Part 9 Yang Hong Thinks: Why Can You Read My Heart Disease?
The two were eating KFC in the room, and Ma Jing listened to the recording with "relish", and after listening to it, he asked: "When did you buy the voice recorder?" Judging from the plot, you have become a victim, are you more wronged than Dou E? How do you feel about being green twice? Let me interview. Yang Hong picked up the hamburger and took a bite, and said indistinctly: "The voice recorder was bought when I bought the navigator." What else can you think? Lu Xinyu chose to leave because I was under pressure because my conditions were too good, and Gu Jingjing left because I was too poor, I definitely didn't trip over the same stone twice, I can only say that I was fortunate to go to Hulunbuir twice, what else can I say? Is it all my problem? What's wrong with the girls now? ”
Ma Jing wiped her mouth and said with disdain: "What's the matter, this is wronged?" The problem really lies with yourself, and the scale is not well grasped. Let Mr. Ma give you an analysis and analysis, do you want to listen to what you don't like? Yang Hong put down the hamburger, supported his cheek with his right hand, thinking that Ma Jing had to give him cram school again, in order to give Ma Jing the words in his stomach, he made a dejected appearance and said: "Say it, anyway, if it's not good, I usually don't say less, and it's not bad for a while." ”
"Don't be so frustrated, listening to criticism will help you improve. Let's start with Lu Xinyu, I don't know why you showed her the most glorious side of yourself unreservedly, and it was without you understanding her true thoughts first, and you scared her as a result, and she was scared a lot. I admit that Lu Xinyu also has her own problems, when she is confused, you don't bring her hope, to be precise, the hope she wants, but gives distance, when the distance is getting farther and farther, she can only choose to leave, if someone else does the same; Let's talk about Gu Jingjing, I heard you say that you met by chance, and then you became a warm-hearted man, and you ended up together. You get along very well, and you pretend to be poor, which makes her feel relaxed and comfortable, but you ignore the fact that her family situation has suddenly changed, and all the pressure needs to be borne by her and her mother overnight. She is used to living a comfortable life, she has no backbone in an instant, go to her boyfriend for help, her boyfriend can only give her spiritual comfort, but he can't solve the substantive problem, I think Gu Jingjing may also have face considerations, she doesn't want others to pity or sympathize with her. I think Gu Jingjing is very conflicted, she desperately needs bread and cares about face, and the person who can give her bread is the most trustworthy person, you and I will not understand. ”
Yang Hong leaned on the sofa and looked at Ma Jing with interest: "You mean to say that what happens to everyone is inevitable, right?" Women see the problem differently, if we switch places, how will you solve it? Speaking of dry goods, I don't want to just listen to accusations, and it's not a criticism meeting. ”
Ma Jing touched Yang Hong's face with her hand: "Yo yo yo, you still can't listen to criticism?" If you want me to say, you are a person who values feelings, and friendship is handled more clearly than love, so you can say Meng Wei, not only help him do things well, but also the distance and scale are very good. Let's talk about Lu Xinyu, wait...... Now that I'm your only girlfriend, why don't I take the opportunity to ask you a formal question, when did you send it, can you always tell me now? You can not say how much money you have, and it doesn't matter how much money you have. ”
Yang Hong didn't want to blurt out: "Last autumn!" A home with Lao Xue. My family background can also tell you, two houses and two cars, a small deposit, plus a butt of famine. ”
Ma Jing was satisfied with his answer, and continued: "It's similar to what I guessed, I remember when I met in the cinema, it was not as imposing as now." I'll go on, let's just say that you and Lu Xinyu have this matter, last year the two of you were in the limelight, and the chasing of her was famous all over the year, admitting that it was your girlfriend in front of the class, and also chartered the whole restaurant to invite the classmates to dinner, you can really make money...... The problem is in the process, the relationship between you and Lu Xinyu is filled with bubbles, I guess you bought her a lot of good things, this is the root of the problem, the bubble will burst one day. As far as I know, she's just a child from an average family, she's never seen so many good things, and when she's used to the high quality of life you bring, it becomes an invisible pressure, and if she wants to continue living this life, either she keeps up with you or finds another job. My uncle's neighbor had been very poor since he was a child, but his family had a good life, and in the early nineties, he followed a few friends to the Soviet Union to do business, and he made some clothes to earn money from his old nose; Later, I used this money to do business in the south and earned a lot, as if I earned more than two million, it was the nineties! This is floating, I don't know how to spend the money, buy a high-end car, buy a big house and marry a beautiful daughter-in-law, and finally I don't know how to spend it, so I go to gamble, and it's only half a year, the business collapses, the house is sold, the car is sold, the daughter-in-law runs away, and people don't know where to go......"
Yang Hong tilted his head and asked, "I said, didn't you say that you would help me analyze the situation, what you said is very pointed?" Although Lao Xue and I have earned some family business, we are not like a person who has never seen the world, and I have a beautiful daughter-in-law in the garage. ”
Ma Jing scratched her head: "It seems to be a bit off-topic, what do I want to say?" Come to think of it, when you suddenly get something that is difficult for others to obtain, and these things don't belong to you in the first place, there is a high probability that you won't be able to hold it up, and in the end you will either adapt to it or be devoured. Obviously, Lu Xinyu was almost devoured by what you offered, she made multiple choices and chose to catch up with you, and by the way, she found another job, what shortcut do you say women want to catch up with men? It's simple, just look at your expression and know that you understand, hand me the chicken legs. ”
Yang Hong nodded constantly, took a piece of original chicken from the table and handed it to Ma Jing: "It seems that there is some truth, this is a reward for you." You haven't said what to do if it's you, by the way, you answered Gu Jingjing together, this time it's not allowed to go off-topic. ”
Ma Jing gave a non-standard military salute: "Yes, sir!" If the two of us have a role reversal, I chase Lu Xinyu like pulling a rubber band, it is best to tighten and loosen it at any time, I need to give her dreams at any time, but don't easily satisfy her, and then give it to her when she is in urgent need, so that she knows that life is not easy. Don't use fierce medicine, fierce medicine is not suitable for her, suitable for Gu Jingjing in the later stage, just like when she went to meet her parents, she humbly became a big boy, a little shy and embarrassed, don't shake your spirit with her parents, let people think that you belong to a normal state, what is a normal state? The state that a boy of the same age should have. ”
Ma Jing paused for a moment, ate a few bites of the original chicken in her hand, wiped her mouth indiscriminately and continued: "Let's talk about Gu Jingjing, you did a good job in the early stage, there is no lack of love when you should care, and you don't show off when you should be bland, you chase her so that her roommates are envious, that's right." But the worst move is when you shouldn't have pretended to be poor when she is in the most difficult time, when what she needs most is not a 'I love you', but a real solution to the problem. At that time, you can send her 10,000 yuan, and by the way, you can inadvertently tell her that your family background is better, and you used to be low-key because you were afraid that she would be uncomfortable, but now you can't take care of her feelings, survival is the most important thing; Even if she feels cheated, for the sake of money, she will feel that you are the person she can rely on, and her mother will not object to you being together if she knows it, and will encourage you to be together. I listened to the recording, Sun Long can't just give her these, people are still latecomers. What kind of expression do you have, you won't be angry again, will you? ”
Yang Hong asked: "I'm not angry, I'm just curious how you can understand so much?" Are you a feng shui master? Or can I be analyzed by the way? Ma Jing deliberately sold a pass, changed the topic and said: "Let's listen to the next breakdown." I just like to study people, but I can't study anything famous, so I don't have to analyze you, I can't understand it and I can't see it through, so I'll talk about it when I have a chance later. Why are you focusing on the details, why don't you ask me if I will green you? ”
Yang Hong hugged Ma Jing's slender waist and whispered, "If you dare to green me...... I...... I really can't do anything about you, at most I can send good wishes, and by the way, I will meet the man's parents for you and help you check the gates. It's broken......" Yang Hong suddenly picked up his mobile phone to check the time, then got up and dressed, and urged: "I almost forgot something important, you go with me to see my homeroom teacher Teacher Huang in the evening, you have to find him first about going to school." Don't stay in bed yet, if you don't go, go to the store to buy something, you can't go empty-handed. ”