Chapter 76: Supporting Parents to Roll In
Lei Yishu remembered an incident a long time ago.
At that time, Yin Zaji earned his first pot of gold, although he was not as rich as he is now, it was also an amount that most people needed to work hard for a long time.
In front of Yin Zaji, Ms. Liu was very happy, but she complained to her behind her back: "At that time, I would have studied for a few more years, and I knew a little more, even if I couldn't pave the way for Yin Zaji, I could still guide her how to live."
I shouldn't have stayed in this small village all my life, never seen anything, and was afraid to see anything.
Obviously, my child is so promising, all I can do for her is worry. ”
Sister Bai Lu was shocked by her words for a long time.
Lei Yishu has been a class teacher and has seen many parents who are planning for their children's future, but she always feels that this kind of thing is far away from her.
Because the midsummer solstice is very well-behaved.
From childhood to adulthood, Midsummer Solstice is a restrained and quiet child, no matter living or studying, she seems to be able to solve all problems independently, never worrying about adults.
Sister Bai Lu has always had a free-range attitude towards her.
However, when she knew that her open-minded and cheerful friend was also worried about the future of her child, she instinctively reflected on her own behavior.
She realized that she was too indifferent to the summer solstice. She even discussed with Sheng Qingming whether she should learn an accountant so that it would be convenient to help Sheng Xia Zhi manage her money in the future.
Sheng Qingming didn't know why his wife was stupid, and reminded: "Our daughter is learning to farm, and this has to grow dragon liver and phoenix marrow to use such a high-end thing as 'financial management'."
Besides, didn't Lei Xiaozhen study finance? ”
Sister Bai Lu hadn't gotten out of the logical circle yet, and asked in a daze: "Is this so, what else can we do for the midsummer solstice?" ”
Sheng Qingming knows his daughter very well: "If the midsummer solstice needs us to do something for her, she will tell us." ”
He took Sister Bai Lu's hand: "Sometimes, the child just wants to eat an apple, you tell her where the apple is, just let her get it herself."
But you gave your child a cart of durians, and persuaded her, 'Eat quickly, don't you want to eat, see how good I am to you'." Isn't this nothing to do, in case a child doesn't like durian, what if a child is allergic to durian. Most importantly, the child just wants to eat an apple. ”
He shook Sister Bai Lu's arm, "Wife, Midsummer has grown up, and she refuses to tell us a lot of things, and we don't know what she's doing." I know you're anxious, and I'm anxious too.
However, we can't transfer the pressure to our children in order to make ourselves feel safe.
Seriously, if you really want to help the summer solstice, you have to learn how to farm. But it's too late for you to learn now, your daughter has already come ahead of you, and in the end, you have to help you. ”
Sister Bai Lu was unhappy and slapped him, "According to what you say, we don't do anything for the child?" We're parents for nothing. ”
"Lei Yishu, teacher Lei Yishu, what you can do for your children is to be yourself.
When your child can't get along and comes back to join you, we don't have the capital to let her make a comeback, but we have to take care of the child's food and can't let her starve to death. Sheng Qingming held her hand again:
"Don't always focus on your children, look at yourself. If you still have time, take a look at me. ”
Sheng Qingming always has a childish romance, it seems that even if the sky falls, he can use those beautiful blue pastes into his own shape.
Looking at Ms. Liu, who was in anxiety, Sister Bai Lu thought that she had known that she should let Sheng Qingming persuade her.
It doesn't matter if you can convince her or not, the important thing is that it won't affect their friendship.
Sister Bai Lu looked at the ham chopped into minced meat and took the kitchen knife from Ms. Liu's hand: "Do you know what I've been doing lately?"
I want to organize the fields and idle villagers in the village into blocks, so that the land is larger and has more bargaining power when buying seeds and selling agricultural and sideline products.
That's what I learned when I went to the city to attend a class.
But do you know that Xiao Zhang from the next village has already done this. He didn't go to the city to take classes, which he learned on his own when he was in school.
It took us a full week to collect this information, and we relied on the village committee to manually measure the land and enter the information manually.
But Xiao Zhang did all this in just one day.
I wondered how he did it, and he said he used drones. The drone is connected to the office software and directly generates data.
We also have drones in our village, and I also use office software, but I never thought of this usage.
Whoever of us took Xiao Zhang seriously before, they all felt that he was cowardly and irresponsible, he couldn't bear the hardships in the village, and he would leave at any time.
But they just persevered and opened the eyes of us old guys.
So you see, it's not that young people are useless, it's that we don't understand young ideas. ”
Ms. Liu understood: "You are talking for your goddaughter, thinking that I have never seen the world and causing trouble for her, right?" ”
"What do you say?" Sister Bai Lu returned the kitchen knife to her, "I've only known that girl for a few years, and I've known you for half a century, so of course I'm partial to you." ”
She looked at Ms. Liu's face and made a rigorous suggestion, "I'm serious, you can't hold everything in your heart anymore."
It's a trivial thing to be bad for the skin, and it's easy to have high blood pressure.
You're worried about Gigi and want to know about her work, so ask her. She can't tell if she can't tell, so you can ask carefully.
You are a parent, be generous, be a little patient, don't get angry at your child if she doesn't understand. ”
After all, Sister Bai Lu has been a class teacher, teaching and educating people is a child's skill, and after chattering for a while, Ms. Liu didn't know whether she listened to it or was tired of listening, her movements became smooth, and the fried rice was quickly put into the pot.
Sister Bai Lu looked at Ms. Liu's side face and sighed:
"We've been staying together, looking at each other's faces every day, always feeling that I'm still young, and I don't realize that we're actually at the age of being grandma-"
Before Sister Bai Lu spoke, she knew that something was wrong.
Sure enough, the next moment, Ms. Liu slapped the spatula and began to complain again: "You said, Yin Zaji is at this age, and he still refuses to get married-"
This is not Yin Zaji's problem alone, it is also the problem of the summer solstice who is the same age as Yin Zaji, or the problem of Lei Yishu, who does not urge the midsummer solstice to get married.
Sister Bai Lu knew how stubborn Ms. Liu was on this issue and didn't want to argue with her. While she was not paying attention, she fled with the pot.
"The pot will be cleaned and returned to you tomorrow." Sister Bai Lu said: "Remember, listen to Jiji, don't lose your temper." ”
Midsummer Zhi collided with Sister Bai Lu at the door of the house, staring at the pot in her arms dissatisfied: "As the village head, I actually used my power for personal gain and asked Ms. Liu to open a small stove for you alone." ”
"Originally, as long as you said, 'Mom, I'm hungry, I want to eat supper,' Mom won't starve you. However, you intimidate me", Sister Bai Lu looked at her a little worriedly, "I won't give you a bite to eat." ”
Midsummer Solstice pretended not to hear anything, and cheekily posted to his mother: "Ms. Liu made you something delicious." ”
"You've never eaten it." Sister Bai Lu gave her the pot, "Help me hold it, but I'm tired." ”
Midsummer Solstice took the opportunity to lift the lid of the pot and said with some disappointment: "Egg fried rice." Forget it, Xiao Jiang said to cook wontons for me. ”
Sister Bai Lu smiled brightly, "Baby, look carefully, how is this egg fried rice, this is obviously a nest." ”