Cai Xiaolian looked at Gu Xin with interest, waiting for her answer.

"Sister, I have a little idea. Because you told me before that it's like to fall in love with someone. After my observations of several couples in the family, I have a different point of view. Gu Xin looked at Gu Nian and said, "I think love is mutual, not one-sided." While I love him and want him to be good for him, he must also love me and think I am good for me! Otherwise, why should I love him? To maintain a relationship, it is not enough to work hard alone, it takes two people to work together! It is worth it to each other, and if it is not worth it, it is a bad relationship, and you must stop the loss in time so as not to get hurt yourself. ”

"Just like grandparents, like uncles and aunts, like fathers and mothers, like third aunts and third aunts, they are all mutual, and no one is single. It can only be said that who loves whom more. Like grandparents, their love is the same, reciprocal. Like the love of the uncle and the aunt, in my opinion, the aunt should love the uncle more. For example, the father and the third aunt and the third aunt and the third aunt, that is, the father and the third aunt should love the mother and the third aunt more, because the father and the third aunt are reluctant to let the mother and the third aunt be wronged a little. Uncle is different, unless the aunt is injured and bullied outside, otherwise, the uncle who bullies the aunt the most at home is the uncle. ”

Gu Hui and Gu Nian looked at Gu Xin thoughtfully, what else did the little girl think about? The two of them are so embarrassed to be sisters, and they have never thought about this kind of life problem.

Gu Si's villain is already carnival, Sister Xinxin is so powerful.

I used to only think that my sister and Sister Nian Nian were amazing, but now Sister Xinxin is so powerful, I want to come on!

Cai Xiaolian smiled helplessly, and did not refute Gu Xin's statement that her father loved her mother more.

She smiled and said to the four little girls: "When I was a girl before, I heard a poem, about love, you all read and read, and you are learning poetry, so I will read it to you too!" I love it. ”

"If I love you, I will never be like a climbing flower, showing off myself through your high branches. If I love you, I will never be like an infatuated bird, repeating a monotonous song for the greenery. ……。 Thou hast thy branches of brass and thy trunks of iron, like knives, like swords, and like halberds. I have my red flowers, like a heavy sigh, and like a heroic torch. We share the cold waves, the wind, the thunder, and the thunderbolts, and we share the mist, the drift, and the rainbow. Let the Buddha be separated forever, but they will depend on each other for life. ……”

Cai Xiaolian read "To the Oak Tree" to several girls, one of her favorite contemporary poems in the past, and the one she remembers the most.

Gu Nian had studied this poem, but as a science student, she was really not interested in poetry, and she was not as good as her nephew.

Cai Xiaolian read this poem, Gu Nian felt that it was a little different from when she was in school, and she couldn't tell what was different.

If there is a subject of feelings, she estimates that she will always fail the course!

After a while, Gu Xin's eyes sparkled and said, "Mother, I understand a little!" Although the format of this poem is different from what my father usually taught us, I still understood it. The poem compares kapok and oak to a woman and a man. This poem expresses the poet's view of love, she believes that women are not dependent on the existence of men, you are a tree, then I must be a tall and straight tree like you, you stand, I must also stand, to stand equally between heaven and earth. Share the suffering and enjoy the joy together. ”