"A lot of people dream of one day quitting their jobs and going to the end of the world to travel the world.

But some people get bored after experiencing the colorful world.

He will feel as if he is the same everywhere he goes, nothing more than going from the place where he is tired of staying for a while in the place where others are tired.

This is the five colors that are blinding.

You don't usually have time to listen to songs, but when you have time, listen to them one after another, and you will also feel physiological disgust.

Including food, eating delicacies from the mountains and seas every day will also be tired of eating and have no appetite.

That's why it is said that the five tones are deafening, and the five flavors are refreshing.

Galloping and hunting is a game of the ancients, and it is a variety of video games compared to modern times.

It's fun to relax occasionally, but if you keep playing day and night, you'll only get more and more irritable, and eventually become manic.

The so-called rare goods can be compared to those beauties on the Internet who only had the opportunity to play with dignitaries in ancient times, as well as the illusion of getting rich overnight, such as lottery tickets and peeling vegetables.

If you are confused by rare goods, you will be even more mired in the quagmire and unable to extricate yourself.

So, when I say the comfort zone of the mind, I mean the kind of thing that makes you feel pure happiness, that you can completely relax, that you are stress-free, that you enjoy the good things, and that you forget about time.

If the Dao of Heaven gives the avenue to Ku Ding, it is the natural gap between the beef bone and the meat.

Then the avenues left by Heaven are those things that you can do happily.

If you do one thing happily, it will be easy to go to the extreme.

Just like Teacher Linghua, she thinks that singing can make her happy, even if she doesn't earn much money, she never gets tired of it.

This is called the saint's belly and not his eyes, so he goes to the other and takes this.

And how much she gained from singing, you can also see. ”

As he spoke, Li Yi divided the beef of a whole cow into small pieces and placed them neatly on the desk.

"Don't, don't, I'm not a saint."

When Linghua heard Li Yi's words, she waved her hand again and again, and then asked with a smile: "But I think traveling, listening to songs, eating delicious food, and playing games are all normal hobbies, and it's nothing, right?"

If no one eats delicious food, and you make so many delicious food, won't no one eat it? ”

"Yes, if it's a hobby, it's fine."

Li Yi explained with a smile: "But if it's just a hobby, then they can only satisfy desires and relieve boredom, and they can't bring a sense of meaning."

Take food as an example, if I just like to eat food, then after eating all the delicacies of the mountains and seas in the world, I have nothing to pursue. ”

"How can anyone eat all the good food?"

Linghua smiled: "I've lived for dozens of years, and there are still a lot of delicious things I haven't eaten!" ”

Li Yi smiled and didn't explain.

He didn't actually assume that in the dream space, he had basically eaten all the delicacies of the mountains and seas that could be eaten in the world, and he was already tired of eating them.

Now, he doesn't have too many requirements for eating.

The dishes that made Zhao Jinmai and the others eat amazingly and made the audience in the live broadcast room drool, in his opinion, are just ordinary dishes, and there is no way to bring him a sense of novelty.

After a pause, Li Yicai said with a smile: "I'm making an analogy, it's like if you have eaten good mutton for a lifetime, and mutton has become commonplace, unless it is particularly good mutton, ordinary mutton can no longer make you feel amazing and excited."

When we ordinary people eat, the ingredients are nothing more than the common six animals, six birds, and hundreds of vegetables and fruits, and at most the processing methods are different.

On the dining table of the rich and noble, there are nothing more than some delicacies from the mountains and seas, rare ingredients, and a novelty to eat.

After tasting these, it is more difficult to have a new taste sensation.

Therefore, satisfying the appetite is not a source of happiness. ”

When Linghua heard this, she asked curiously, "Then what is the source of your happiness?" ”

Li Yi glanced at Liu Yifei, smiled, and then explained: "I can cook a lot of delicious food, and naturally I have eaten a lot."

Most of the food is no longer appealing to me, but I still love it.

Because what I like is not only the food itself, but also the food I like even more.

I like to bring out the taste of a food to the extreme through some wonderful means.

I also love watching diners taste the delicious food I make and watch them eat heartily, which makes me happier than if I ate it myself.

Making food better and making diners happier is the source of my happiness and what I find meaningful. ”

Listening to Li Yi's explanation, the audience in the live broadcast room is also rarely serious.

"So, find meaning in the things you like."

"To put it bluntly, it is to do what you really like, and what can make you gain the value of your own life."

"Unity of knowledge and action!"

"Don't force meaning, go with the flow, and the meaning will appear on its own."

"Ya! If you want to share your friends, it is difficult for the boar to eat fine chaff, so you can enjoy it exclusively. ”

"I suddenly remembered that when I was a child, I was very fond of sharpening knives, and I often collected iron pieces and steel bars to sharpen, and sharpened them very sharply, and cut paper thieves smoothly.

At that time, I wanted to grow up and become a professional knife sharpener, but my mother scolded me for being unproductive and not studying hard, so I learned to sharpen scissors and kitchen knives, and then I stopped grinding.

But when I sharpen my knives, I'm really super happy, and I feel like time flies by for hours.

If I really don't have to think about making money and professional discrimination, I really want to be a sharpener who sharpens scissors and kitchen knives. ”

"When I was a kid, I would sew clothes for dolls with rags of fabric, and everyone would look good and praise me for my talent.

At that time, my dream was to become a fashion designer, but unfortunately, I later studied accounting, and I was so angry that my blood pressure exploded. ”

"I play marbles very accurately, but this doesn't seem to make much sense, I can only win some glass balls, but I'm happy when I play this, alas! It's a pity that this can't be eaten as a meal! ”

"Really do what you love! I'm an example! I especially like to play with perfumery, which is to mix perfumes.

I made a bunch of test tubes, stills, and all kinds of essential oils at home, and every day when I came back from work, I would be on the balcony until twelve o'clock in the evening.

It's really a pure hobby, and when I mix a new fragrance, I am very happy and have a special sense of accomplishment.

But my wife doesn't understand me and thinks I'm not doing my job properly and not wanting to make progress.

Later, due to various reasons, I resigned, and my wife was even more unhappy, scolding me at home every day, urging me to go out and find a job.

I was also in a hurry, so I opened an online store for fragrances on the Internet, and I originally planned to be a fig leaf, saying that I was starting a business.

As a result, someone really bought my perfume, and the evaluation was not bad.

Now my online store income has exceeded my original salary level, and it continues to grow.

Although it is only more than 10,000 points a month, I am very happy because what I do is what I like to do the most.

My wife doesn't talk about me anymore now, and she took the initiative to help me contact me to buy essential oils.

So, I hope you really have to be kind to yourself and find what you like to do, maybe it will help you start a new life? ”

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