Chapter 265: The Strongest Among Women
Chen Runze had an epiphany, and immediately followed Xu Qing's light train of thought and said: "Since the probability of passing through the way of fair competition is very small, many people will send money away from the relationship."
"Exactly. Yes, you're right, it seems that you have understood. Xu looked at Chen Runze with appreciation, her eyes were full of tenderness, and she was really affectionate.
Xu Qingqiao wanted Chen Runze to understand a deeper game relationship, so he paused and said: "If you can think of this step, you will be able to understand the difficulty of the operation I just said in the next step."
"What do you mean? I still don't get it. What you said I was in the clouds, and now that I'm talking about it, I'm starting to get in the clouds again. Chen Runze said more and more suspiciously, he really didn't expect Xu Qingqing's logical thinking to be so strong. According to his analysis of previous experience, women think smoothly in imagery, and men have strong logical thinking, because women are emotional and men are rational. And now the situation is completely reversed, and he really can't understand it.
Xu Qingqiao took a closer look at Chen Runze's expression and found that he was all confused, and she couldn't help but want to laugh out loud. She couldn't bear to look at her beloved's painful thinking, she decided to tell him completely, and at the same time she also thought in her heart: This Chen Runze's thinking is too slow, I haven't said it deeper, he can't understand it, and he began to spin around, there is really him.
It seems that Xu Qingqiao has to wait for Chen Runze to straighten out before she can continue to talk to him, otherwise there will be no way to communicate, and the friends will not be able to play happily together. So Chen Runze fell into deep thought, while Xu Qingqiao looked at him affectionately, planning in his heart how to speak in an easy-to-understand manner.
Alas, Chen Runze really can't keep up with my rhythm, Xu Qingqiao said in his heart. She probably only waited for Chen Runze to think about it for ten minutes, and was ready to start talking.
Xu lightly slowed down his tone and asked, "Chen Runze, have you clarified it now?" I'm going to go on! ”
Xu Qingqing's question interrupted Chen Runze's imagination that he had been intoxicated with. Chen Runze came to his senses and said faintly: "Light, you go on, I have figured out everything in front." I went through it all over again in my head from beginning to end. ”
"If only you could understand. I'm going to explain to you right now how difficult it is to get into a relationship. If you want to get things done through relationships, you have to use money at the most basic level. And the crux of the matter is that if you can think of relationships, other companies will think the same way. So they all rushed to get away with the relationship and send money, so the problem came. Since they all do this, how much is the right amount to give? There is really no universal standard, but there is a principle, that is, the more the merrier.
Therefore, giving money is like filling a bottomless pit with stones, and there is no end to it. Once someone gives a little more than you, then all your efforts will be in vain, and in the end it will be a waste. Xu analyzed lightly and carefully, and when she said these words, she slowed down very slowly, feeling like watching a movie in slow motion.
Chen Runze listened to Xu Qingqiao say it for so long, and he felt more and more heavy, he felt as if a big stone was suddenly pressing on his heart at this time, and he felt heavy, which made him unable to let go.
When Xu Qingqiao saw Chen Runze's face pale, he knew that he had complicated things again. Because she knew that this matter was already very difficult, coupled with Chen Runze's psychological strengthening, she could feel it from the atmosphere. Because Chen Runze's aura is so powerful, his own mood changes, and through the air, inadvertently, infecting the people around him.
Xu Qingqiao thought that she had a solution, that is, to persuade him, so that he would not think deeper, and this would also prevent his thoughts from going astray, so Xu Qingqiao stroked the bangs on his forehead with his hand, breathed a deep sigh of relief, and said slowly: "Chen Runze, you don't have to be nervous, and don't join your thoughts with your own wishes, just listen to me objectively, and don't make any empathetic imagination."
Listening to Xu Qingqiao's persuasion, Chen Runze tried this method, it was really useful, he only used his ears to passively receive information, not subjective thoughts, so the effect was much better, he no longer had to be trapped in the whirlpool of thoughts. But the fly in the ointment is that Chen Runze feels as if he has become a robot, and those thoughts and behaviors that originally belonged to humans have become decorations.
Xu Qingqiao also observed the changes in Chen Runze's facial expression, and knew that he was much stronger now than just now, and it seemed that the method he had taught him had worked.
After seeing that Chen Runze's mood was stable, Xu Qingqiao began to continue: "I just talked about the issue of sending money, this is just one of them, and there is another one that we haven't talked about, that is, the level of relationship. Different networks, recognize people of different classes, and people of different identities. So, the number of floors to reach the top decision-maker is different. If you have to go through many layers of relationships, those layers will be passed on, and the money will be sent more and more, showing an inverted pyramid shape. Once one of the people in the layer is unwilling to continue to send it for you, the money in front of you will be wasted. ”
Chen Runze listened to her finish the last sentence, and hurriedly asked: "Light, it's too complicated, it's tricky enough in terms of hierarchical relationships, let alone going up." ”
"So now you understand, the reason why it is difficult to operate in the relationship that I told you at the beginning is like this." Xu said lightly and eloquently.
"Well, I see, I benefited a lot from what you said. But I feel that the water is too deep, very complicated, and I feel like I am in the abyss. Chen Runze said clearly in his heart.
"It's good to understand, that's basically it, the most testing thing is that although you have paid a lot in front of you, as long as something goes wrong in one link, all the money is spent in vain. None of these unspoken rules are on the table, so it's hard to grasp the degree. Xu said lightly, when it came to money, she didn't care at all.
When Xu Qingqiao said all the difficulties in these two aspects, Chen Runze had an overall cognition and understanding on the road of relationship bidding, which was still very helpful for his macro control. At the same time, Xu Qingqiao's many words made him understand that this road is a road of no return, as long as he comes to the beginning, he must go to the end. He felt that the road was like a river of troubled waters, and he would have to go there sooner or later anyway, because he would do whatever it took to complete the tasks assigned by his superiors.