Part 49 The Teachings of the Mother Deer 2 The allusion of the pony crossing the river

Lu Xinyu finally understood, and her mother took out her old past to persuade herself. She was about to speak, but her mother said, "I know what you think, Xiao Cui's family is very good, you feel that you are not worthy of him, or you are afraid that he will have some bad intentions for you." If it was placed in the past, maybe I would advise you to dispel your thoughts, but from a realistic point of view, the good or bad family is only one of the aspects, you have to look at the character first, and how you and your family, the most important thing is, whether you have a heartfelt feeling for him. But if you're going around in circles because of your family's background, then I'm not going to say it. ”

"But I still have others in my heart, and I can't ......" Lu Xinyu's attitude was a little relaxed, but he still wanted to struggle.

"You want to talk about Xiao Yang, Xiao Yang is also a very good person, and my mother admitted that she partnered with your father to make it difficult for him at that time. But our family situation at that time was not the same as it is now. Mom knew what she did wrong at the time, and the two of you didn't get together in the end, in fact, it had a lot to do with Mom, and these Moms all knew. Xiao Yu, people always say what to say at what time, you missed it at the time, and the short-sightedness of your vision was affected by your family, which is not false at all. If you switch positions between the current Xiao Cui and the then Xiao Yang, maybe you will be with Xiao Cui. But then again, if you didn't have a certain life experience, you wouldn't have caught Xiao Cui's attention now, Mom is right? Later, when you and Xiao Yang had those things, Mom guessed a little, maybe Xiao Yang had already walked out, but you haven't. Now he is good to you, but it is only out of friendship and classmate affection, to put it mildly, people are pitying us, this does not represent love. Mom talks a lot today, but also a few more words, Xiao Yang, this kid is more ambitious, personality determines fate, you can only accompany him for a while, and you can't see the future in him. ”

Don't look at the usual silent mother, but she has seen through most of the problems, and today she will take out some of them for Lu Xinyu to digest. "Why can Ma Jing stay with him for so long, and I can only walk with him for a while? It's all women, why am I not as good as her, it's not fair to me. Lu Xinyu refused to admit defeat, and he had to fight for the high and low.

"You mean the girl in the next class from high school? Your Aunt Dong's daughter is also in that class, and I heard your Aunt Dong say this when she has nothing to do. You classmates have been for so many years, you don't know that the one named Ma Jing is called, right? Her family seems to be a casino or a nightclub, a person who does that kind of business. Why don't you want to think about how many of the children who come out of that kind of family are vegetarians? "Ma Jing's family affairs, Mother Deer told me eloquently.

"Mom, how do you know so much, you don't see that you're still a spy?" Lu Xinyu was very surprised that her mother knew so much news.

"Kid, it's not surprising at all. Xiao Yang's mother really likes him, so she can't help but be curious and ask a few more words, don't interrupt and let your mother finish speaking. You also know that there are a lot of people chasing Ma Jing, why didn't anyone agree, but turned around and chased Xiao Yang? If you only say that she is hot with a shaved head, then why does the relationship between these two last longer than you and Xiao Yang, have you considered this? Although we can't compare it with families who do big business, the gap between young people is not necessarily reflected in families. Don't just be stunned and don't speak, you can't go out on a rainy day anyway, let's talk about it. ”

Mother looked at Lu Xinyu with a kind face, Lu Xinyu thought about it and said: "Maybe it's because I'm not as beautiful as others, or maybe I'm not good enough to be liked, or I don't have any value to use, Mom...... Don't beat around the bush, just tell me, my idea will be changed if there is one. ”

Lu Xinyu was coquettish again, and the mother deer shook her head helplessly, touched Lu Xinyu's head and said: "Silly child, beautiful and ugly are just a pair of skins, and the skins can only represent a moment, not a lifetime." You think the question is too extreme, what is not valuable, I really don't know who you learned these things from. Mom told you, it's not that you're not good enough, Mom thinks you're also quite likable, don't you think Xiao Cui is an example? In fact, there is no such profound knowledge, it is just two words - timing! ”

Seeing her daughter nodding incessantly, her mother thought that today's conversation was in place, so she stood up on the sofa and said, "Mom said that I was hungry, Mom will cook for you, we haven't eaten fried noodles for a long time, and it just so happens that there are still materials at home." ”

In the space where her mother was washing vegetables in the kitchen, Lu Xinyu squeezed into the kitchen again and asked, "Mom, then what if you say that I and Xiao Cui, what if we are not suitable?" The mother said while chopping vegetables: "Do you remember the story of the pony crossing the river in primary school Chinese class?" "It's like the mother deer said, when to say something. A decision can affect Lu Xinyu's life, and it is also a decision that can make the truth become history, and let the reasonable person ......