doesn't hurt. The old Chinese medicine doctor told me. No one is sick or dead, my mother said.
Later, I learned that it was most likely an embryo in early pregnancy, not some endometrium, which did not have that shape. Everything is fate, and nothing is up to anyone. If I could do it all over again, I would probably do it again. I don't want this, I can only do this.
The nephew cooperated stupidly, and the well-behaved was distressing. It's just that when I wanted to kneel down for my sister-in-law at the funeral, I cried and didn't kneel for anything. It is estimated that it is reluctant in the dark. Everyone cried, crying and coaxing for a long time before the ceremony was completed. Let your sister-in-law go on the road with peace of mind.
I also wore thick ones, and I felt that the crematorium was cold to the bone.