"Mom, I'm sorry, Xiao Jiu shouldn't fight."

Chu Jiu, who was standing beside him, apologized again.

In response to her apology, Chu Xi shook his head.

"Xiao Jiu doesn't need to apologize to his mother, Xiao Jiu hasn't done anything wrong to be sorry for his mother, in this matter, the person who doesn't need to apologize to Xiao Jiu the most is his mother."

The hand touched her head gently.

"In this matter, my mother doesn't think Xiao Jiu is at fault."

Yes, she didn't feel that her daughter had done anything wrong in this matter.

Even if she is recording the show now, at this point, she will not easily nod her head and feel wrong.

"Fighting is not a very good thing, and fighting is not the right thing to do. But this time in the fight, Xiao Jiu is because his mother is not around, he can only protect himself, in this matter, my mother doesn't think Xiao Jiu has done anything wrong, remember, we don't easily provoke others, we can't bully others, and we can't just beat others, because this is a very bad and very wrong behavior, but if one day, someone else takes the initiative to provoke you, bully you, beat you, and your mother is not by your side, Mom hopes that you can fight back by yourself, you have to tell others, Your kindness and generosity are not a reason to be bullied by others, do you know? ”

patiently said his own opinions, but as soon as this concept came out, it would definitely cause heated discussions on the Internet.

There are supported and unsupported.

Those who don't support it feel that Chu Xi is openly teaching children to fight.

The supporters feel that Chu Xi is not wrong to say this, is it right to be blindly bullied, not to fight back, and not to scold and speak back?

If this is really the case, it will only make the bully more and more arrogant, and the bullied more and more aggrieved.

And Chu Xi also stated that he did not take the initiative to bully others, but fought back when others bullied him, which was completely a self-preservation move, and there was nothing wrong at all.

Facing Chu Xi's voice, Chu Jiu nodded as if he didn't understand.

All she knew was that her mother didn't seem to be angry.

As long as mom doesn't get angry.

"You also have to remember that no matter what happens to you in the future, you don't need to apologize easily until you figure out anything or you haven't done anything wrong. Apologizing sometimes is indeed very good at calming things down, but you are still young, when you grow up, go to school, and understand what the four words mean by calming things down, you sometimes take the initiative to apologize, and your mother thinks there is no problem, but you also have to remember that some things, once you apologize, all the fault is on you, apologize for this matter, if you really didn't do anything wrong, don't subconsciously apologize casually, you know? If you do do something wrong, be sure to apologize sincerely. ”

That kind of verbal perfunctory apology may be needed in the future workplace because of necessity.

But now that the child is still young, she doesn't want to apologize all the time for not doing anything wrong, and apology shouldn't become her mantra because she is sensible.

The soft and cute big eyes looked at Chu Xi in a blink like this.

Although I listened to my mother very carefully, I was also very smart. Starting

But for a while, I didn't understand the content very thoroughly.

Looking at her like this, Chu Xi's face hooked up a thick arc.

"It's okay if you don't understand or don't understand, but remember what your mother said."

Gradually, as she grows up, she will understand one day.